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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello, girls!

I'm Emma, from Vancouver, BC, Canada. I started dressing when I was quite young, perhaps 8-10 years old. I stopped after a few years, mostly due to lack of opportunity and so many other things going on in life. I felt far from it for decades, and now in my mid-40s I find myself drawn back to dressing and embracing my femme self.

I'm married, and my wife and I are finding our way. I don't want to rush ahead while we're still working on it, so slow and steady wins this race. We regularly have pedis together, but she's not ready for me to do my fingernails just yet. Hopefully we get to go clothes shopping together soon and we can have that experience.

Because the physical/performative end of dressing isn't something I can pursue right now, I've been focusing on finding out who Emma is mentally and emotionally. Trying to spend time letting Emma out is an everyday thing for me. So is learning everything I don't know about being a woman! I feel like I don't even know what I don't know yet, but hopefully that will progress.

Chatting with people here over the last couple of weeks has helped me a lot and given Emma a good outlet for coming out. Thank you all for that. The community here is top-notch!

I'd love to talk to other girls, especially those in a relationship like mine, where you're journeying with your partner and taking things as they come.

xo,

Emma

 

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Lady
(@ohlivialivin)
Noble Member     Norfolk, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Emma

Welcome, from another Canuck. It's all learning, and its all good! My gf and I have come a long way with the femme in my life.

I like your attitude towards things. I think the first 1 1/2 for me was about 75% mental recognition and awakening. Enjoy the journey and we'll be here for both of you along the way.

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi, Olivia!

Thank you so much for the warm welcome and the outreach! I really appreciate it. I hope the friend request is not unwelcome!

Awakening is an excellent word for it. I like the metaphor about waking up in the morning -- in that respect, Emma's barely got her eyes open yet. So much more to come!

Thanks again! xo

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Welcome Emma. As you know this is a great place to discover who you are with tons of support. I wish you and you wife the best as you learn about Emma together.

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you, Michelle! I look forward to being part of the community here on CDH. 🙂

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Hi Emma , CDH is a beautiful place to be , lots of different experiences from so many girls . Enjoying the discovery together is fantastic ☺ Tiff

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Lady
(@jessica63)
Honorable Member     South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Emma,

So much of what you say rings true for me, I am in the UK but happy to chat anytime.

I am sure you will find friendship here.

Jessica x.

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you, Jessica! I hope to chat with you soon!

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

I agree, Tiff! Sharing experiences is one of the quickest routes to learning, I think -- and I've got lots of that to do! Thanks for the warm welcome! xo

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you so much, Tiff! You're the best! xo

 

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Emma, wonderful having you here with us. With a supportive wife and a love for dressing this is certainly a place you’ll enjoy being part of. The girls here are helpful and friendly with their advice and tips with a heart for understanding about our passion. Develop beautiful friendships ,share each other’s experiences and know you have us to enjoy here. The best to the both of you as  your new journey begins. Happy meeting another Canadian here with us.

Welcome .

Stephanie 🌹

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you, Stephanie! It's a great site. I'm hoping that my wife will have an account here in time, perhaps! I've received such wonderful support here already, and know she could benefit from some as well. After all, things don't just change for us!

I think it's the community and friendships that help the most many days. Whatever other problem we encounter, we can turn to our friends and the community for support! Thanks for welcoming us to it.

xo,

Emma

 

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(@stacyannmay)
Trusted Member     Atlanta, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome, Emma! All the best to you!

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Emma!

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Lady
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(@emmaw)
Eminent Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you, Michelle! 🙂

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