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New and Nervous

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Lady
Topic starter
(@samanthanova)
Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Im new from DFW and was my wife's suggestion that I take a day while working from home to dress and be me. so just letting Samantha explore for the first time ever. Ive been privately doing this for many years and hope to find a way to be more connected to Samantha in the future. Still very nervous.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1858

@samanthanova Welcome to CDH!

I love your hair colour,

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Lady
(@samanthanova)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 7

@annaredhead thanks amazon 🙂 I like to change it though

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 865

@samanthanova welcome, Im just north of Ft worth on I35W.   Unfortunately im old enough to be your mother, but that means I have been living this wonderful life longer.

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Lady
(@samanthanova)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 7

Thats actually ironically something Ive wondered for many years, will I be like this forever? Its becoming clearer that that is a yes and I now find myself navigating how to make it more of a part of who I am instead of a dark secret.

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 865

@samanthanova NEVER think us cursed, we are the luckiest people on the planet.  We walk in two worlds.  I personally think it’s in our dna. Acceptance by the SO is everything.  Now if I could just look as good as my bestie Jen bin the next post down I would have it Al🤗

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Duchess Annual
(@jennconn)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Florida, United States of America
Posts: 796

@samanthanova welcome Samantha.  I’ve loved in DFW for a number of years but I’m in FL now.  But I’ve got to let you know that when I joined here, I was so scared, I was afraid to talk to anyone.  After a while I became comfortable, and when girls here told me I’d make some really good friends, I didn’t believe it, but it’s so true.  I’m sure you’ll find the same thing happening to you, but take steps as you are comfortable and have fun, you’ll love it here.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2357

@samanthanova 

Hi, Samantha, welcome to CDH and the warmest, friendliest crossdresser community anywhere.

Everyone will tell you that there's no need to be nervous but most of us felt the same when we first joined or posted our introduction.

Just spend some time here and you'll soon feel comfortable and part of the family. 

This is a safe place to be yourself among like-minded sisters and you'll find lots of encouragement and support from the girls.

Don't hesitate to ask if there's anything you need help with, we'll do our best.

Allie x

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Lady
(@erinb)
Joined: 6 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1187

@samanthanova welcome Samantha to CDH nice to meet you welcome to this wonderful community as much as your nervous 😟 you don’t have to be here there so much support guidance that we can be are selfs here TC hugs 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1334

@samanthanova 

 Welcome to CDH, Samantha!

  No need to be nervous here. We're all about feminine things here. Along with caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We will support and assist you in any way we can! 

 Browse this site to find friendships, chat, information, tutorials, videos and answers to your questions. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

   Fran 🥰 

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Duchess
(@mkat3874)
Joined: 5 months ago

Honorable Member     Northeast GA, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 315

@samanthanova 

Welcome to CDH. We are glad you're here!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4158

Welcome to CDH, Samantha!

I agree, Samantha is a feminine sounding name made popular by the 1960s sit-com Bewitched. I liked Sam and used to watch the show after coming home from school.

Posted by: @samanthanova

  • Ive been out and about with panties and panty hose under my clothes.

  • just panties and leggings so far but I want to eventually be able to go out fully dressed.

It is encouraging to see a young crossdresser with the ultimate goal of going abroad dressed en femme. This may take a bit of time getting to the point where you are confident and skilled enough to successfully pull that off, so what can you do in the meantime?

Find women's clothing that you can wear in public now, build up your closet so that you can have a choice of clothes to wear in any season. That way you have a good wardrobe for when you are ready for your Samantha debut.

Enjoy the ride! Tell us about it. 🤓

 

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Lady
(@samanthanova)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 7

@harriette I like being called young! thanks!!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4158

@samanthanova Me too.

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 453

@samanthanova Hey Samantha, if i remember rightly, my first intro post four months ago was the same 'new and nervous'  I am sure within a few weeks those nerves will go.  CDH is such a wonderful supportive network of people, who soon become friends.  Pride Heart Your wifes suggestion sounds wonderful, and will give you some time to be you and I hope this has a positive impact on you.  

