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(@nowbarbara)
Estimable Member     Central IL, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

hello all. My name is Barbara and I’ve been xdressing for 50 years. Rarely do I go out dressed but I do on occasion when in a large city on a business trip by myself. I always under dress every day. This depends on my moods. 😃 some days just panties and some days bra, panties, garterbelt, and stockings. Some days just leggings.

We all have our struggles, but mine are mostly just tied to clothes and shoes. I’m 6-4 220lbs. So I must shop plus sizes. Shoes? Forget about it. I wear a women’s size 16-17 and I don’t want heels. I just don’t feel comfortable towering over others even more than normal.

I am lucky in that I have a girlfriend who embraces my dressing. She has researched it to learn more and now understands. I always pay close attention to the fine line that she is the woman of the house. When we get romantic I alter my clothes so that I’m not dressed enfemm every time we make love. She does love me in thigh highs!😍

i have already read many stories and like most of you, I can relate to them all. Embrace who you are!!!

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Hello Barbara, and welcome to CDH. I hope you will like it in here. 🙂

Have you ever thought about getting a couple of pairs of shoes handmade with an artisan/cobbler? A friend of mine with the same difficulty found one of them in a trip to Mexico and got several pairs of handmade shoes for about $50.00 usd per pair. It could be there or anywhere else.

In any case, glad that you joined!

Gaby   ♥

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(@Anonymous)
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Welcome Barbara,

And thank you

Sincerely;

Lisa Ann Watson 🙂

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(@elbereth)
Noble Member     Northampton, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi and welcome Barbara!  Very glad to have you here!  It is wonderful to hear that your gf is supportive in your dressing.  Also, totally understand about degrees of dressing, some nights a pair of leggings and a an oversized t-shirt is all one needs!   Please let me know if you have any questions!  hugs, Michelle

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Barbara, so nice meeting you. happy to hear about your accepting gf .it's wonderful to have support from someone so close to ones heart . My wife is certainly the queen bee in our household and she's been wonderful in accepting Stepf but one thing that is important and expected is when she wants, needs, and demands her husband to be front and center, there's no reason to  asked. That being said our relationship is wonderful and when I ask if stephanie can be out , she never had any problems. Happy to welcome you and enjoy being here with us .

Stephanie 🌹

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Barbara!

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(@cksasj)
Reputable Member     United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome to CDH

Thanks for sharing. I hope you find this community supportive and fun.

Hugs

Kayla

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