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[Closed] New Crossdresser seeking friends

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(@Anonymous 95164)
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Hi Chickas!  I’m Brandy and new to crossdressing. It kind of started on Halloween when I dressed as a woman and continued thereafter.  Like many of you I feel isolated and primarily dress up at home and sometimes sneak out at night for a walk or on a trail where there are few people.  I love feeling like a woman.  I am a runner and hiker.  Prefer vegan/vegetarian food, but not strictly.  Love to dance to my own beat…so It gets a little wild.  Seeking friends around the world and nearby (north of San Francisco). Love and best wishes.  Brandy 

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(@Anonymous 95164)
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@bonbini16 Hi Brandy! And welcome to CDH. You are going to love it here- everyone is so accepting and supportive. 
Check out the site and get involved!

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@bonbini16 

Hi Brandy, welcome to CDH.

Halloween has long served many crossdressers very well! You're among a lot of like minded ladies here, so don't hesitate to ask questions; if you're new to dressing, you may have quite a few!

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5189

@bonbini16 

Hi Brandy

Welcome to CDH.

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. The girls here are amazing; it's a good place to share stories and make friends.

There's lots to explore on the site. Have fun poking around, and if you need help with anything then just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2177

@bonbini16 Hi, Brandy and welcome to CDH. We have all struggled with feelings of guilt, shame and perhaps more importantly, isolation.

Not any more, this is a great, safe place to be who you are 👍

Allie x

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@alexina   Thank you Allie! Yes definitely feel the isolation!   Also the guilt as I know it’s not easy on my wife, as she does her best at tolerating it.  She will not be seen with me outside our home with me as “Brandy” unless it’s a costume type event or in nature where some of her girlfriends are with. So it’s hard as we are growing apart in some ways.  We are going on a cruise later this month and she really deserves a very relaxing fun time and I don’t want her stressed about me being “Brandy”. She actually encouraged me to bring my female self with to go out later in the evenings with others like me.  The ship has LBGTQ meetups.  So I’m thinking about it, but don’t want to put too much emphasis on it for my wife’s sake.  Thanks again for the greeting and best wishes on your journey into the beautiful world of femininity.  Brandy

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(@denises924)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 210

@bonbini16 

Welcome to CDH Brandy~
You have come to the right place. This is a warm, welcoming community with great ladies on all different points of their journey.

Denise
❤️

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(@Anonymous 95164)
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@denises924    Thank you Denise!  Best wishes on your journey!❤️ Brandy

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Good morning beautiful!  I joined CDH yesterday and for the first time I feel supported! Thank you so much!  Forgive me if I haven’t noticed your post or replied in some way.  I have always struggled navigating most websites but ai will get better.   In thinking about CD I now realize I’ve been probably doing it in the eyes of others for a long time.  I have never thought about trying to look like a girl until the last Halloween.  I’ve worn girls panties, short shorts, pantyhose, and womens skinny jeans for as long as I can remember.  I never thought of myself in a feminine way til more recent years when I’d get comments from others.  Then Halloween came and I the desire to look like a girl to see if I could “pass” entered my mind.  People who knew me told me I play the part well.  Some I didn’t know were curious. In reality, at best, I think I look like a hybrid.  That’s ok since I’m mainly confined to my home or hiking trails for now.  As an older MTF hopeful it’s not easy as many of you know.  Wish I would of thought of doing this in my younger years!   Happy March and remember to smile😊. Brandy

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(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Brandy.

Welcome to CDH, a friendly, understanding and supportive community. I know that feeling and I think these ladies help me to become a better person. It is a nice place to share thoughts and knowledge. 

I love TGH and I am sure you will do too.

Gisela

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(@lucyb112)
Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Brandy,

Welcome to CDH.

Feeling isolated is quite common, so joining us here will help enormously.

Ask anything you like, we’re very friendly and always happy to help out 

Lucy

 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brandy,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Brandy nice to meet you and hope you explore our wonderful site here with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts and maybe a profile or two .. Girl the experience and knowledge here is over the top so ask away with questions and receive many answers to them all.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@Anonymous 95164)
Joined: 12 months ago

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@fishingr8   Thank you Stephanie,  I’m not good at navigating on my iPhone and this website. It’s just me…not much time spent on electronics except now.  Now that I believe I have found the support of the many girls who are on the same path with the same struggles. Love&peace❤️✌🏼 Brandy…”she is a fine girl”

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(@rachaelkendall562)
Eminent Member     Martinez, California, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

Hi Brandy- Congratulations! I am with you…just starting out and so excited about what the future holds. I am also such a new sister and hope we can connect and learn together about what the future hiolds1

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(@Anonymous 95164)
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Hi Rachael!  Thank you for the friend request.  Without friends and support I’ve been waking up most nights thinking of just throwing in the towel and burying Brandy.  So like you I am hopeful of finding friends to support each other.  Tired of spending too much time dressing up (hey like girls do) and then just pacing arond the house.  So I joined this site yesterday.  I also told my sibling (my younger sister) a few months ago.  My wife has known since Halloween (when I dressed as a woman).  Best wishes for you!  Brandy 

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

 ..Brandy -

Welcome to CDH
XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@lillie)
Reputable Member     South Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Brandy, welcome.

 

Lynne

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