I am the wife of a CD and we are fairly new to this all, he was dressing in private only until a few months back, and honestly now he is able to be free to do this without the secrecy, has had a wonderful impact on our lives, he seems happier, more confident and in turn i am too.

I hope to chat with you soon.  Hugs - Laura Big Love Eyes  

 

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 255

@samanthanova Hello Samantha!! Welcome !! You have come to the right place, enjoy your time here!! Hugs… jo

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1257

@samanthanova You came to the right place Samantha.  Many of the girls here experienced the same feelings as you at some time or another.   In a lot of cases, they have managed to overcome them and connect strongly with their feminine selves.   It took me many years to do this but now my femininity is deeply ingrained in me and I present myself to the world as Lauren.   This has become so satisfying for me.   Good luck sister and I hope you find what you are looking for here!

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Joined: 7 months ago

Noble Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 529

@samanthanova The nervous exploration syndrome. LOL, we all get that way trying anything that is different to us. But it's so much fun, relax and enjoy poking about.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5408

@samanthanova 

Hi Samantha

Welcome to CDH 🙂

I'm in Norfolk in the UK. I totally get the whole nervousness thing (it took me ages to get the courage to sign up to the site) but honestly it won't take long for you to feel comfortable here. It's the most incredibly friendly and welcoming place.

Have fun exploring, and if there's anything at all you'd like help or advice with just let us know.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

@samanthanova Welcome! Team Ginger can always use another member! 😉 

Nothing to be nervous about here - everyone starts somewhere. Spend some time browsing the Forumsor pop into Chat. It's a very welcoming place.

As a preliminary, I'd also note the Code of Conduct to ensure you have a smooth trip.

I look forward to seeing you around! 🙂 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@samanthanova)
Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

thank you! Im not sure on chat I have a free account at the moment so just kind of taking it all in for now.

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 1153

@samanthanova The Forums and Chat are free for all levels, but you know you best. What's most important is being comfortable. Take your time and work your way into things. We're not going anywhere 😉

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(@kimberlyannvictoria)
Honorable Member     milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome to CDH us girls here are here to support you Samantha 

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Put away the nerves Samantha as you are in a very friendly area where you can be yourself. There is a wealth of experience here to help you on your journey.

Enjoy your time here.

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Samantha so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts here from so many ladies telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Samantha as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl as there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon.. 

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Samantha,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy picking out your outfit for. Your work from home day.  No need to be nervous as you express your true self.

Alice

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi Samantha   ,

Welcome to CDH!, I'm so glad to see you here , !!!

Huggs 💓
Stephanie 👠

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Samantha -

Welcome to CDH. That is wonderful that your wife suggested dressing while you work from home.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome, Samantha.

I'm sure you'll find CDH to be a very supportive place.

Hope you enjoy being here!

Judy. X.

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Lady
(@nataliecd)
Estimable Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Samantha and welcome! It is nice to see that your wife appears supportive to at least suggest working from home dressed up. She sounds like a wonderful person.

I hope you are able to explore further or as much as you want and I hope that we can provide any support as you go further in your journey. There are a lot of good people here and a lot of different experiences. I think you came to the right place 🙂

 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@samanthanova)
Eminent Member     DFW, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 weeks ago

She is amazing! When we got together though I was very upfront, at 44 years old I didnt want to start a new relationship with any skeletons in my closet so she knew going in. I also think being here has already been helpful. I just had a conversation with my best friend of 35 years who kind of knew some about it but it was a great convo and he afterwards sent me a text saying thanks for sharing your stuff with me i know it was a hard share but Im glad you did. 🙂

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 months ago

Welcome Samantha, from across the pond here in Lancashire, UK. Like you I have been dressing in secret and only been open about my femme side since I joined here last year which was a massive step for me. But since I've started posting on here I have even started to think about having a makeover and even going out in public.

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

🌞🌞 Hi   Samantha   ,

     I see your doing well  & meeting a lot of new friends .

       I'm  so glad you here Now    !!

    Huggs 🍒
    Stephanie👠

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Duchess
(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Samantha!

You’re definitely amongst friends in this community.

Joanna 💕

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