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It's me, Jonelle!

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(@jonelleferrao)
Active Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Ladies!

It's me, Jonelle!

For as long as I can remember, I've been fascinated by women's clothes, shoes, and accessories. Gender barriers have always seemed odd and unfair to me.

It took me a long time to accept that I'm a crossdresser and to finally embrace my feminine side. Seeing gender norms change has inspired me to just be me. Growing older has given me confidence to just be me.

I like wearing feminine fashions and feeling cute, trendy, sophisticated, bold, courageous, normal, and younger. The variety is exciting and fascinating compared to boring guy's attire. I think of myself as a fashion-forward-trendy guy.

My wife knows about this part of me. I know it's hard for her to make sense of it. She tries to be understanding in her own little ways.

My daughter knows. She's very supportive and encouraging.

I'm not exactly out to anyone else, though I think several family members and acquaintances have their suspicions.

I've stopped trying to hide this secret, but I'm not exactly trying to share this secret. I often run errands wearing flats, or open toe sandals showing off nail polish on my toes. Sometimes, I dare to wear a cutesy outfit out and about in my neighborhood. I'm at that point in life where I'm starting to not care "what if someone sees me".

I really just want to be me, Jonelle.

 

 

 

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(@crazycynthia)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Posts: 87

@jonelleferrao welcome to the site. Wow its refreshing to see someone so far along joining. Your very brave that your significant others are so in the know. Also the "F Them, im me" attitute is so cool. I wish i was more like that! Your going to love it here. Only nice girls ❤️

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1137

@jonelleferrao 

Welcome to CDH Jonelle!

 Your in the right place for all things feminine. You have a good start in your journey of femdom.

 Explore this site to find friendships, chat and answers to any you questions may have. 

 Your among Sister's who are supportive, caring and understanding. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2204

@jonelleferrao 

For as long as I can remember, I've been fascinated by women's clothes, shoes, and accessories. Gender barriers have always seemed odd and unfair to me.

You and most of us here, Jonelle! Welcome to the forums, as I see you joined some seven months ago.

Lots of our members enjoy just being here and that's great, there's no pressure to get involved. But, it's always good to see members introduce themselves and yours is a good introduction.

Of course, we like to get to know each other and would love to hear more from you but, if and when you're ready to share. You already know what life is like here so I'll just say, don't hesitate to ask if there's anything you need.

Allie x

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Duchess
(@gina5)
Reputable Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome Jonelle!  I just joined a few days ago, and I find all the girls here so supportive. You’re in the right place, and I hope you have more to share.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Jonelle, you have certainly joined a very supportive community of girls Hugs Lizzy 

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Jonelle -

Welcome to CDH. I like your attitude of not caring what others think. I'm getting to that point myself. I wear earrings 24/7, fingers and toes painted (fingers clear gel with pink tinge, toes with color) and on occasion will wear ankle boots when going out.

You be you and enjoy your journey.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya Jonelle nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. You know as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so do some reading of the forums and posts from s many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as you get more comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jonelle as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@Anonymous 99388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH Jonelle we are glad to have you. My wife is the same way trying to make sense of it. It was hard for me to make sense of it, but with the help of these lovely ladies I come to accept my true self. Just make sure to be honest and open with your wife.

Alexis Grace xx 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jonelle,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy looking around and reading through the forums.

Alice

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jonelle!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hello Jonelle .🎄🎄  So good to meet you, I so glad you joins us,  this is a very good place to be , lots of good nice kind gurls & support here. Awesome Place ... 

Would you like to be Friends , ???

Anytime you like to talk or chat , l lov to Chat 

Huggs 

Stephanie👠

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