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Hi all, I'm Veronica from Missouri. My first times I remember wearing items not traditional for boys was age 4. After I realized society didn't find it normal I started hiding my dressing wearing moms and sisters clothes while no one was home or everyone was asleep, after getting caught a couple times and about the time I started dating I put it all down for a bit. After settling down and getting married the desire to dress came back and I told my wife that I wanted to wear panties. Before long I was fully dressing at the house with her and she was super supportive until she wasn't. About 2 years ago she gave me the choice her or dressing and I chose her. Now at this point it's been 2 years but I feel like I need to start dressing again. I came here hoping to find people to relate to and to potentially make friends with the same interests.
Hello Tiny
That’s amazing to me that she was ok with it and then suddenly changed her mind. I’m still trying to get to that point.
Hi Veronica
Firstly, welcome to CDH. This is a very supportive, welcoming and friendly site. I've been a member since early July; I've made some firm friendships and I've loved every minute.
I was in a relationship for 15 years but it broke up in 2008. My partner never knew about the crossdressing, which was only occasional during this period of my life (even though I was desperate to slip into a dress for a lot of the time!), but I can categorically say that she would NOT have been at all tolerant. Since then I've been living on my own, and taking advantage of this by dressing full-time in private.
I can't imagine what it must be like for an SO to have given full support only to withdraw it. However, there will be other girls on here who HAVE experienced similar situations. Hopefully you'll receive more than a few constructive replies.
On a different tack, if you're looking to find friends with similar interests - and you will! - then it would be a good idea to make your profile page as full as possible. I can't speak for the other girls on here, but one of the first things I do when I receive a friend request from someone is to read through their profile and find out a little bit more about them before responding 🙂
Hugs
Ellie x
Veronica, you found a home here! All of us have similar stories of wants and desires to be the woman We are so ready to be. All of us are at different places in our journey.
we share our stories of hope, and encouragement, of trials, and tribulations, of stops and starts. We recognize the importance of protecting the ones that we love while still trying to me who we know we are deep inside. We share each other’s tears and each other’s choice.
I hope you will take a moment and populate your profile and share pictures if you wish. You can be comfortable here and participate in a community of love and like minded women. It’s your new “safe place.!”
M
Hi Veronica,
Welcome to CDH.
Alice
Hi Veronica nice meeting you and sorry i missed when you joined us girls here so please forgive me .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So when you are comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Veronica as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..
Stephanie Bass
Hello Veronica welcome to CDH I am glad you have shared a part of who you are. Having found us you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or level of public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. As you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Welcome!
Hugs April
Hi Veronica,
Always nice to see another Missouri girl join the site.
Tiffany
You have come to the right place. I am in a similar situation. I stopped crossdressing for two years, but came to realize this is an important part of who I am, and I love expressing my female side. It is so important to be able to talk to someone who is in the same circumstances. You will find the girls here at CDH to be supportive and always willing to talk. We form a wonderful sisterhood, and I am glad you have become a part of this community. it is a safe site, it is not a pick up site and is well managed. So welcome to CDH.
Hi my name is Veronica too i live in northeast Missouri i wanted to know what it is like to dress and live as a woman i am married and have been for 23 years she does not know i couldnt dress for a long time as i was living at home with my family i have dressed a few times someday i would like to do it full time with makeup and wigs and feminine clothes i have had men attracted to me i dont know why maybe someday i can figure it out they say i have feminine skin and feel really soft i am not very muscular im not really sexy just a plain guy wanting to dress as a woman and to be as beautiful as i can
Hi Veronica!
Welcome to CDH!
CDH is a supportive, encouraging, helpful community.
Enjoy exploring CDH as your comfort level dictates.
Catherine
Welcome to CDH, Veronica!
Before you get into trouble while hiding your compulsion to dress, maybe you and your wife can get some therapy with a good therapist.
Hi Veronica!
Welcome to CDH! Sorry about the “…supportive until…” part. I’ve been underdressing throughout my adult life in stealth mode; and more recently embraced fully cross dressing. My wife has discovered my secret a few times and each time while I’ve tried to “change my ways”; it roars back. The gender challenges of our dilemma we share here does help cope with the isolation and guilt we feel. My personal experience is it’s not a choice we’re making and we have no desire to hurt our spouse - it’s just a part of who we are. I have not figured out how to bring it out of the shadows and “ have it all “; but coming here to CDH gives me hope that somehow I will and I hope you do to!
Kimberly Anne
