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Significant Other
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(@ambersqueen)
Trusted Member     Queensland, Australia
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi all! 

I am a cis female married to my amazing CD husband. I am learning more and more and want to ensure I am doing all I can to be supportive, caring and loving of him on his journey.

I am excited to buy all the clothing, underwear and makeup for her (damn sexy seeing on her) and we have had the most amazing time exploring together. 

I am looking forward to reading more! 

 

Xx Imogen 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@ambersqueen Hi, Imogen and welcome to CDH. You're an amazing woman. I say that because I also have an amazing wife who accepts and supports me dressing at home. We also go shopping together, me in male clothes cos she's not ready for me going out dressed en femme....yet, and she'll suggest clothes and jewellery for me. 

There are lots of people here who are not so lucky so expect a deluge of praise!

You'll find we're a friendly and helpful bunch so just ask here or by PM and you'll get as m much as you need.

Welcome again.

Allie 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@ambersqueen 

Hi Imogen, and welcome to CDH.

It's truly great that you are behind your husband in his crossdressing. He will appreciate it more than you can imagine.

There is an area on the site for Wives and Significant Others which you may like to check out. Of course you are more than welcome to pitch in on any of the forums. Feel free to ask questions!

 

Take care

 

 

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@ambersqueen

Imogen, you are AMAZING. My wife is also very accepting and will complement me on some of the outfits I manage to put together, which is enormously supporting. We are often out together with me en-femme, including shopping, so I understand just how wonderful your support is.

Thumbs Up  

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@ambersqueen 

Hi Imogen

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You might be interested in the following area of the site:

For the Wives and Significant Others – Crossdresser Heaven Forums

This is a restricted Forum to which only wives and significant others have access.

Ellie x

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Significant Other
(@ambersqueen)
Joined: 11 months ago

Trusted Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 31

@ellyd22 thank you Elly. It won't let me in, but shall keep attempting

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@ambersqueen @billiejay 

Hi Imogen

Because the 'Wives and Significant Others' Forum is a restricted area I have a feeling that there's an approval process before anyone can gain access  The info at the top of the Forum incudes this statement:

This group is exclusively for significant others of CDs, including partners, family and close friends, and only approved members can view or participate in group activity.

Please note: If you choose not to complete your profile with information regarding your relationship with a CD, you may be contacted for more information before you are approved for this group.

I'm copying BillieJay, one of the site managers, in on this post; I'm sure she'll be able to advise 🙂

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@willajay)
Joined: 6 years ago

Majestic Member     The Middle of Nowhere (TMoN), California, United States of America
Posts: 4588

@ellyd22 I sent her a message and she blew me off so she clearly isn’t interested.

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Significant Other
(@ambersqueen)
Joined: 11 months ago

Trusted Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 31

@billiejay sorry, it read like a generic automated welcome message inquiring about my reasons for being here, I didn't realise that was to explain to get into the partner side.

I will reply now

Xx

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Managing Ambassador
(@willajay)
Joined: 6 years ago

Majestic Member     The Middle of Nowhere (TMoN), California, United States of America
Posts: 4588

@ambersqueen nothing automated about my messages.

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Lady
(@celestecd)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 210

@ambersqueen Echoing what others have said, welcome to CDH!  We are lucky to have you and your voice here.

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Lady
(@tiffanycd)
Joined: 10 months ago

Trusted Member     Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Posts: 21

@ambersqueen You are an amazing woman Imogen, and it so nice to hear you two are having such fun together

Tiffany x

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Duchess
(@emilysouthern)
Reputable Member     Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Wow, what a fantastic lady you are Imogen.  So nice to hear.  Your husband is indeed very lucky.

You should find all kinds of great helpful info on this wonderful site.  A big welcome from me.

Emily

 

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(@christineth)
Noble Member     Brussels, Brabant, Belgium
Joined: 2 years ago

Imogen,  the world needs more people like you.  Thank you for being so open and supportive to your crossdressing partner in particular and to the crossdressing community in general.

Hugs

Christine 

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Duchess
(@karla1958)
Honorable Member     Not in New Orleans, Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Imogen and welcome!

Like you, my wife is very supportive.  I will ask her for her opinions on clothing and shoes.  She will even purchase clothing items and make-up for me at Christmas and on my birthday.  When I dress en-femme, I always aske for her critique so that I can improve.  

It's a blessing that you are there for your husband. 

Heart Blow Kiss  

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Significant Other
Topic starter
(@ambersqueen)
Trusted Member     Queensland, Australia
Joined: 11 months ago

Thanks all! 

It has been a long journey, while I knew over 17 years ago about it, it hasn't really been until this year that Amber has come out fully and we have spoken openly about it. I do regret the missed time now, but I think we are both in a better place in our lives together to really enjoy and explore more. 

I have found that the more open he has been, the more confidence both of us have felt and I can say that though this I am feeling damn sexy too (so selfish I know).

 

Looking forward to chatting more 

Imogen xx

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Posts: 604
(@heels234)
Prominent Member     Mesa, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Imogen,A very BIG thank you is coming your way.THANK YOU for accepting and encouraging your husband in this hobby.You,Imogen,are a wonderful and understanding lady of the first order.Please,have fun  and enjoy and if you have questions,ask.Sincerely Michelle Brown.

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Imogene,

Welcome to CDH.  Feel free to ask any questions you might have.  Many here have understanding SO’s but others remain in secret.  So those with understanding spouses can share of the experiences.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Imogen nice to meet you and happy you came and joined us girls here to learn more and support your Husband/girlfriend .. Like many here that have supportive wife's myself included as i came out to my wife when we married which was 41 years ago she has known Stephanie and supports her .. Now she knows in my heart there is her husband and girlfriend there both .. She also knows there is two there to her one so we get twice the house chores ha ha .. Have fun here ask many questions of us all we as the women we are we love to chat again nice to meet you and hope to chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Baroness
(@leah63)
Noble Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Imogen,  So glad that things are going well for both of you, your being supportive of her dressing is awesome,   glad that you enjoy it!  You sound like the ideal cross dressers wife!

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Guest
(@Anonymous 95305)
Estimable Member
Joined: 11 months ago

Hi Imogen! Welcome to CDH!

And then there are girls like me whose wife is aware and trying to work through it but right now we have a DADT relationship. Perhaps you will be an inspiration for her! Thanks for reaching out!

 

Sheryl

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Lady
(@cdkaylasnow)
Reputable Member     Denver, Colorado, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Speaking as a person with a supportive partner, it means more to him than you could imagine. I hid this secret away for so many years, even the first 3 years I was dating my wife (even up to the point of getting married without telling her lol). When I finally had the courage to come forward, I was sooooo nervous, but she just listened and asked lots of questions, and then decided she wanted to see this side of me. Knowing that somebody is there to support you through something they may have been hiding for years is a great confidence booster and I'm sure your connection will run even deeper now. Welcome to the site!

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Ambassador
(@nikkolle1)
Honorable Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Good for you honey. Closets are dark, gloomy and lonely. Welcome Rilee to LGBTQ+ Family and CDH Family. You are loved, Jackie. If you ever want to talk hit me up and we shall. Have a perfect day . Pride Heart  

 

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