Need help with a safe place.

Hi Craig,

Here is a link to our "Local Places  search tool and directory.

Perhaps this will help you.

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/local-places/

Regards,

Terri Anne, Ambassador

In case you are interested ...  Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat, Groups, etc.

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/membership-account/membership-levels/

Hi Craig,

Welcome to CDH! This site can help you build a social network that may shed light on your question.

- Robyn

Craig look for friends who may reside in and around where you are and maybe find those places safe to venture out to. Meanwhile enjoy your time here and know your among friends who really do care about each other and who we are.  Hugs

Stephanie 🌹

Hi Craig,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

Thank you for the link.

Hi Craig nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here on the best CD site on the internet so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. So much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from many ladies here telling there stories about there lifes journey .. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Craig as she travels down her girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies here from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with.. So look around take your time ane have fun here .. And again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime ..

Stephanie Bass

Thank you gor the help. All you ladies out there near western ny say HEY!

Welcome Amber - I love that name!

HEY!!😁  I'm very close to western NY...  but sadly on the other side of that troublesome border.  But I am close, so I want to say hi and welcome!  Happy to have you here with us Amber!

Stevie

Amber not sure what kind of out your looking for, shopping, clubs, dining etc…. I have been going out dressed for many decades now and the only big advice I would say is not Walmart until you are comfortable in being out. That said, I have only had one bad experience in public and it was in a parking lot with a couple of guys being crass and it had nothing to do with being a cd/tg just guys being a$$ holes and trying to get my attention and calling me a stuck up c*nt when I ignored them. If you just dress and act properly and ladylike you can really go about anywhere and do what you want and go about your life and most people just ignore you and do their own thing. I wish you the best. Go enjoy life.
🍷C

Thank you. The problem I have is that I have 3 beautiful kids from 19 to 13. I don't want what I do to affect them in school in anyway. Thats why I'm still very private and look for attention in the wrong places like tinder and hookers.

Thank you for saying hi. This whole covid thing is a real pain in the butt.

Amber I am fortunate in that my beloved wifey knows all about me and unfortunate in that she accepts but doesn’t want anything to do with my feminine side. Her most wise words of wisdom were to act like a proper, married middle aged woman when I’m out. With that said, we have children as well and her request is that I don’t go out locally. I usually drive to one of the larger “cities” 40-70 miles away to have my girl time. I do this with her knowledge and blessings with the obligatory “be safe and mine” warnings and then usually a shopping list of things she wants me to get for her.

CDH is a VERY safe environment and anyone who treats you otherwise will be swiftly removed by our wonderful leaders upon notification. Many of those other places are filled with some dangerous people who do not want the best for you. I don’t know if you are near enough to a larger city to make a day trip, but that would be my recommendation to protect your family. Usually weekdays at a mall are fairly quiet and you can enjoy your time. Parks are also a nice place to take a picnic lunch and enjoy being out as well. I wish you luck and hope you find someplace your comfortable going out.
🍷C

Hi Amber I’m in the finger lakes area, I only recently came out to my wife and have not been out.  I would say that most malls are usually pretty safe. I’m trying to plan an outing with two of my sisters hopefully soon.  My wife is not that accepting and doesn’t want to see me dressed. I’m sure that this site will help you as it has helped me. Hugs Katie

Thank you Kim. I would love to have the courage and the stuff to fo thst as well.