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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloesfriend)
Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

I just want to say hello as I'm new to the site... And crossdressing in general. In the last few years, I've accepted being bi and have now embraced my love of ladies clothing. Then I walked into the living room, complete outfit with heels, to "come out" to my wife. She is very supportive and we've actually started shopping together. I'm excited to see where this journey takes me. I am realistic though... At 56 years old and very bearded, I know that I'll never be passable as a lady. I'm just hoping to maybe one day be able to feel comfortable going out in public with my wife and both of us dressed in our best.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

@chloesfriend 

Welcome to CDH Bobbie!

 I was in Dayton for the holidays. My friends I was traveling with (Floridian's) wanted to see snow . We also traveled to Detroit and crossed into Canada. The whole trip only some flurries. 

 Anyway you are certainly in the right place for all things feminine. We girls here are compassionate, caring and understanding. 

We will support and assist you in any way we can. 

There's even a section for supportive wives and SO's. This site has a lot of information and answers to your questions. Along with chat,friendships and other girly things. 

Welcome to the Pink Fog!

Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@gafran Thank you Fran. You should've stuck around for a couple more days... The snow has decided it likes us. Lol. I'm enjoying the site so far and hope to continue meeting nice supportive people.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

@chloesfriend 

This is the  safest place to rest you're heels!🥰

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

P.S. or high heeled snow ❄️ shoes 👞 🥰

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@gafran lol... Haven't found high heeled snow shoes yet. Sounds interesting tho

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

@chloesfriend 

They would have to be spiked heels! Like studded snow tiles. Watch out for them pesky snow snakes! 🥰

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@gafran Studded... With a 3 inch lift kit?

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1141

@chloesfriend 

Air ride suspension and stabilizer bars too! The full Monty! 🥰

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(@fabulous1)
Joined: 8 months ago

Reputable Member     Forest Hill, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 145

@chloesfriend Hello Bobbie, It’s great to meet another sister. There are just so many but that’s a good thing. I believe that you will come to agree with me that this is about family. We are a family. We stick together to cheer on each others victories, we’ll gather in support when things don’t go your way and we are here to just chat, if you want. Welcome to you, our latest sister, and help us to know how we make this relationship a great one!

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@fabulous1 Thank you. That's exactly what I'm looking for...a good support system for my new journey.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2208

@chloesfriend 

Hi, Bobbi, welcome to the family 😊.

We're a very mixed bunch, some, like yourself, just beginning to enjoy crossdressing and others who live full time and/or have transitioned. We all recognise and celebrate our feminine sides and there's loads of knowledge so don't hesitate to ask if you need anything.

Enjoy discovering your new home from home 😊.

Allie x

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@alexina Thank you

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5221

@chloesfriend 

Hi Bobbie

It's lovely to see you here ... welcome to CDH 🙂

I'm in Norfolk in the UK.

I'm single at the moment (and happy to remain so) but I have great fun clothes shopping with my sister. Not that I've started actually going out en femme we had a lovely day out after Christmas looking for outdoor coats in the sales. Now I have three!

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. It's a great place to make friends, seek advice, chat or simply sit back and soak up everything that's going on. 

There's lots to explore. Have fun doing that, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41
  1. @ellyd22 Thank you Ellie. I'm already feeling the camaraderie. And, I truly appreciate the the offer for help. Congratulations on being able to go out en femme and do the things you like. Maybe one day I'll get to that comfort level. 
  2. Bobbie
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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@chloesfriend Welcome to CDH, Bobbie!

It is understandable about you wanting to be careful crossdressing in public while wearing a beard. I have a full moustache, so I still rarely dress en femme, especially in public.

However, I always dress 100% in women's clothes, including shoes and forms, 100% of my day. We just have to choose our clothes carefully, to not be obvious, to blend in. Your cooperative wife can help you do the same.

