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I am so glad I am not the only one. No way I can come out, but thankfully have a very supportive spouse. So very hard to hold back who I really am. Hoping some day that I’ll be able to be out and fabulous!!
I can understand your feelings. I only wear thongs and pantyhose, for years when traveling on business but threw them away when I got home. I agree that you should not tell her yet. Just because you joined this site is no reason to tell her now. You will get support here then you can decide
Hi Bekki, don't be scared about coming onto CDH these are a great bunch of girls and they are always there for each other and their doors are always open for a chat mine included 🙂 feel free to give me a message at anytime if you need to talk 🙂
Samantha x
Welcome you are not alone in this and the Internet makes this so much easier to find others to share this with. To learn you are not a freak and how to learn to feel comfortable with who we are. Falling in love is the strongest suppressor of the urges to dress, so not telling the wife is typical - you thought you were over this. But it returns, often when a child takes her attention partly away from you. My wife found out after 2 years and has now known for 28 years. She is tolerant but not supportive most of the time. I do not recall someone being outed by others from these CD-focused websites. But be careful to use private browsing. I am on other CD websites and even have a Facebook page using the same name as here. There is a lot to learn but sharing here is quite safe.
Hugs, Ellen
Welcome. I am new here as well. I have liked having this forum as an outlet to explore the woman in me. It is nice to be referred to as Amber and one of the girls.
Hi Bekki,
Welcome to CDH! This is an awesome supportive community. I hope you will look around as there is so much information and support. If you have a chance feel free to pop in chat if you haven't already.
Please feel free to message me if you have any questions.
Hugs,
Kayla
Hi Bekki,
Welcome to CDH! This is an awesome supportive community. I hope you will look around as there is so much information and support. If you have a chance feel free to pop in chat if you haven't already.
Please feel free to message me if you have any questions.
Hugs,
Kayla
Right there with you girl! Hang in there. Wish I could give you some good advice about telling your spouse but I'm scared too. You have kindred spirits here though, hope that helps!
Hugs,
Jessica
