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[Closed] New member from Beaumont, Texas

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Topic starter
(@Anonymous 96791)
New Member
Joined: 8 months ago

hi from Beaumont TX .

I'm new to this and I'm shy

need advice 

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@maxxx Welcome to CDH, Max!

To relax, a bit, and to open yourself up to others, you can fill in your profile so that we can relate to you more. A lot of crossdressers are shy, so don't let that bother you.

Guest
(@Anonymous 96791)
Joined: 8 months ago

New Member
Posts: 4

@harriette 

thanks.. I really appreciate it 

I just came across the website and created the profile .. no idea how this works 😞 

Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@maxxx 

no idea how this works

There's no trick to it. Stick the odd topic in the Forums (you've already found out how, which is often the first hurdle). Dip into the Chat room. Read through some articles, or old Forum threads. Basically ... engage 🙂

The more you put into this place, the more you'll get out. You'll find that the community here is very friendly and non-judgmental.

There's no need at all to be shy.

And, as Harriette says, it helps tremendously if you have a bit of detail on your Profile page. That's usually the first place that members look when someone new joins; it just helps us to get that little bit more familiar with you 🙂

Ellie x

 

Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@maxxx 

Hi Max

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. Our membership (now around 45K) is very varied, and includes folk (like you) who have just started to cross dress as well as those who have been doing it for many decades.

In short, there's a wealth of experience here ... what is it in particular that you need advice about?

Ellie x

Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2210

@maxxx 

Hi, Max, now that you've found us, and once you're familiar with the technicalities, it's a pretty safe bet that your shyness will disappear.

Many, if not most of us keep our crossdressing a closely guarded secret and that can often lead to feeling isolated and somehow "wrong". So, it's unsurprising to feel shy about sharing.

Spend some time reading forum posts and you'll soon see that this is an accepting, supportive, and importantly, safe community of people very much like yourself. Whatever stage you're at, whatever your goal is, you are welcome here and any help you need, just ask and be amazed at the replies!

Enjoy!

Allie 

Lady
(@darbygirl)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 22

@maxxx Hello Honey, Welcome to a relaxing, informative and non judgemental place to learn and go as far as your comfortable with into our world!

I'm new here also but have been dressing for around 50 years and having so much fun going out to resturants, clubs and having a great time.

Hi, I'm Darby from Massachusetts and I've been through your neck of the woods, years ago when I worked on the riverboats of the Mississippi River going out to Texas City.

Hugs for now,

Darby

Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@maxxx As long as its not Mad Max you will find it very welcoming here.  I think a lot of us are somewhat shy . but this place really helps. Welcome.  RC

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Topic starter
(@Anonymous 96791)
New Member
Joined: 8 months ago

are there stors in Beaumont I can go and check ? group meetings ?

I want to take it easy 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@maxxx 

Max - I've edited the title of your intro post so that members from Texas have more chance of seeing it and responding.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@carlafirst11)
Honorable Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello Max,

welcome, you have come to the perfect site, lots of nice people with lots of comments, experiences and good advice if you ever need to ask.

 

Carla❤️

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Guest
Topic starter
(@Anonymous 96791)
New Member
Joined: 8 months ago

I really appreciate y'all 

but I'm kinda old school, I like to meet people, shake hands and have real conversations with eye contact.  to me that's the only way to know or trust someone.

I hope y'all get my point 

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Lady
(@darbygirl)
Joined: 10 months ago

Eminent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 22

@maxxx I learn everything I need to know about a person's handshake!

Know exactly what your saying!!

Darby

Posts: 7835
(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Max Max,

 

Welcome to CDH.  You’re among friends here so no need to be shy.  Stores like Torrid and Lane Bryant are CD friendly so go ahead and visit.  The associates are great so stop in and ask any questions you might have and get your wardrobe going.

Alice

Posts: 932
Baroness
(@revel)
Noble Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Howdy, sister! You joined the best CD website online. CDH is a loving, supportive community. Just relax, I was a little nervous when I first joined CDH back in 2020. Now I have over 130 wonderful lady friends. You will make some friends too. I will be one of them and send you a friendship request. Welcome to the family. 

Revel "Rev" 

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