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Lady
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(@catiecrossdresser)
Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi everyone! I’m Catie! I’m a 30 year old married closeted crossdresser, and I am ready to try to fully embrace my feminine side. I have been dressing for many years now, but I recently have come to terms with the fact that I need to be less shameful about Catie.

I am located in Virginia and I’d love to talk to the wonderful ladies of this site to listen to their experiences and just chat about anything. Do not hesitate to chat with me! 

I’m looking forward to getting to know you all! 

Catie

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1254

@catiecrossdresser Welcome to CDH Catie

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 4 months ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1054

@catiecrossdresser 

Hi Catie, welcome to CDH.

There's no need to feel shameful at all in expressing your feminine side. I know that there are challenges facing the married crossdresser, and things can be difficult at times. Rest assured, there are many of us in pretty much the same situation as you, so remember that you are not alone. Far from it!

Explore the site to see what there is - and there is a lot! Don't hesitate to ask questions or seek advice. You're part of a super supportive sisterhood here!

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35
Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 674

@catiecrossdresser 

Hi Catie and welcome to CDH.

Being a married, closeted Crossdresser does have its challenges.
You’ll find it’s not uncommon here, so you’re in good company.

Feelings of shame are also quite common, but recognising that you need to move on from that is a good start, as is joining this site.

You’ll quickly realise that you’re far from alone in this journey.

We’re a very friendly and supportive group, so feel free to ask anything that you may want to know about. I’m sure you’ll soon feel at home here. 

Lucy 

 

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@lucyb112 Thank you for those kind words! I’m soooo hopeful that I am able to find the warm and supportive community I need to be able to fully accept myself! I cannot wait to get to know you all!

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Duchess
(@jwhite)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 127

@catiecrossdresser Hi Catie, I've been married for almost 50 years and now am finding my em femme side as a crossdresser. You will find a number of us here at CDH and terrific support!

xxx

Jamie

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@jwhite thank you!!

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Baroness
(@alexina)
Joined: 3 months ago

Prominent Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 325

@catiecrossdresser Hi, Catie, welcome to CDH, you'll find us a friendly and helpful bunch.

Whatever your situation, there's loads of others here who are or have been in exactly the same place so there's plenty of help and advice.

Allie x

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@alexina Thank you so much Allie!

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 688

@catiecrossdresser welcome, all of your sisters here have similar stories.  Yes , you are in our sisterhood.  We are supportive and helpful, never judge mental.  You are home!

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@missylinda thank you Lorraine!

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Duchess
(@river)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 243

@catiecrossdresser Finally told my wife after 22 years of marriage fortunately for me it went well.  even though there are so many different stories everyone here relates , is understanding and supportive its real therapy. Welcome.  RC

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@river Thank you River! I’m so happy for you! I’m both excited and nervous to see how this all goes and I am feeling the support from this community already!

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(@juliarey)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 125

@catiecrossdresser Hi Catie!  Welcome aboard.  Thanks to the support and encouragement I received from the ladies at CDH I recently came out to my wife.  She hasn't entirely embraced my femme side, she has provided some clothes she couldn't use and tolerates me wearing a silk robe over my lingerie.  Telling her was tough, but it was one of the best things I have ever done for myself.  No more fear of getting caught!  Let me know if you want to chat.  XO - Julia

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@juliarey Thank you so much, I’m happy for you! I hope I am able to feel better as well through all of this!

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Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 10 months ago

Illustrious Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 2649

@catiecrossdresser 

Hi Catie

Welcome to CDH 🙂

This is a very warm and supportive community. I've been a member since last July, and I absolutely love it here.

You're already experiencing a proper CDH welcome. Hopefully some of our members in Virginia will make contact.

Enjoy exploring the site! If you need help with anything, don't be shy about asking.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@ellyd22 Thank you so much! I appreciate it and yes everyone has been so sweet and supportive!

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Lady
(@bethewillow)
Joined: 5 years ago

Eminent Member     Victoria, Australia
Posts: 10

@catiecrossdresser Hi Catie and you're in good company.

Welcome aboard

Dana:) Blow Kiss  

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@bethewillow thank you!!!

