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Hi everyone havent been on in a while been busy with work and family life so havent really had the chance to chat to other woman nor dress. So i went through my wardrobe and have decided its time to fresh up and expand my choices of clothing to wear. I havent gone out in public as i wont pass at the moment but to feel fem again would be amazing and even better to have a fresh new look. I currently have a calf length dress a sports bra as i dont have formers to fill them and a medium height (approx belly button high ) shape wear panties. Im thinking of a mid sleeve to long sleeve dress and a shape forming cami but not sure what to get to flatten my stomach for a more feminine look. Would a pair of stockings be a nice addition to any dress ? It looks to be be approx knee length.
How have you other woman gone about feminising your figures cheaply and what other sort of clothing should i consider. I chose a sleeved dress to hide my arms a bjt and my shoulders even though im not going public yet id still like to practice at home so when i do go public ill be well practiced and what stand out like a nipples on a cold day. If im brave enough ill.post photos of new outfit
Thank you in adavnce for your advice
With love
Ally
Wardrobe choices are tough. You have to decide what suits your body and your personality best. I personally will almost always go with a skirt and top rather than dresses. That’s just my preference. I have “feminized” my regular day to day clothes to include ladies jeans almost exclusively as well as ladies sneakers.p, and of course panties. I buy most everything (except underwear) at thrift stores so the financial outlay is not too daunting. Have fun experimenting with the look that suits you best!
Like Emily, I found the best way was to experiment till I found a 'look' that worked.
Generally A-line midi skirt and short/mid length sleeved tops work best for me. Separates give you more options to mix and match to get different outfits
I buy stuff to try at Charity (Thrift) shops, if I look good in it I keep it otherwise I donate it back to charity.
I went ultra-cheap on breast forms - I made some myself - 'rice in tights' style, I use them in a padded bra. [ https://www.glamourboutique.com/transgender-breast-form-tips/breast-forms-on-a-budge-part-1-9766 ]
Welcome Allanah!
Tj-Maxx is a good place for cheap outfits as well.
Hi Alannah, there are lots of things you can do to improve your femme shape. The first thing to do is decide on your shape and what you can do to improve it. I won't go into that here as it takes a while to explain but PM me if you want to and I'll go through it with you. There are cheap and easy ways to fill your bra to give you that feminine shape without going to the expense of breast forms. It is difficult to suggest any suitable clothing without knowing your build and what style you like. Anyway good luck with your quest and do contact me if you want to.
OMG Stephanie ! Thank you for that. Not passable but acceptable. What an amazing way to look at that
Welcome Ally !
I was going to say thrift stores as well. I've gotten some serious bargains that way. I got a pair of Loft jeans for $8.00 in a thrift store. They are my favorite jeans now and I wear them in male mode and no one knows. 😉