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Ladies,
I am a guy. I smoke cigars, ride a motorcycle, and play poker at the neighborhood game. I don't consider myself trans-anything. I believe that I am bi-sexual. The reason for this belief is that I dream about having encounters with men. I have done so since I was young but never did much about it. I have kissed a guy and started to do something special once but chickened out. Now, I believe that I am ready, truly ready to have a relationship with a man.
My question is how do I approach him? How do I sound him out without letting him know initially that I am bi?
Is the direct approach best? Quite frankly that approach terrifies me. I guess one of the things I really want is for a man to think of me as a woman.
- Joni
Hi Joni,
You don't consider yourself trans, but want a man to think of you as a woman? I'm not sure what you meant by those conflicting words.
But, to hook up with a guy, you can either go to a gay bar... it's very easy to do and you'll have no problem meeting a guy there, even a guy that will accept you in womens clothes. If you are interested in a specific person, well, good luck. you have to find out if they are into this. You can talk about movies where there is a transwoman that gets into sexual favors... for instance Anger Management. Then say something crazy like you wouldn't mind that! It could be fun receiving a BJ from a guy, he might know some advanced techniques.
Good luck!
Theres lots of apps out there, you should try that. Ive been to gay bars fully dress. and the men didnt seam to want me there. good thing I was with my gay drag queen cousin.
Welcome Joni!
