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hello girls. I’m happy to find this spot. I wish that the world could be more open. But we all know that’s a long time away. My soon to be xwife has decided to take aim at me. We have always been behind closed doors except for one time in New Orleans and I was a rookie at my craft during that moment(that was scary). Now she is threatening me with my secrets. Any advice?
Thanks, Julie xoxo
Hi Julie. This is a bad move, dear. Your wife is clearly vindictive. I am no legal specialist, but I would think you could either beat her to it and come out to your best friends, or let her go ahead and plead freedom of expression. Or both. It all depends on what you stand to loose...
Good luck honey.
Thinking of you,
Catarina
So sorry that you find yourself in this situation - I really hope it works out for the best eventually - I'm sure it will!
Stay positive and look to the brighter future.
If you're going through hell, keep going.
Love.
Laura.
hard to give advice not knowing all the dynamics of the marriage. Can you run and start a new life in a town 75 miles away....
Lisa
I would also add, if you can, and feel ready, try to open up to friends and family so that the "weapons" are effectively removed :0)
I understand - your situation is probably very difficult, like too many of us, but consider it.
Love
Laura
hi Julie. I think this type of thing has to be a cross dressers worst nightmare. there are so many factors here such as would your wife really do such a nasty thing, or could you take the stigma and simply shrug it off (you sound like that is not an option). I really sympathise with you Julie, crossdressing should never be classed as something that should be stigmatised but society (I hate that word) has made it that way. it may well just all blow over but if it doesn't then you have some big decisions to make. there really is no easy answer to this one I can see, other than an injunction against your wife to silence her, but that in itself could create further issues because you obviously would have to tell your lawyer about your cross dressing which would be very uncomfortable for you. I really hope this sorts itself out without any distress to you.
love fiona xxx
