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I have dabbled every now and again in cross dressing but now, in later life, I have gone into it little more. I'm never going to pass as a woman and will probably never go out dressed as one but I feel very comfortable wearing clothes at home. Perhaps one day I might go on one of the local Pride marches as there I can go as anything I want without judgement. My wife is on board with this and looks for things on the internet I might like to wear and we occasionally go shopping for jewellery and accessories. The only downside is that I have a light beard and cannot shave it off because she says that I look like my mother. I have shaved it before and she is right, and I was wearing men's clothing then, so dressed in a dress or skirt would be just too weird now; we just ignore the fact that it's there. I do wear women's perfume when I go out -- a version of Dior's Poison, so it's not subtle -- and also wear ladies bangles and necklaces but no one seems to ask me about it or bats an eyelid because they are used to me being a bit strange as my beard is often dyed blue and I wear shorts and odd socks -- have done for years. I shave my head too so don't have to be concerned about hiding my natural hair when wearing a wig. It would be nice to go out as a woman (without a beard!) but I'm too old now, I am bandy-legged, and I have a very lined face that all the foundation in the world wouldn't cover.
And that's about it for now.
Hi Rebecca
Welcome to CDH from another member of the UK crew, and thank you for the introduction. Loving the blue beard!
You'll find that this is a very warm and supportive community. I've been a member for a little over six months. I absolutely love it here and I know that you will too.
There's lots to explore. Enjoy having a good poke around and shout out if you need help.
Hugs
Ellie x
Hi Rebecca, I’m Rebecca in the Cotswolds. I joined about 3 years ago and mostly sat on the sidelines just browsing here occasionally. But then a few months ago I started getting more involved and that has been much more rewarding. So explore and enjoy!
Rebecca xxx
@rebeccabaxter Welcome to CdH from another UK girl living in Somerset just up the road.Secret mature crossdresser who is married and in the closet.Love wearing panties skirt bralette and top.
Enjoy the site I have for the last 2 years
I'm very lucky in that my wife not only knows about me but is actively involved in my activities, she even painted my toenails last night -- that was a very pleasant experience -- but I'll probably have to do it myself more often than not. Over the last 37 years of being together we have done a lot as a couple so this just another episode in the varied lives we have led.
@rebeccabaxter Welcome to CDH, Rebecca!
A bald head and a blue beard? That could pass, no problem. 🥸
Kidding aside, I know what you mean. While I may not be bald, everyone knows me with a moustache. That creates limitations and, with the way that I dress, attracts attention.
Enjoy your new home here at CDH.
@rebeccabaxter Hi Rebecca, it is lovely to meet another CD in the UK. I live in Surrey but can claim Cornish grandparents! I hope you enjoy this site and find it as useful as I have.
Janet x
@rebeccabaxter Hi Rebecca
Nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With a word of knowledge here to access and learn from please look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they travel on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Rebecca as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you ..Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Rebecca, welcome to CDH.
Good to greet another UK girl to the site. I'm up north in Tyne & Wear.
It's brilliant that you have the support of your wife, she sounds like a real treasure. It makes such a difference to have that sort of relationship.
All the girls here love to chat, so if you have any questions, stories to share, or just want to vent, go for it!
Sounds like you have an eclectic enough look to wear just about anything. I have worn a skirt around town in otherwise drab mode, and when I was just in the UK, mostly Scotland, I had cabernet red mails and nobody cared other than the occasional compliment.
Hi Rebecca,
Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family,
I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on, I'm still in the closet to my wife and family,
I'm a UK girl too I'm up in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 👗 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗
Hi Rebecca,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Rebecca,
welcome to Crossdresser Heaven. I’m new too.
Joan
Rebecca,
Welcome to this lovely community!
Lara
Hi Rebecca and welcome to CDH 🙂
I've not long joined also, from the Home Counties area. There seem to be quite a few UK girls on here.
Fiona
xxx
Hi Rebecca I've just joined too, from Derbyshire. Lots of things you said rang bells for me. Also Rozalyn. I too could never dream to pass as a woman and wouldn't really want to. So it's the closet for me especially as my wife has no idea and she's never been too into fem clothes herself. Decided I'd give it a go again as New Year Resolution so have been to the sales and found just enough to make me enjoy dressing again. Not quite sure what I will do next! Anyway lovely to meet you all. Julia
@pleasancer Hi Julia
Welcome to CDH 🙂
I'm one of the Forums Hostesses (mostly here to say hi and circulate taking drinks orders). If you want to start a thread of your own and do a proper formal introduction I can give you a hand with that. Just say the word and I'll drop you a private message.
Meanwhile ... lovely to have you here!
Hugs
Ellie x
@ellyd22 \hi Elly, thanks for your kind message. Yes I'd like to consider that so any hints you have would be helpful. xo Julia
@ellyd22 Thanks for the welcome Elly - will think about what I want to say but might just browse a bit more first. It all feels really friendly though. And thanks for your posting about First Friday in another thread too. x Julia
Hi Julia,
Just wanted to chip in here with a quick welcome! This site is really friendly, a sisterhood of understanding and support, with plenty of experience to draw on. It's NOT a dating site, as some online reviews have labelled it!
Our situations seem quite similar, so feel free to PM me if you want to exchange notes or just have a chat.
Hi Rebecca!
Welcome to CDH!
I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.
Again, welcome to CDH!
Catherine
