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I've only been here about a week and all you girls have already become so important to me. I'm actually getting a little emotional writing this, which is a problem because I'm at work right now. 🤣💋
I was conflicted, confused, unsure. I would dress up and feel so good, have so much fun, but afterward I'd feel guilty, like I had just wasted hours I could have been doing something else. You girls have made me feel so much better about myself. I still have some of those feelings but not nearly as much or as bad. I've ordered some new dresses, makeup, a couple new pieces for my boudoir wardrobe. Retail therapy, right ladies!?
But it's not just about the dressing. It's the support, the girltalk...OhMyGod I love the girltalk, even when I can't be dressed. One of you said in a reply to me that we are all en femme somewhere inside even if we are drab outside. That is so true. I'm sorry I don't remember who said it so I can give you proper credit.
Anyway, Thankyou. Thankyou. Thankyou, to all my new girlfriends and all the girlfriends I haven't met yet. I just want to hug every one of you! oh, here come the tears again.💕
XOXOXO
💖Lola
Hi Lola,
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I have felt the very same way, only about 2 weeks for me being here, the support and girl talk is way above what i expected. When I signed up, I was very unsure of myself and my feminine side, now I have just wemt into public dressed and feeling empowered as the woman that i know i can be.
Thank you everyone 💓
Michelle ((((big hugs)))
Hi Lola I just want to say welcome to CDH x
We have all had the same feelings as you about dressing up i know i have,
It's a feeling of elation when we get to put our favourite clothes on even for only a little while and then the guilt comes after and the shame too,
It's just the way we have been raised boys wear boys clothes and girls wear girls clothes,
On this site we don't do guilt or shame we are all sisters on here and we support each other x
Hugs Roz xxxxx
Hi Lola.
So pleased you are enjoying the site....and the girls. It's all about the unique experience here...the advice and the fun ....something for everyone....
Just be the girl whenever you can.....dream the girl whenever you can't
Huggs, grace x
You go, girl! As long as they're happy tears....
Oh so happy
Hi Lola, That's what sister's & friends do build each other up. Don't let anyone put you down for any reason.am glad you did some shopping, enjoy.
Text you later,
Jennifer Ramirez
Thanks Grace. I love reading your posts in the forums!
Thank you....you are very kind x
Thanks as always sweetie! You have been so kind to answer my many questions! I just hope to become a valuable part of this sisterhood and help others the way I've been helped.
💖Lola
Hi Lola I know that I’ve found a home here with all the girls and I can tell you feel the same. I’ve haven’t been this sure of myself in years. Stay strong girl. 💋💕 Katie
Hi Lola, I just had to respond to this.
I have said it before, but I will say it, again and again, this site not only changed my life, it saved it, and my sanity as well.
Home(here), is where we belong
Hugs, Regine👸💕
Hi Lola so happy for you girl we all love and care for all we are all girls at heart .. Some get to be 24/7 some not so much but that does not change the feelings that are in our hearts .. We have to live as we can in the closet or in the home and so envious of the ones who get to enjoy life out in the world as the beautiful women they are ,, And you will be there some day as i will some day good luck sweet friend ..
Stephanie
Lola, thank you thank you for such a heartwarming post! I love that, and I love that you finally rid yourself of that "this is wrong", or "this ain't normal" feeling. Pish posh. We're all here to prove that this is right, and this is normal. It's a nice feeling to banish those silly thoughts, isn't it? 🙂
And, of course, the girls here make it sooo easy to relax and make it a great place to be yourself. ❤
Stevie