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(@davinaes)
Joined: 1 year ago

Trusted Member     El Segundo, California, United States of America
Posts: 47

@catiecrossdresser Welcome to CDH Catie.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1945

@catiecrossdresser Welcome to CDH, Catie!

"I am married to a wonderful woman that is traveling this journey with me"

Your profile shows that your SO doesn't know, so I hope that you've got this straight. If she is onboard with you, then be very clear with your communication with her.

Enjoy CDH.

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@harriette yes she knows, but isn’t fully accepting yet. So I need to update my profile still lol

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Cathie,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@sophie85)
Estimable Member     New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

Catie, welcome to CDH!  Everyone here is very friendly and supportive.  Feel free to speak up if you need anything.

-Sophie

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(@christineth)
Honorable Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Joined: 2 years ago

Hey Catie

welcome to CDH.  It’s a great site for sharing and learning.

Hugs

Christine

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Duchess
(@davinasimba)
Eminent Member     Sjælland, Denmark
Joined: 2 months ago

Hiiii Catie 

And welcome to CDH...

I'm quite new my self. though located in Denmark, so a bit far away.

I'm also married and have a child. ( But she knows, but doesn't really see it much, but she tried to accept it the best way she can )

You can always hit me up in a PM 

Love and hugz

Davina

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@davinasimba thank you Davina! It’s good to know that there are others going through similar challenges as me and that we can hopefully support each other through these times!

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Duchess
(@davinasimba)
Joined: 2 months ago

Eminent Member     Sjælland, Denmark
Posts: 10

@catiecrossdresser Always Hun <3 <3

You just reach out and i'm sure a lot would be there and express there's experiences and help as good as they can.. or just talk about life and what not 😀 ( Me Inclusive ) 

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi Catie~

Welcome to CDH. You have come to the perfect place to explore your femininity. There are so many lovely ladies here to chat and share with.

Denise
❤️

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@denises924 thank you! I cannot wait to share myself with everyone!

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Catie -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@cdsue thank you Suzanne!!

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Catie

I have been married 53 years and have 3 kids. My partner knows I dress but does not support me. Where there is a will, there is a way.

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@ria wow! 53 years is a long time! I’m sure it hasn’t been easy for you, as for me it feels so impossible already so early in this journey.

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Lady
(@ria)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 255

@catiecrossdresser 

There have been many bumps along the way but we have survived. I tried to leave my female side hidden away but she is too strong.

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Reputable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome to CDH Catie, This is a great place to explore your femininity. There are lots of supportive Women here to support you. 

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@kimberlyannvictoria thank you Kimberly! I already feel the support! I hope it helps me get through all of this!

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Catie.

Welcome to CDH, a very friendly, understanding and supportive community. A place where you can feel free. I am a sexagenarian. Sometimes we find it difficult to break habits. I haven't come out of the closet either, I prefer a discreet life, but since I joined CDH I feel free and more feminine, and I move forward on my journey, after accepting myself fully. 

I should chat more frequently.

Gisela

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@firefly thank you Gisela! I hope I can feel the same and accept myself in the near future!

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Catie,

This is a great place to help out with finding your way on your journey. Feel free to reach out, and ask questions, or just chat, everyone is very helpful, and friendly here.

 Welcome!

Blow Kiss Lara

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@secretpassions thank you so much!

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Catie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Catie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best  of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you  around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@fishingr8 thank you for the warm welcome Stephanie! I’m so excited to be able to express myself on here and share with you all!

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(@rachaelkendall562)
Eminent Member     Martinez, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Welcome - You are so far ahead in coming to terms with your feminine side so early in life…I hid it for so many years - you have the chance to be you for the rest of your life! Heart  

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Lady
(@catiecrossdresser)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Virginia, United States of America
Posts: 35

@rachaelkendall562 aww thank you so much! I keep thinking the same to myself, I have so much more life to live and I cannot continue to bury this beautiful side of me!

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Lady
(@sandra2020)
New Member     laredo, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Love pic u r beautiful

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Lady
(@jml)
Estimable Member     Near Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Cathie,

Welcome to CDH.
Joan

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