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Just a quick hello and a little history

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(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Good day all,

I have stopped by here on occasion to look around and read some threads, look at some pictures, and just to get a feel for the place. I finally decided to join and hope I fit in.

Like many, I first tried on Mom's clothes when I was about 12 or so. No idea why, I just did. It was great fun, but as I recall I only did it once or twice. Then nothing for many years. I always loved pretty lingerie, and bought it and encouraged my girlfriends to wear it but never wore it myself.

One day i6ut of the blue while my soon to be wife was out of town I put on her panties and wore them all day. I admitted it to her on the phone that evening, and we ended up having phone sex.  Then, nothing again for a few years. One evening in bed having sex she removed her panties and I put them on and loved the feel. Another time it was her bra, and I slowly started wearing her cast off things more and more. We talked about it, and she simply said that it didn't do anything for her, but if I enjoyed it, fine. I have since graduated to wearing panties all the time, bras/stockings often, and chemise and other bits on occasion.

I started trying other clothing and make up slowly, bought a few things of my own, but kept that part private. She did see me once with lipstick and another time with long hair under a motorcycle  helmet. She never said anything, nor did I offer, so I suspect she knows to a certain degree, but doesn't really care. Someday I would like to be more open with her about it, but live is going along well with our present arrangement. It get to underdress all I want with her so I well leave it at that for now.

I have been out fully dressed only once, but have partially dressed several times. I like wearing skirts, and maybe a simple fem shirt without without projection. I have done one complete make over while on a visit to London, and went out to the theater partially dress (black stokings and a skirt) and partially made up (I toned down the lipstick color and eyeshadow) but left the rest. It was a wonderful evening walking about crowded London streets partially enfem.

I hope that is not TMI

 

Love,

JJ

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(@ohlivialivin)
Noble Member     Norfolk, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thanks for the brief bio JJ and a big welcome to you! If you've already been looking around you know what a welcoming bunch we can be.

EEnjoy being with us, and the femme as it feels right to you.

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

JJ welcome,  I enjoyed reading your intro. Much of what you have said in whole or in part has similarities in many of our girls here. I’ve joined back when as very new to this intriguing world began discovering what was on my heart well it seamed forever. The panties story, I love it and know of it so well as it happened to me lol... But here enjoy the company of so many in different levels of dressing  which allows me to explore this wonderful passion and at a place so comfortable and caring . My wife's support and allows Stephanie to out more. To share this I’m only now starting to enjoy as when I did tell my wife back then. But here you have many to chat with and best of all make wonderful friendships with. I enjoy meeting with so many lovely ladies and please say hi with are paths ever cross. Welcome. …

Stephanie 🌹

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

hello J.J. and welcome to C.D.H. us girls under stand and are very friendly. we all have been there. its nice that your wife lets you dress up to a degree.   some wife's are very under standing and some are not. my wife knows and lets me dress up but will not help or see me or be in the same room with her. but she lets me dress up and she has seen me getting dressed up.  i am confused about that part, she lets me dress up but will not let me sit in same room.  so i leave it that way and some day she will be more open and supportive.    feel free to read my profile it will tell how i started. i added you to my friends list

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 J J
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(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Thanks to all. I am looking forward to future interactions with you all.

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Hi..johnson,

Thanks for sharing your experince and welcome to CDH.

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(@pattyphose)
Famed Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Putting on that first garment that seems to call to you, often leads to trying more garments, then getting more garments and wanting to dress in them and wear them out.

I began wearing pantyhose at 4 with pumps and a shirt that looked like a short dress. At 13 I began buying my own pantyhose. At 17 I wore pantyhose out with guys shorts and clothes. Soon after I bought some short shorts and platform wedges. I wore that out to buy more shoes and pantyhose. A year later I was buying everything fem and going out.

 

You sound a lot like me and a lot of others here.

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome JJ!

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello JJ !

Welcome to CDH ! Your intro is wonderful. Not TMI at all. I wish everyone shared as much in their intro. CDH is a wonderful site and many of us have stories very similar to yours. The ladies here share their support, advice and tips with each other. We are pretty friendly so don't be shy. Feel free to participate in the forums and chatroom. It's the best way for us to get to know you and for you to get to know us.

Hugs

Autumn

 

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(@paula1)
Prominent Member     Newport, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 9 years ago

HI JJ what a Great intro welcome

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(@amylove2dress)
Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome, JJ. Nice see you joined up. I was a big step for me too joining up here, but I'm glad I did.

My story is much the same as yours, and being here has helped me to accept myself much more.

Amy

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