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Hi, just joined yesterday so here’s a bit about me. Ive always been kind of in between on just about everything it seems. I am a middle child, I was born on the cusp and that seems to play out throughout my life. I wish I could not care so much about what people think about me. Seems like I’m always trying to conform to how I “should” look and feel. Well no more. I want to be me. Just me, for once. I always have had an excuse and hopefully now I can stop with the excuses and be free once and for all. I will be 52 next month. I was married most of my adult life, kids are grown and gone. So its just me now..... whew! 😉 Thank you for for making me feel welcome here, its a good feeling. When I woke up this morning it was the first thing I though of. I’m great-full to be here.
I love that post girl! Welcome to CDH. It also took me far too long to be the person I " should " be. Too many years of making others happy instead of myself.
Hope you get settled in soon, looking forward to chatting with you!
Stevie
Welcome Cammie
It is lovely and supportive here. You have arrived and all the baggage goes away
Enjoy
Averyl 💐
Cammie
Wonderful to have you here with us. Many girls to chat ,make friends with and much to read through our forums and such. So get settled and start enjoying being part of a place to express your inner feelings and share them with gals that support and understand our needs for dressing. Happy to welcome you here with us. Hugs!
Stephanie 🌹
Hi cammie, welcome to CDH. You and I have a lot in common. I am also a middle child. I was also born on the cusp. I'll be 56 on the 23rd of August. I spent most of my life trying to figure out who I was. Finally a little over 6 years ago, I was able to admit to myself that I was different from everyone else and excepted it. It cost me my marriage, but I have since found someone who accepts me for who I am. It was a very hard thing to do, but worth it. Please feel free to contact me on here if you have any questions.
Your newest sister
Sophia
Welcome Cami
Hppe you have fun exploring the site. We are a similar age, and I feel in the America’s place. Finally able to be who WE want to be, not who we are supposed to be! And thankful everyday to still be healthy and full of life, it’s wonderful to be alive!
Love your hair❤️
❤️B
Aww your so sweet! Thank you!
You gave me “chills”! Wow. You are so blessed to have found someone that accepts the real you! Like I said in my bio. It was “tolerated” but it never felt comfortable and now I am free to be me. I hope to find someone someday that will love me for who I am too.
Hi Cammie,
A welcome from the U.K., it is lovely to meet you.
I think you may of hit on something about being in the middle, I am a middle child and always felt that I didn’t really fit in and perhaps I took too much notice of what other people thought and sidelined myself. Never too late to change.
I hope you find many friends, the ladies are really lovely. I am always happy to chat so please feel free to get in touch.
Jessica x.
Hi Cammie, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community. Love your profile picture! You have completed the major accomplishments of this physical life. Married, raised children supported them and I presume their mother/your wife. Found out what it is like to live as a man on a competitive evolving world such as the Earth! Now you are 51 and on your own and free to embrace a feminine persona that you probably have always had. Now for whatever years you may have left on the planet (and that may be quite a few) you can live as the person you believe you are and totally enjoy life. I did not find out about Teralynn until I was 51 and now I am pushing 71 and from the moment I first dressed up as her and looked in the mirror I knew that she had been part of me all the time just waiting to be recognized! I am glad you found us and decided to become a member. Being an active member here will allow you to take advantage of all the wonderful benefits CDH has to offer. There are literally not enough hours in a day to accomplish all that I would like to do on this site. The girls here are welcoming, friendly and supportive. You can ask questions, share experiences, get to know some of our terrific members and make a few friends that you’ll want to keep in touch with. If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Hi Cammie and welcome to CDH. I'm very glad you joined our happy little family. Have a look around the site and where you feel comfortable, join in.
For far too long I cared too much about what people thought about me in all aspects of my life. When I decided to start changing that I took the song I've Got To Be Me as my theme song. I still have some ways to go (just a few weeks ago I admitted to my girlfriend that I talked like I ate Stephen Hawking's work dictionary and the entire collected works of Ms. Manners for breakfast) but the change in me is already huge. It brings such a feeling of peace and ease that I hope you can find for yourself.
CDH is a great place to start being the person you want to become. That's what I did, although I didn't realize I was quite that close to being this way in person. The girls here are very supportive and nonjudgmental. Starting with talking about your transgender experience is a great way to test the waters.
Hi Cammie,
Welcome! This is a great place to meet others and spread your wings!
Kay
Hi Cammie,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Welcome Cammie, very nice profile pic.
Being true to yourself and unloading the stress of trying to BE for everyone else can certainly help make us both happier and healthier. Make yourself comfortable with us and spread your wings. For me, being on my own while I figured some of this out was important and powerful, I'm in a much better position with myself which helps make me a better partner for my very supportive SO.
Olivia
Well thank you! And thank you for the lengthy welcome. Everyone here is really nice and I’m shocked at how many people are so open and friendly, like you. I hope that I can be as helpful to someone new here like you all were to me.