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@harriette Thank you. I have wondered what others do with their facial hair. At this point, my wife is ok with me wearing undergarments with my "normal" attire. And honestly... The undergarments are what I like most. Except heels! She is very concerned about me going out in public fully dressed. Her biggest concern is narrow minded people trying to assault me. I don't think it would come to that but, for her peace of mind...  I would like to find places to go that I would be accepted wearing what makes me feel good.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@chloesfriend Those are all reasons why I dress androgynously. It would take close scrutiny for an observer to understand what I doing, what kind of clothes that I am wearing, especially if I  am not wearing big breast forms. Choose your clothes wisely and only you l, your wife and maybe some sales clerks will know, and you can even cut down on the number of clerks who know by using shopping techniques for crossdressers.

Danger from others is not a problem. I may attract the eyes of some people, but it is difficult enough as it is to get acknowledged when I do something very obvious, such as wearing bold nail polish or certain types of shoes. If you need to keep your secret from your neighbours, go to places farther from your home.

You can do this. 🙂

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@harriette Thanks for the advice. I've started researching friendly places to go. Unfortunately, we don't live close to the bigger cities. Not giving up though. This journey is just starting.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

@chloesfriend I don't know how much crossdresser friendly you need, but nearly any real business that I know of will accept our patronage and money. I can't remember the last time that any member here wrote about a really risky adventure. We all need to do the basics. Just don't be careless.

Shopping malls, gas stations, restaurants, even the biggest circus in town (Walmart) are safe places to go. If in a busy place and you get hassled, find a sales clerk or find a security guard.

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@harriette my concern is really more for my wife's peace of mind. I'm not petite by any means lol and can handle myself. Mentally and physically. It's really just more of making sure she feels comfortable. As we move forward, I'm sure she'll see that we're not going to get beat up or anything. In the meantime, we'll definitely exercise prudence and caution. Thank you again for your support. 

Bobbie

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4018

Posted by: @chloesfriend

It's really just more of making sure she feels comfortable. As we move forward, I'm sure she'll see that we're not going to get beat up or anything.

Of course, keep her comfortable. She may be remembering some things that she had to go through, too, and doesn't really want to relive them.

 

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 217

@chloesfriend Hello Bobbie!! welcome here!! Jo

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@joannajoy Thank you Jo

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Bobbie to CDH nice to meet ya as an Ohioan community here you find is so supportive and comfortable to be and explore are selfs as CD 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloesfriend)
Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Thank you for the welcome Erin. Nice to meet you as well. 

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1172

@chloesfriend hope ya staying warm in this Arctic vortex they calling it lol sure love Ohio weather lol 😂 

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@erinb Staying as warm as possible. You know the saying... If you don't like the weather in Ohio, wait five minutes and it'll change! Lol

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1172

@chloesfriend yes indeed all 4 seasons in one day lol as well 

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@erinb No joke! I've seen it

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Joined: 5 months ago

Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 1172

@chloesfriend as well 

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@erinb what part of Ohio?

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Bobbie,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloesfriend)
Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Thank you Alice. It's nice to meet you as well.

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(@jessicacynthia)
Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Welcome to CDH.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

.Bobbie -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@cdsue thank you

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Duchess
(@jjennalove2000)
Estimable Member     St Louis area, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Bobbie

I am sure you will find all these wonderful ladies helpful and fun in exploring your new journey.

Jenna

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloesfriend)
Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Thank you Jenna. I'm already feeling the warmth with purple reaching out. 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@chloesfriend)
Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

That was supposed to be people... Not purple! 😂

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Bobbie nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Bobbie as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you ..  Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@fishingr8 Thank you Stephanie. I'm enjoying the the forums and articles already. I've found some helpful information and like reading the other ladies' opinions on different matters. Hopefully we'll chat more. Thank you again. 

Bobbie

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Prominent Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi   Bobbie   , 

 Just wanted to say.    Welcome to CDH, !!!!

 It's  been a busy Holidays and now there are over,   and Survive them ,  and a new year 2025 ...

It takes time starting to know you way around CDH and meeting new Friends ..  Don't Worry   Just Enjoy Your Self !!!

Any time you like to Talk or gurl Chat ,  ???

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

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Lady
(@chloesfriend)
Joined: 2 months ago

Trusted Member     Sandusky, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 41

@stephanieann Hello Stephanie and thank you for the welcome. I'm starting to figure out my way around the site but it sure is nice getting the welcome messages. I love chatting with people. That's why I'm here... Make friends and learn more about this journey I'm on. Talk soon. 

Bobbie

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