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Lady
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(@chris60)
Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Well, i've been a member here for 4 months. Not sure why it took so long to post anything. I could start with my first dressing issue, but honestly i dont remember it. Im not sure when the dressing bug got me. As a matter of fact, i really dont remember much about my childhood at all. Bits and pieces here and there. But i do know i've been dressing on and off now since my 20's. In my 60's now. I have come out to my older brother and four grwon boys. I have not told my wofe. Scared to death to do that. I want to, keep planning on it. But chicken out. She does know im Bisexual though. I think she figured that out and i was forced to tell her. 

Actually, i think she knows. When sh forst came over from the UK she found a night gown in my closet. I trird to play it off as a former girlfriend but she insisted it was too big for anyone. So i toild her that i like to wear womens clothes. Nothing else was said. That was 15 yrs ago and im pretty sure she would remember that if the topiuc is broached.

Anyway, ive stalked the site here for a few months and love what i see. Time to join in. Seriously considering upgrading to duchess to get more out of it.

Thank you for reading my ramblings and i hope to get more involved.

My girl name is Kris.

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5208

@chris60 

Hi Kris

It's good to see you on the forums - I'm glad that you like it here 🙂

If you want to actually change your name to Kris on the site it's very easy. I can either send you instructions or simply do it for you if that's what you'd like.

Most members here change both their Christian name and their surname. Changing their first name helps to break down barriers with other members, many of whom feel more comfortable chatting to folk with female names; changing their surname helps preserve anonymity 🙂

Anyway, keep exploring and enjoying the site ... and if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

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Lady
(@chris60)
Joined: 6 months ago

Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 12

@ellyd22 Hey Elllie

If you can change that for me it would be wonderful. Thank you sooo much.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5208

@chris60

No problem.

Just the first name, so you show as 'Kris Ballance'?

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1133

@chris60 

 Welcome to CDH Kris!

  So glad that you landed here. You're among supporting people here. 

 As you can see we're about all things feminine. We will assist you in any way we can. 

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@alisonout1123)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Somerville, New Jersey, United States of America
Posts: 41

@chris60 Hi, Kris!  Welcome to Heaven.  If you've been here 4 months, you know what a special place this is and I'm glad you got off the sidelines to join in.  

Your story is similar to mine, except my wife believes I'm Heteroalpha Man.  I do a fairly good acting job.  And I've never come out to anyone (although, as I mentioned in another post, I think my brother had busted me with our sister's things when we were kids, but he has never said a word).  You may see from some of my other posts that a bug has hit me hard and I've been playing with fire if I hope to keep this whole thing a secret.  We'll see what happens.

I have heard from quite a few girls here that their wives took the news better than expected, and marriages survived (also heard that directly from one of those wives).  Do keep that in mind as you approach the decision.  Things have a way of working out, don't they?

Welcome again, hon.

Alison

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2191

@chris60 

Hi, Kris, lots of members take some time before posting anything, lots never do so it's good to see you here.

It's also good to hear that you love it here, you'll have seen over the past four months now much we all do 😊.

Know that you can share with us here and you have our support. 

Allie x

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Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1713

@chris60 Kris, nice to have you with us girl. I think you're very wise to wait awhile before posting. There's always that fear that you've joined some seedy hook up site. Hopefully if you've been looking around for a while you'll know that's not the case, and that this is such a safe, supportive, friendly community where you can get to know girls of a like mindset. Thank you for sharing some of your story. Without knowing the details, it sounds to me with the people you've come out to, it seems only a matter of time before your wife learns of your girly side. If indeed she does not already. And perhaps that is ultimately the best solution.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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Lady
(@chris60)
Joined: 6 months ago

Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 12

Thank you all so much. Its great having a place like this to share and see others stories. It helps a lot.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@chris60 

Hello Kris, and welcome to the interactive bit of CDH! You know what an amazing and supportive site this is, so please do keep joining in as much as you like. And have fun!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

Welcome to CDH, Kris!

Posted by: @chris60

Time to join in.

It would be my pleasure to see you participate  here.

 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chris60)
Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Love it here already

 

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Guest
(@Anonymous 99388)
Estimable Member
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH  Kris glad to have you.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Kris Hugs Lizzy

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Posts: 6040
Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya Kris nice seeing you around here in the forums as you have been here for a while girlfriend dont be shy we are all here for you as friends sisters and family members .. Say hello sometime really girl we dont bite  well a few girls do be careful ha ha just kidding sis have fun ..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kris,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Kris -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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Posts: 189
(@jessicacynthia)
Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Hello Kris,

Welcome to CDH.

Jessica

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Posts: 675
Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Kris!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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