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Keeping a Never Forgotten Promise

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Lady
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(@floral)
Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

I'm way long in the tooth but when I was a young boy I always had an urge to be a young girl. When I was a young man I continued to harbor the same feeling and though I lived my entire life as a straight alpha male I feel it's time to explore the feminine side. I'm single for the first time in my life and the promise I made to myself all those years ago is now about to come true. So, here I am ready to take the plunge and become the woman I always wanted to be.

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@floral 

Hi, Floral, you've found the best place to share, and get support with, letting your previously hidden woman out!

I know exactly the feeling of seeing the woman inside become real in the mirror! It only gets better 😊.

CDH is like a big family, we celebrate each other's successes and offer support if times are difficult. I've never seen an online community like it.

Don't hesitate to ask if there's anything you need, we'll do our best to help.

So, enjoy exploring your new home from home and welcome to the family 😊.

Allie x

 

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@alexina Thanks for reaching out. It does seem to be a safe haven for like minded souls seeking the inner wonder of femininity.

 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1334

@floral 

 Welcome to CDH, Floral!

  You've came to the right place for all things feminine. Along with caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We're here to support and assist you in any way we can!

 Explore this site to find friendships, chat, information, tutorials, videos and answers to your questions.

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

  Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@gafran I like that, "The Pink Fog". I'm going to steal and use it.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1334

@floral 

 The Pink Fog is a gift that keeps on giving! 🥰

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Lady
(@julie51)
Joined: 1 month ago

Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 80

@floral Hi Floral Welcome to this wonderful community Best wishes on your journey 💕

Julie

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@julie51 Thanks Julie for the open hearted welcome. It comes through and is comforting more than you know.

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Duchess Annual
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 796

@floral embrace it Floral, it can no longer be denied nor should the feeling be denied.  Make yourself happy, and this site will certainly help you to do just that.  Just remember, the desire to crossdress never leaves for good, it may come and go, but never leaves.

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@jennconn You are one hundred percent right about the feeling never quite going away. It was woven into my DNA and while I was able to ignore it I always knew it was there. Like a silent visitor who refused to leave she sat there in the corner, smiling at me with that all-knowing look of a lover waiting for me to return to her arms.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1257

@floral Congratulations on fulfilling a long time promise to yourself.  I hope it gives you nothing buy enjoyment and exhilaration!

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     Blearmill, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 190

@floral good for you!   Enjoy discovering yourself!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5408

@floral 

Hi Floral

Welcome to CDH!

Sorry I'm a little late with my greeting but I've been tied up with other areas of the site 🙂

I think you'll love it here - it's a very safe and accepting space.

Have fun exploring, and if you need help with anything at all then don't be afraid to ask.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

@floral Welcome! Better late than never, girl!

You can find lots of helpful info in the Forum as well as popping in to the chat to ask or just listen. There are literally centuries of total experience here! 😉

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@melodeescarlet @floral 

There are literally centuries of total experience here!

And that's only three of us! 😂

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 1153

@alexina Hey girl, I've only got 2, so....maybe you need to check your math. 😆

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@melodeescarlet 

But I didn't mention which three I had in mind.

No point in me checking any math, I'm a wordsmith, not a mathsmith. "Mathsmith", sounds like I have a cold!

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 1153

@alexina Hey, it works. I've often referred to myself as a 'peopleer'. LOL

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@melodeescarlet 

Classic!

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@alexina Mathsmith sounds more like a backwater town out on Long Island.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@floral 

Smile

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1498

@alexina Mathsmith played one of the newer regenerations of Dr. Who, didn't he?

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

Ha ha! Almost, Fluff, almost.

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@melodeescarlet Thanks for touching base. So many kind and caring souls reaching out to be there when needed. I look forward to being a part of the community.

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Flora and I hope you have a lovely time here.

There are many who are 'long in the tooth' here and wonder if it should be renamed 'Sabre tooth heaven'.

Like you I had that same feeling when younger and it was only later in life when I decided enough was enough and when conditions allowed I chased the dream to make myself the woman I always was.

