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Hi everyone! I’m Catie! I’m a 30 year old married closeted crossdresser, and I am ready to try to fully embrace my feminine side. I have been dressing for many years now, but I recently have come to terms with the fact that I need to be less shameful about Catie.
I am located in Virginia and I’d love to talk to the wonderful ladies of this site to listen to their experiences and just chat about anything. Do not hesitate to chat with me!
I’m looking forward to getting to know you all!
Catie
Hi Catie, welcome to CDH.
There's no need to feel shameful at all in expressing your feminine side. I know that there are challenges facing the married crossdresser, and things can be difficult at times. Rest assured, there are many of us in pretty much the same situation as you, so remember that you are not alone. Far from it!
Explore the site to see what there is - and there is a lot! Don't hesitate to ask questions or seek advice. You're part of a super supportive sisterhood here!
Hi Catie and welcome to CDH.
Being a married, closeted Crossdresser does have its challenges.
You’ll find it’s not uncommon here, so you’re in good company.
Feelings of shame are also quite common, but recognising that you need to move on from that is a good start, as is joining this site.
You’ll quickly realise that you’re far from alone in this journey.
We’re a very friendly and supportive group, so feel free to ask anything that you may want to know about. I’m sure you’ll soon feel at home here.
Lucy
@lucyb112 Thank you for those kind words! I’m soooo hopeful that I am able to find the warm and supportive community I need to be able to fully accept myself! I cannot wait to get to know you all!
@catiecrossdresser Hi Catie, I've been married for almost 50 years and now am finding my em femme side as a crossdresser. You will find a number of us here at CDH and terrific support!
xxx
Jamie
@catiecrossdresser Hi, Catie, welcome to CDH, you'll find us a friendly and helpful bunch.
Whatever your situation, there's loads of others here who are or have been in exactly the same place so there's plenty of help and advice.
Allie x
@catiecrossdresser welcome, all of your sisters here have similar stories. Yes , you are in our sisterhood. We are supportive and helpful, never judge mental. You are home!
@catiecrossdresser Finally told my wife after 22 years of marriage fortunately for me it went well. even though there are so many different stories everyone here relates , is understanding and supportive its real therapy. Welcome. RC
@river Thank you River! I’m so happy for you! I’m both excited and nervous to see how this all goes and I am feeling the support from this community already!
Hi Catie
Welcome to CDH 🙂
This is a very warm and supportive community. I've been a member since last July, and I absolutely love it here.
You're already experiencing a proper CDH welcome. Hopefully some of our members in Virginia will make contact.
Enjoy exploring the site! If you need help with anything, don't be shy about asking.
Hugs
Ellie x
@ellyd22 Thank you so much! I appreciate it and yes everyone has been so sweet and supportive!
@catiecrossdresser Welcome to CDH, Catie!
"I am married to a wonderful woman that is traveling this journey with me"
Your profile shows that your SO doesn't know, so I hope that you've got this straight. If she is onboard with you, then be very clear with your communication with her.
Enjoy CDH.
@harriette yes she knows, but isn’t fully accepting yet. So I need to update my profile still lol
Hi Cathie,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Catie, welcome to CDH! Everyone here is very friendly and supportive. Feel free to speak up if you need anything.
-Sophie
Hey Catie
welcome to CDH. It’s a great site for sharing and learning.
Hugs
Christine
Hiiii Catie
And welcome to CDH...
I'm quite new my self. though located in Denmark, so a bit far away.
I'm also married and have a child. ( But she knows, but doesn't really see it much, but she tried to accept it the best way she can )
You can always hit me up in a PM
Love and hugz
Davina
@davinasimba thank you Davina! It’s good to know that there are others going through similar challenges as me and that we can hopefully support each other through these times!
@catiecrossdresser Always Hun <3 <3
You just reach out and i'm sure a lot would be there and express there's experiences and help as good as they can.. or just talk about life and what not 😀 ( Me Inclusive )
Hi Catie~
Welcome to CDH. You have come to the perfect place to explore your femininity. There are so many lovely ladies here to chat and share with.
Denise
❤️
Catie -
Welcome to CDH
XOXO
Suzanne
Hi Catie
I have been married 53 years and have 3 kids. My partner knows I dress but does not support me. Where there is a will, there is a way.
@ria wow! 53 years is a long time! I’m sure it hasn’t been easy for you, as for me it feels so impossible already so early in this journey.
There have been many bumps along the way but we have survived. I tried to leave my female side hidden away but she is too strong.
Welcome to CDH Catie, This is a great place to explore your femininity. There are lots of supportive Women here to support you.
@kimberlyannvictoria thank you Kimberly! I already feel the support! I hope it helps me get through all of this!
Hi Catie.
Welcome to CDH, a very friendly, understanding and supportive community. A place where you can feel free. I am a sexagenarian. Sometimes we find it difficult to break habits. I haven't come out of the closet either, I prefer a discreet life, but since I joined CDH I feel free and more feminine, and I move forward on my journey, after accepting myself fully.
I should chat more frequently.
Gisela
@firefly thank you Gisela! I hope I can feel the same and accept myself in the near future!
Hi Catie,
This is a great place to help out with finding your way on your journey. Feel free to reach out, and ask questions, or just chat, everyone is very helpful, and friendly here.
Welcome!
Lara
Hi Catie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Catie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
@fishingr8 thank you for the warm welcome Stephanie! I’m so excited to be able to express myself on here and share with you all!
Welcome - You are so far ahead in coming to terms with your feminine side so early in life…I hid it for so many years - you have the chance to be you for the rest of your life! 
@rachaelkendall562 aww thank you so much! I keep thinking the same to myself, I have so much more life to live and I cannot continue to bury this beautiful side of me!
Love pic u r beautiful
Hi Cathie,
Welcome to CDH.
Joan
