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Hello I’m Nicole a gender queer person looking for friends in the cross dressing queer community. Over the past year I’ve started to get into wearing skirts but I am still very new to the cross dressing community, and probably aren’t very good at it.
@duchess Hi Nicole, welcome to the warm, supportive sisterhood that is CDH. Please, don't have any worries about how 'good' you might or might not be at cross-dressing. There are girls here at every stage from under-dressing to full MTF transition, and every expression of our femininity is equally valid 🙂 Have a look around the site, there's loads of information to help you if you need it, and do dive in and come and chat with us about anything and everything, CD-related or not!
Hugs,
Fiona xxx
Hi, Nicole and welcome to the family.
As Fiona says, don't worry about being "good" at crossdressing, the point is how it makes you feel. You've come to the right place to learn though, there's a wealth of experience here, not to mention ages, sizes, goals etc etc.
You are welcomed and accepted for who you are and if you have any questions, just ask and you'll get loads of help.
Spend some time reading through the forums and our profiles, you'll get a feel for the community and it'll help you to decide what you want to put in your own profile.
Have fun!
Allie
Welcome to CDH, Nicole!
I have trouble with tops due to chest so mainly stick to skirts
You have piqued my interest here.
@duchess Hey Nicole, welcome aboard. We all have to start somewhere & you picked the best place to do it. Enjoy the ride
Sasha
Hi Nicole,
Welcome to CDH.
If you’re looking for supportive friends, you needn’t look any further. You’ll find a whole family of them here.
There’s definitely no need to worry about how ‘good’ you are at crossdressing. As Fiona has already pointed out, there are people here at every possible stage in dressing, so you’ll fit in perfectly.
We’re also very happy to help with anything. Have a good look around the site, there’s loads to see, and plenty of stories to read.
If you need help with anything, feel free to ask, either on the forums, or by PM
Hugs
Lucy xxx
Hey Nicole
Welcome to CDH 🙂
Fiona and Allie nailed it when they said that it really doesn't matter whether or not you're 'any good' at crossdressing. Thankfully there's no rule book or set of international standards, and even more thankfully there's no judging panel. If anyone ever tries to form one, I'll personally jump up and down on all of their scoring cards.
Also, skirts rock 🙂
Have fun looking round the site, don't be a stranger, and if you need help with anything just ask.
Hugs
Ellie x
I am still very new to the cross dressing community, and probably aren’t very good at it.
As other girls have said, you don't need to concern yourself with how 'good' you are crossdressing. Your presentation will improve with time if that's important to you.
BUT....you already ARE quite good at the single most important aspect of crossdressing. And that is the awareness and acceptance that this is who you are. Self-acceptance is HUGE for every girl. When you get there, your world will change. That's where you're at. Be proud of who you are, Hon.
Welcome to the sisterhood!
/LK
@duchess Welcome to CDH! Remember you're dressing for yourself and nobody else so it's not about being good, it's about feeling good in yourself.
Hugs,
Anna
Hey Nicole, you're very welcome. CDH is all about supportive friends. The girls here cover the whole spectrum of crossdressing and will be more than happy to chat and support you. Have a look through the forums and you'll see what I mean. Oh, and pop a few details into your profile when you're ready as that's where the girls will look to get to know you a bit better. Join in and have fun girl!
Hugs, Chrissie xx.
@chrisfp99 thanks I just started updating my profile. Can’t wait to start this new chapter in my life
Welcome Nicole
Thanks
Welcome, there are lots of supportive ladies here in all various stages of their cross dressing journey. We are all a work in progress
Welcome. Glad you made it here!
Hi Nicole & welcome from me! 
You do not say what part of Missouri you are in. I may not be too very far from you & regularly visit groups of girls west of me.
You have found a fabulous place and hope to see you around here..
Emily
@emilysouthern Im in northernwestern MO not too far away from Iowa or Nebraska.
Hi Nicole,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
THanks
Hi Nicole nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here and sorry I'm a little late to your welcome party so do some looking around and reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life .. So girl when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Nicole as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now girl as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. So once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hi Nicole, I, like Stephanie, might be a bit late to the welcoming party, but let me extend a very warm welcome to you and say how happy we are to wish another sister all the best as she embarks on her great adventure into womanhood. There really is nothing that compares. Many of us have years of experience that we can gladly pass on to you, but we all started at some point, and that is where you are now. Happy travels on your new journey!
Hugs,
Ms. Lauren M
