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My name is Eunice, just joined here several days ago. I'm a newbie CD, just starting to explore my feminine side. I'm 5'9" 150 lbs, Asian, with relatively broad shoulders and nice legs. I have a lot of hesitation in me because I'm afraid that I might not be an ideal size as a CD. I only tried panties so far, but would like to one day make it to a full blown passable CD! It will be nice to get to know you girls in the Tri State area who can guide me through exploring my inner self (shopping, dressing, make-up, etc). Please PM me if anyone would like to be friends!
Hi Eunice, broad shoulders are a problem, but not insurmountable, I have broad shoulders but with a bit of work it can be overcome. You need to look at your whole body, bust, waist and hips and try to balance them out. In an ideal world your hips and bust should be the same measurement with ideally your waist 8 to 10 inches smaller. Don't worry if that is not the case at the moment with shape wear and padding you will be surprised what can be achieved! Search this site and chat to the lovely ladies here, you will find lots of help and support. Welcome!
Eunice welcome this is a wonderful place and no matter how one may look, what's inside is the most important aspect of being a cd. Our feelings ,the emotional thoughts and our manurisions. All contribute to being that woman we always dream of becoming. When the day does comes that you do fully dress and then stroll over and stand in front of that mirror ,that is when that true experience will hit home and a excitement I'm sure will be seen on your face . Learn it all here, the dressing, makeup, all of it . Meet our ladies and receive their advice and tips to help and support to drive you forward. Enjoy all that we have to offer and have a journey of happiness ahead . Very nice to meet you.
Stephanie 🌹
Hi Eunice and welcome to CDH. I read your introduction and would like to ask you a question or two. What Asia country are you from. I have been thru a few there ab=nd feel that you would have a problems presenting as a Lady-boy. What is the measurement of you shoulder width? Puffy blouse sleeves should mask this situation. I know Asia has beaucoup tailor shops and should be ablr to make you custom fit blouses, skirts and dresses . Let me know your measurements and I will see what I can come up with for you. Hugs........
Lady Veronica
Hi Eunice.....sorry but I made a couple of typos......s/b Asian country
s/b ab=nb few times
s/b would have no problems
I hate this touch key board lap top.....give me back my regular key board! LOL.
Welcome! Im sure you can find find out a lot of information by asking anyone of us here.
Welcome Eunice! Get ready to learn and grow on this site. The ladies here have helped me tremendously. Cd's come in all shapes and sizes. Like Stephanie said its inside thats important. Some days frustrating looking in the mirror other days beyond rewarding. Things will happen gradually give yourself time girl.Glad to have you aboard.
Shelley
Eunice welcome to CDH and it is great to have you here. What I have found is genetic woman come in all shapes and sizes though the average is smaller and more petite if you look around you will find a few in your same shape and size. That is what I do and then I look at how and what they wear to help become more passable. The thing is hun you need to be yourself and enjoy your femininity even if that means you do not fully pass you can still enjoy your life and feminine side.
So happy you are here and love to chat. Say hello any time.
Sara Marie