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Hello. I guess I started my journey to this point when I was 10 and tried on my others lingerie. For one reason or another I continued until I was about 16 then stopped. I never did fit in well with boys and felt more comfortable playing with girls and doing things with other girls. I continued this like I said until I was about 16 or so then stopped. I went into the military when I was 18. I never did feel comfortable doing male activities like drinking, bar crawls etc. The few women I knew always treated me like I was a female, they said it just semed natural to do that. We went shopping and just sort of hung out togather. I am skipping a lot of detail here. While in Hawaii Imet my first transgender mtf. THAT was amazing. I finally felt I had some sisters and girlfriends. I still was not dressing as one however. After I got out of service at the 26 year point I finally decided to be myself...Jinian Victoria was out. I felt I had done the male thing and now wanted to be the female I knew I was. ...I have never looked back. I am out as a woman and now have a boyfriend/lover as well. He says I can pas s with no problem but I don't think I do. Wether I do or notis meaningless noise Iamsimplyme. My wifeknewi was a female before our marriage and had no problem with it. Because she is mostly in wheel chair she does not participate except in helping me select clothes and make up and allowing me to be JV. Sex is limited because of her major illnesses and injuries from work. So sexually it is my boyfriend for me. I am considering implants in addition to my own breasts but not anything else due to my age. I live as a woman daily and rarely wear jeans or pants and am always in a skirt or dress and heels. JinianVictoria is out now and very happy and relaxed. It took along time and a lot of twists and turns to get here. Sorry for the length and the missed details of my path to this point.
welcome to C.D.H. its nice to be out and about as we should feel and be happy, but for some others like my self i don't think going out as a female would be a good thing. names would be called and loose family members. wife knows of my cross dressing , she lets me dress up when 2 adult kids are not home or in bed. she has seen me a few times , nothing is said about it.I tell her i am going to dress up and she says ok. well to me that's a good sign for me to dress up and not hide it from her. my story is a long one. but i will make it short. had to wear tights in a school play, that was it i was hooked. from there it was try on more , then it went away for years and then came back for my fem side wants to be out and free. i am 54 years old and i dress most of the time and have my male cloths over my female cloths. at times i dress up at home and walk around and feel free. i feel i was born in the wrong body.
Hi Jinian. I enjoyed your little story. Welcome to our group and hope you can share more adventures with us.
Lady Veronica Graunwolf
Hi JV and welcome to CDH. Ot is always nice to hear about CDs with understanding and supportive wifes. I've been crossdressing on and off since my early teens and have been going out fully dressed regularly for the last five years. My wife is accepting but don't want to see me dressed. Hope to hear more from you soon.
