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(@halfhawaiian)
New Member     Portland, Oregon, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I can't lie and say that I'm not scared but I am trying. Just even signing up here was incredibly hard but it felt right to be able to see things from the perspective of others. I don't know how much I'll be sharing versus how much I'll just be reading everyone else's journeys but I'm sure it'll be better for me in the end. I appreciate everyone else being so open and honest and I hope to get to that point too in the future. Thank you to everyone for making this a safe place for us all to come and discover more about ourselves and about this part of our lives.

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(@Anonymous)
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Joined: 1 second ago

Hi Jay,

Don't worry, you aren't the first person with those kind of misgivings. Just start off by being here. What you're doing is a good way to way to ease in. Have a good look around, check out the forums, maybe read an article or two, have a look at some of the girls profiles, and before you know it, you'll feel much more at home.

Marti xxx

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Lady
(@jrm1949)
Eminent Member     Pgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I was as timid as you when I decided to register. I have not said much since I registered either, but believe me I have read a lot and have learned from the other girls experiences. Just take your time and you will find a lot of help at CDH.

Dani

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Lady
(@ohlivialivin)
Noble Member     Norfolk, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome Jay

We all do things in our own way, from how and why,  who we include, what and when we decide to wear.

But we also have alot in common and this is a wonderful place to share and learn with others.

There is no wrong way, just do what works for you at your own pace and Enjoy being you.

Olivia

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(@Anonymous)
New Member
Joined: 1 second ago

Hi Jay welcome to the family ❤️,

The girls will help you out with what ever you want to know, they will offer you any advice and support you in any way possible,

Hugs 🤗 Roz X

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Managing Ambassador
(@wanderer)
Noble Member     Stoney Creek , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Jay and welcome!  Thank you for making that effort and taking that first step through our door.  The first step is the hardest, but as you build up momentum it does get easier!  I can't say dont be scared - we all deal with fear - but please put your fears aside when here at CDH.  Take some time to get settled in with us hon, and join in when you are comfortable.  No pressure and certainly no judgement, just support from people who care.  Any concerns or questions, never  hesitate to ask,  that's what we are here for!!

Again, welcome Jay!  Nice to have you here with us!!

Stevie

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Lady
(@kokomo)
Estimable Member     Hamilton, Auckland, New Zealand
Joined: 4 years ago

Hey Jay

I can understand why you might be nervous but now I have been on this site for a while I can say everyone here is supportive and will help with anything you want to talk about or learn. I suggest you read some of the wonderful Articles and Forums here and get involved at your own pace.

Good Luck with your journey.

Sarah

 

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(@Anonymous)
New Member
Joined: 1 second ago

Please don't be scared! We're here for you. We've all had self-doubts and worries about our sexuality.

Whatever you need, just ask.

Connie

xxx

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

welcome , it’s wonderful that you have joined our family. We’re always happy to help our new girls and offer our advice and tips and were here to chat  about anything you have on your mind. Sharing experiences is so helpful and fun to explore more as you get comfortable with being here. Very nice meeting you and look forward to seeing you here soon.

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

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Lady
(@silkydrawers)
Honorable Member     Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hey gurl,

Let your hair down, slip into something comfortable and join in.  Don't be scared. We all have a lot in common and none of the gurls here bit.

I find this to be a wonderful place to openly express myself. It's a great way to let that girl in you out of the closet.

I hope you will enjoy yourself here and get to know some of the gurls.

Hugs

Lacy

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Duchess
(@stephanier)
Noble Member     Adelaide, South Australia, Australia
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jay,
A warm welcome to CDH!!!
Well done for taking the courage to join CDH and write this post.
Really nice meeting you.
Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jay,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@notech64)
Estimable Member     cleveland, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hello  and  welcome

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Duchess Annual
(@liara)
Noble Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome Jay. This is the right place for you.

Hugs, Liara

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Duchess
(@trisha283)
Honorable Member     Pataskala, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I think it is safe to say that the ladies here accept everyone for who they are. Don't worry about figuring "it" out and just figure out who you are. To borrow a line from a beloved person here on CDH, if it feels good, do it.

Welcome to CDH Jay

 

Trisha

 

 

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