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(@planemd)
Eminent Member     Dahlonega, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

New un closeted cross.

Been married for 25 years, we got together at 17. I was always too scared to tell her about my childhood fantasies, and love with female clothing. Within the last year I have been able to open up a little at a time. Even recently asked about wearing more then her panties.

I am not looking to become a woman, however experienced the sexiness and sensualness my wife has. I strictly wear her chosen panties at the moment, as this is what she wants. But like previously mentioned I ventured (got the balls) to ask for more and be more open.

I actually sent her a link to an article I found on this website today to help her better understand me. And pointed out that I’m the “sexual aroused” type the article speaks of.

I can only hope I did the right thing..

thanks for reading and allowing me to join, I finally don’t feel so alone and honestly confused. 

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2197

@planemd Welcome to our happy bunch! We are a mixed group in ages and motivation, many of us more mature girls have experienced the sexual thrill but now, and I'll speak for myself in this, I enjoy the SENSUAL aspect of women's clothes. I mean the materials, style, look etc cos men's clothes are almost universally boring! Mostly though, I find a deep relaxation when dressed and in Allie mode, I keep finding myself smiling and letting out long, happy sighs 😊

Wherever you are in your life, you'll find truly warm and supportive friends here.

Enjoy

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Lady
(@planemd)
Joined: 1 year ago

Eminent Member     Dahlonega, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 15

@alexina I do have to agree!!! Even in just her panties it’s such an internal soft feeling. Sensual is my term to explain as well. Still learning to let real feelings shine I guess.

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Lady
(@ginger1968)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Intercourse, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Posts: 122

@planemd welcome!!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@planemd Welcome to CDH, W V!

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. I hope it works.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Victoria, welcome to CDH.

There is a wealth of information here, as you've already discovered. It's good that your wife appears to be receptive to your dressing, and a little extra information may help her to be even more understanding of your reasons.

You are certainly not alone; there are plenty of us here who can vouch for that! Feel free to ask questions. CDH is a mutual support site first and foremost. You are among friends. Make ypurself at home.

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(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Congratulations on taking the next step in your journey - trying to figure out what all of this means to you. It's an important one! 🙂

As Jacqueline notes, there is a lot of information here - dig in!

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome to CDH Victoria! You will find lots of support here and many friendly people.

Denise
❤️

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Lady
(@planemd)
Joined: 1 year ago

Eminent Member     Dahlonega, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 15

@denises924 I think that’s the first time I have been referred to that way… What a feeling in itself… Thank You!

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi W V,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

W.V. -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@jessica1996mx)
Eminent Member     Morelia, Michoacan, Mexico
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome to the forum girl!

Could you please share the exact article? I wasn't aware of any of the mention of the "sexual arousal crossdressing", which is also my case (and would definitely help building bridges with my partner).

 

Kisses,

Jessica

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(@planemd)
Joined: 1 year ago

Eminent Member     Dahlonega, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 15

@jessica1996mx Gurl, I am so sorry I thought it was from this site but it’s not… however it led me here.

 

i hope it’s ok to post a link.. 

 

https://hannahmcknight.org/2022/04/30/why-having-a-crossdressing-husband-is-the-most-stressful-thing-ever/

 

I warned her the title was harsh and misleading and also what parts applied.

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(@jessica1996mx)
Joined: 1 year ago

Eminent Member     Morelia, Michoacan, Mexico
Posts: 26

@planemd Thank you so much!

It can be emotionally exhausting to discuss this, especially when your partner is not in the most open mindset, but you still have to try it.

Love learning about this 🙂

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi WV. 

Welcome to CDH. It’s a friendly, understanding and supportive place. You will find useful information and tips. You are not alone. Enjoy our Heaven!
Gisela

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(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi WV!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Lady
Topic starter
(@planemd)
Eminent Member     Dahlonega, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Thank you all so much, I have felt so free since opening more to her. At first it was definitely hard as she got mad straight away like expected, but now it’s a totally different feeling. I guess open and free is the best way to discribe it.

 

Thanks again for such a warm welcoming, Gurls - you all made my day!! 

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi W V,

Welcome to CDH!

Heart Lara

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