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@ab123 Thanks for the words of encouragement. I truly appreciate them. With age cometh wisdom. Or so they say. The wisdom of my heart is telling me I'm on the right path.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH! There are a lot of helpful, friendly ladies here so don't hesitate to ask questions. Follow what your heart is telling you and you will wind up being a much happier, contented human. I have, as well as many others here, so don't worry, it can be done. Enjoy!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya Floral so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from .. Well girl do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts here.. They are from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Floral as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl as there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. When you feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks Sunshine state girl from another former Florida girl.. As i moved away working on 18 years now moved to Montana but was born and raised in Winter Haven So say hello sometime and once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@fishingr8 Thanks for your wonderful post. I moved to Florida just as you were leaving. I'm in Lake Worth and I love it here. The New York City weather was and remains appalling. If I live a thousand years and never see a snowflake that would be all right with me. The only glimpse of winter I want to see is on the Weather Channel. As for fleshing out my journey I must admit I'm finding it a bit cumbersome in navigating the site. I'm certain this is temporary so my apologies for not being as active as most. Once I've acclimated to the community I will be more active.Till then stay well and lovely.

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 6106

@flora

lHey girl been thru your area many times on travels thru state so we moved back to a old family home with 20 acres to roam in .. Kind of crazy moving up to the cold country from hot Florida but so peaceful here nearest neighbor is 3 miles away in any direction.. woke this morning to 28 below zero 🥶🥶 ha ha .. stay warm ha ha ..

Stephanie

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Floral,

Welcome to CDH from another that’s long in the tooth.  Enjoy your journey trying new outfits and letting your inner girl run free.

Alice

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@aliceunderwire Thanks for the welcome. It seems everybody is so supportive. It's a true breath of fresh air. I'm loving it.

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi Floral  ,

Welcome to CDH!, I'm so glad to see you here , !!!

Huggs 💓
Stephanie 👠

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@stephanieann Thank you for the kind welcome. It's much appreciated. The sense of freedom in fully expressing the feminine side of my being is both exciting and scary if you know what I mean. I've been closeting the girl within me for so long that I'm almost afraid of what she will be like. In any case, we will see what we shall see. Stay well and lovely.

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Joined: 3 months ago

Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Posts: 642

@floral 

🍒🍒 Floral,    

    Hay Girl , Don't you worry at all about that we all each one of have gone through the and that feeling a one-time in our life  it a normal thing !!   Both being so exciting and so scary at the same time,  you get use to it,  even enjoy it, and look back and smile !!

Yes,  we will see what we shall see.

Its a Beautiful Amazing Journey,  Enjoy it Girl

Big Huggs

Stephanie

 

❤️
😂
😉
🤷‍♀️
🙏
👍
🥰
❤️
 
 

 

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Floral -

Welcome to CDH. I'm another long toother who started later in life and have fully embraced my femininity. You'll find this to be a wonderful place to make friends, get advice and share your journey.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
Topic starter
(@floral)
Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Thanks for the encouragement. It means a lot. I'm just feeling myself around the site and it may take some time before i become comfortable with everything. But, I'm a quick learner and I'm jampacked with enthusiasm.

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Floral, just wanted to give you a big hello and welcome you to CDH. 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@floral)
Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Thanks for the big hello. Much appreciated. I'm bouncing around here trying to figure out how the site works. It seems a very welcoming community and I'm so glad I found you guys. It's wonderful.

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Lady
(@nataliecd)
Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Floral! I am sorry to hear about you recently being single but I am glad you are looking at the positives and looking to explore things about yourself further. As a lot of others have mentioned, you will find a lot of good friends here and a lot of experience with this sort of thing. I wish you the best as you continue this journey you've set yourself on 🙂

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Lady
Topic starter
(@floral)
Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Much appreciated. I must admit that I venturing forth with some trepidation as I don't know what awaits me. Maneuvering this site has me a bit on the ropes but I'll eventually get the hang of things. I posted something earlier but I don't see where it went. Basically, I was asking for help in finding a resource like London's "Boyswilbegirls" which is a one-stop shop for those seeking a guiding hand in assembling the right approach to dressing to the needs of the inner girl. I'm here in SE Florida and such resources are rare to say the least. 

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Duchess
(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Floral!

Welcome to CDH!

To get the most out of this site I suggest you remember the 3 Ps.

Participate, Participate and Participate!

The ladies at CDH are happy to help in any way they can.

Hugs,

Autumn

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Lady
(@floral)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Lake Worth, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 16

@augustvaliant Thanks for the advice. I'm finding this community to be exceedingly polite, welcoming and helpful. I'm glad I found here.

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

🌞🌞 Hi   Floral  ,

     I see your doing well  & meeting a lot of new friends .

       I'm  so glad you here Now    !!

    Huggs 🍒
    Stephanie👠

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