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(@jessicacd289)
Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Hello,

I found the link to this site from the Roanyer Blog.  I'm here because cross dressing has grown on me ever since my wife tossed a pair of her panties at me one day while we were joking around after sex and told me to put them on.  Once she complimented me on how my butt looked in them, I was hooked.  Now I'd like to join the discussion here.

A few amazon purchases later she helped me with make up, a wig, and some women's lingerie and heals.  Once I was fully dressed I didn't even recognize myself in the mirror!

As for now I do the crossdressing when we are in the bedroom, but I would love for us to go out to a LGBT+ friendly bar or night club fully dressed for drinks some time.  She is on board with it!  Now I just gotta build up the courage to do it!

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(@fishingr8)
Joined: 4 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5216

@jessicacd289 Hi Jessica nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down there femme road in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jessica as she travels down her own girly path in life..  Now girlfriend as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Congrats on having a supportive wife as many ladies here do myself included and many still are in the old closet .. Build that confidence girlfriend as the first time out will be a blast with so much girly fun.. So again nice to meet you Jessica and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 7 months ago

Prominent Member     Connecticut, United States of America
Posts: 576

@jessicacd289 Welcome Jessica!  There are a lot of people here with your interest and you can learn much from them.  Sounds like you are well ahead of most here considering you have the support and encouragement of your spouse.   That's not the most common situation and she is to be cherished.   Getting to the point where you feel comfortable in public is a process.   Take small steps and do it at your own pace.  There will be setbacks but eventually you can get to a point where you can do just about anything you want.  I was this way.  I went from driving around in the car to a Vegas trip including walking around in places like Caesar's Palace!   Amazing feeling of accomplishment!

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(@rachelatshop)
Joined: 6 years ago

Eminent Member     Midcoast, Maine,, United States of America
Posts: 43

@jessicacd289 

Hi Jessica, welcome to the community, You are so lucky to have such a supportive and accepting wife. Hope to see more of you and maybe share so stories

Hugs Rach

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 10 months ago

Noble Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1738

@jessicacd289 Welcome to CDH, Jessica!

Grow at your own speed. There is no rush.

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Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 8 months ago

Famed Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 2004

@jessicacd289 Hi Jessica 🙂

Welcome aboard!

You've already experienced the warmth of the CDH community. This really is a very special place. I've been a member for five months now, but in many ways it seems like I've been here a lot longer; it just feels 'right'. Stick around and you'll really get the sensation of having gained a new family.

There's loads to explore ... enjoy 🙂

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@denisegurl2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Estimable Member     Milwaukee, Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 215

@jessicacd289   Welcome to CDH!

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Lady
(@jameie)
Joined: 4 months ago

Eminent Member     Terre Haute, Indiana, United States of America
Posts: 20

@jessicacd289 Looks like your off to a great start Happy Trails to you xoxo

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(@jessicacd289)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 25

@jameie Thank you so much!

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Baroness
(@revel)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 872

@jessicacd289 Hi Jessica,

Everything happens for a reason. Haha. Welcome to CDH.

Revel

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Jessica,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@jessicacd289)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 25
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(@chrisfp99)
Honorable Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 12 months ago

Welcome Jessica. You are indeed a lucky girl to have your wife's support. The holy grail of most of us. You'll find the girls here most supportive and many helpful resources too. 

Chrissie xx. 

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(@jessicacd289)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 25

@chrisfp99 Thank you!

Yes, I am indeed lucky.  She does not want to lose her 'husband' and understands this is not going to be a full time hobby/interest/change of life/etc... of mine.  So there are some limitations and boundaries that have been discussed and set up.  This is more of a private thing between the two of us.  With that said, I am looking forward to getting better with applying make up and dressing appropriately for when we do venture out in public together.

I do understand that many here are on a journey to transition full time.  I support you all and wish you well!

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(@emilysouthern)
Estimable Member     Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome Jessica!

Best of luck with your new adventures.  Your wife is awesome for being so supportive.  Do something special for her to show how much you appreciate it.

I'm a girl that goes out often, a word of warning.. once the genie is out of the bottle, there is no going back.  It is very addictive.  Ask me how I know that..

Emily

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(@jessicacd289)
Joined: 3 months ago

Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 25

@emilysouthern Thank you very much!

 

 

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(@dallen)
Estimable Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Jessica,

First off welcome ! You have a great wife with you. My wife is also fully supportive of my dressing and was also by biggest support to me exploring this side of me. She has helped me pick out clothes, identify my style and helped me with wigs and such also. I hope you enjoy your time and get any help you may need here.

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(@robertaf)
Prominent Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Go for it girl, you have what so many others dream about. 

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(@melodeescarlet)
Prominent Member     Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

Welcome aboard, Jessica! Glad you've got a supportive partner! The going out part will be fun and exciting - make your plans and go! 🙂

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(@jessicacd289)
Eminent Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 3 months ago

I just want to thank all of you for the warm welcome!  I've never felt more included and embraced by joining a message forum before!  Looking forward to joining the discussion here!

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(@Anonymous 87077)
Reputable Member
Joined: 1 year ago

Jessica, welcome to our community. This is a safe place to meet other like minded girls, and share your crossdressing journey. It is wonderful that you have a supportive wife. Enjoy this important part of who you are. I would love to get to know you better. I hope you visit my profile. 

Hugs Julie

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jessica,

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family, 

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my family, 

I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you X

Hugs Rozalyn X 

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(@kendrawhite)
Estimable Member     Kansas, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Hi, Jessica! Welcome! As others have said, it's awesome that you have support! I'm working on conquering my nerves so I can go out someday 🙂

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(@terria67)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hello Jessica,

Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM). You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

======== Link to our New Community Forums ====

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/crossdresser-heaven-lounge/

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https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/chat/
Regards,

Regards,

TerriAnne, Ambassador

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