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[Closed] new here, shy but pleasant

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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hello fellow girls. i found this site online few days back and decided to join. i am 37, married (a difficult one), closeted dresser. started dressing quite late in my life, first time at 24. several purges and restarts after that due to family, work, career, social settings and to be honest, my own self. i dress occasionally and when on travel. still an amateur. looking for friends for support, girly talk, emotional help, validation and general comraderies. i am quiet and shy...say hi 🙂

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 8 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 885

@rathi 

Welcome to CDH Rachi!

 Your in the right place for all things feminine.

Your also among caring, compassionate and understanding girls like yourself. 

Explore this site to find friendships and answers to your questions. Chat and just hangout. 

I'm a former Jersey girl myself. Now a Georgia girl. Welcome to the Pink Fog! 

Fran 🥰 

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(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3813

@rathi Welcome to CDH, Rathi Girl! 

I am glad that you found us too, so jump right in and be heard.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
Joined: 2 months ago

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@harriette thank you sweetie 🙂

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(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1987

@rathi 

Hi, Rathi, glad you found us. You'll also find that we're genuinely friendly and helpful, we love to chat and you won't find a safer place to be yourself.

Take your time to look around and, anything you need, just ask, we'll do our best 😊.

Welcome to the family!

Allie x

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@alexina thank you Allie for the warm welcome to the family 🙂

 

(@fabulous1)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Forest Hill, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 135

@rathi Hi Rathi, Wonderful to make your acquaintance!  Have a seat.  Stretch out and get comfortable.  Look around at your leisure and chat when you’ve got something to say.  Otherwise, just enjoy.  Welcome, Penelope

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@fabulous1 thank you Penelope for the warm welcome 🙂

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(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 991

@rathi 

Hi Rathi,

Welcome to CDH from across the pond.

Many people that join here are quite shy and nervous when they arrive.

It’s a big thing to announce that you’re a cross dresser even online. I know it was for me. 

You’ve joined a very friendly community, which is a really safe place to talk all things femme.

Take things at your own pace and have a good look around.

If you need any help with anything, just ask, we’re always happy to help

Lucy

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@lucyb112 thank you Lucy for the warm welcome... 🙂

Baroness
(@chrisfp99)
Joined: 2 years ago

Famed Member     London , Kent, United Kingdom
Posts: 1687

@rathi Hey Rathi.

"support, girly talk, emotional help, validation and general comraderies".

Well you've nailed it! This is exactly what I we do here. Welcome to CDH. Have a good look around and if you have any questions just pop up a post. It can be tough in the closet. I am also highly restricted but being a member here is so cathartic.

Hugs, Chrissie xx. 

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@chrisfp99 thanks chrissie sweetie.. i feel good already 🙂

(@lauren114)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1161

@rathi Hi Rathi!  We're very happy to have you here.  The strength of CDH comes from its people so the more we have here, the better.   I'm sure you will find that your story shares many parallels to other folks here.   You should be able to find help and suggestions that will be of great value to you.

Lauren

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@lauren114 thank you Lauren for the warm welcome 🙂

Duchess
(@missylinda)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 825

@rathi welcome no need to be shy around your new sisters.  Yes, we are a sisterhood of ladies who were  just as shy and unsure as yourself.  We are helpful supportive and non judge mental to all.  As you read posts and profiles you will find sisters near you, and with similar interests.  Hope to see more of you.

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@missylinda hello Lorriane..thanks much for the welcome... 🙂

(@carloscloset)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 82

@rathi Hello Rathi, welcome to CDH.  There's several of us here with many things in common with you.  This is a supportive and inclusive community and I'm sure you will enjoy your time here.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@carloscloset thank you carlos for the assurance and welcome 🙂

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(@rikiinla)
Joined: 3 months ago

Estimable Member     Acadiana, Louisiana, United States of America
Posts: 59

@rathi Welcome to the group Rathi.  I'm late to respond, but as another new member I've found all members here to be warm, friendly and 100% accepting.  I'm still finding all kinds of helpful information, advice and personal stories that help me be comfortable with myself.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@rikiinla thanks Riki for the welcome 🙂

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(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4936

@rathi 

Hi Rathi

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You can see from the warm response that your intro post has received what a friendly and supportive place this is. No need to be nervous or shy ... we're lovely!

Enjoy.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Topic starter
(@Anonymous 99309)
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thanks Fran for the warm welcome. love jersey girls 🙂

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 8 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 885

@rathi 

It's ironic that you're from PA the 2nd state. Me originally from Jersey the 3rd state. Me now in Georgia the 4th state. Of the original 13 colonies. 

Your not to far from Harrisburg. That's where the Keystone Conference is held. That takes place in March. The Gala is going on now in Erie, PA.

Fran 🥰 

Guest
(@Anonymous 99309)
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@gafran thanks sweetie.. you know lot of history and information 🙂

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(@gafran)
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Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 885

@rathi 

Thanks Rarhi,

 I just like passing information when I can.🥰

Posts: 87
Duchess
(@crazycynthia)
Estimable Member     zuid holland, Netherlands
Joined: 3 months ago

Hi!!!!!

Lots of support here, shy one. Only place that doest judge to be honest. Im pretty new here myself.

I used to be in your possition till my fiancee found out. In hindsight it was the best thing that could have happened. Just last night we were discussing eye shadow. But offcourse i dont know your situation. Know you can contact me if you need anything, dear! Smile  

❤️ Cynthia.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@crazycynthia thank you cynthia sweetie.. happy to know this is a non judgemental space..i sure will contact you 🙂

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Rathi -

Welcome to CDH glad you found us. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@cdsue thank you sue 🙂

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(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello Rathi, welcome to CDH.

You're in the best place on the net for chatting about all things crossdressing. It's a safe environment, too - we make sure of that! - so feel free to join in. Any questions, just shout up.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@jacquelinelarkspur thank you jackie for the warm welcome 🙂

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(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Welcome Rathi, you have certainly joined a very welcoming and caring online community of girls. Like you I am a little shy and was uneasy about being open about my feminine identity but after a few weeks I felt accepted and wondered why I hadn't joined here years ago.

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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@lizzy89 thank you lizzy sweetie... you give me confidence 🙂

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(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

welcome to CDH nice to meet ya don’t have to be shy here in this community definitely such wonderful lady’s here adventure around jump in the chat room and best enjoy the comfort and accepting community TC 

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(@Anonymous 99309)
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thank you Erin for the warm welcome 🙂

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rathi Girl,

Welcome to CDH!

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rathi nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so keep looking around and reading of the forums and posts with a few profiles thrown in for fun.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With so much to see and do here and hearing the stories from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So like when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Rathi as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you ..Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Topic starter
(@Anonymous 99309)
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hello stephie...thanks much for the warm welcome. you make me feel comfortable. would love to chat with you some time.

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5969

@rathi  Anytime girl just say hello always up for a good ol girly chat ..

Stephanie

Posts: 124
Duchess
(@traci429)
Reputable Member     Brighton area, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Rathi, you are in the right place for friends, information and tips. I am an older gal but dressing up makes me appear younger.mi love to dress when I get the opportunity and have been for a while. You can check my profile (and anyone else) to see we are all similar. Hang in there. Life is too short not to enjoy it. Hugs, Traci

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Topic starter
(@Anonymous 99309)
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thank Traci for the warm welcome and supportive message. i like to talk to older girls, laid back. 

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