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(@seanaaz)
Active Member     Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello,

My name is Seana and I just wanted to stop in and say hello!   Although in my 50s, I’ve only recently came out to my wife about dressing.  I’ve been doing it since before I was a teen,  but it has been hidden away for many years.  To my utter amazement,  my wife was ok with it and plays along.  In fact, I think we are closer now than ever before.  Ultimately I want to be able to present well enough to go out in public with her and I am looking for new and exciting ways to be more feminine without surgery.  Anyways, thanks for the welcome!

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Duchess
(@missylinda)
Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome, you already have the greatest gift, a loving wife that is also enthusiastic  about having Seana  join the family.  Every day thank her and tell her you love her. Have Seana show her how grateful she is to have been accepted.  If you care to tell,, would love to hear the story of  when  you shared your greatest secret and how she reacted.

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Seana nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here and congrats on having a supportive wife its a wonderful thing .. As  a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Ok girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about the femme journeys they have ..So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Seana as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you.. Just do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Seana,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Duchess
(@aprilcdmf)
Prominent Member     Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hello Seana welcome to CDH I am glad you found us here and so happy to hear that you have a loving understanding wife and supportive wife that is so amazing you are a lucky girl. Joining CDH you have made the step to become part of a family that is welcoming, understanding, compassionate, and supportive. While we are all similar and have many of the same desires we all differ on our goals or levels of closeted dressing or underdressing or public expression and or personal experiences. I encourage you to explore the many forums, topics, polls and member biographies found here as there are a wide range of members all over the spectrum of feminine expression from differing levels of crossdressing to those on the path to transition and those that have. There are also links to websites that have products and services that may help you on your own personal path of self acceptance and expression. Ultimately it is a place, home, or space were you can feel feel comfortable and confident in who you are that you are not alone and this is a place where you can feel safe to express and share part of yourself as being who you truly are as your authentic self of you being a man, a woman, a man who dresses as a woman, if it makes you a better complete human being expressing your feminine desires feelings and or qualities. I am happy you are here and have made a choice to accept and embrace this part of yourself as self acceptance is the most important thing you can do for yourself and others. You can’t expect others to accept you if you don’t accept yourself all of you. For some it means remaining private for some telling a select few ultimately you have to do whats best for your own situation and you ultimately know best and having your love and partner in life meet you with open arms is so huge. I appreciate you are sharing a part of your authentic self here on CDH it ultimately lifts some of the burden that you may be feeling which many of us have carried for what seems like a lifetime you are not alone. Being here helps not only yourself but helps others gain acceptance and confidence in themselves by hearing about you and your experiences. I am happy you have made the step to be here. Both you and your wife are so very welcome.

Hugs April

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Seana!

Welcome to CDH.

This is a supportive, encouraging and helpful community.

I think lots to explore here to help you with your crossdressing journey.

Again, welcome!

Catherine

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Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Noble Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Welcome, Seana! I'm so glad your wife is on board! It's wonderfully affirming. I hope you'll learn lots and make some new friends here! 🙂

- M

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(@Anonymous 76954)
Reputable Member
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Seana, welcome and a very familiar story.  I too came out to my wife when I was 62 and was shocked that she is ok with it.  Great not having to hide at home.

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(@marilyncd)
Eminent Member     Dayton, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

So proud of you.  Telling your wife had to be so scary.  I dream of that day often and the different ways it would go.  I’ve never found the path to a happy ending in my mind but I dream of the “several ways to acceptance” so often.

Welcome to CDH and share your story with us. It is one of hope and encouragement. Certainly we will share ours with you.

marilyn.

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Seana

I'm so pleased that you had such a happy outcome. Coming out can be a very scary thing. The fact that it worked out so well for you is a real feelgood story 🙂

Welcome to CDH!

You'll find that this is a very friendly, welcoming and supportive community. I hope that you love it here as much as I have.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Lady
Topic starter
(@seanaaz)
Active Member     Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

That is so good to hear!  I was so worried about throwing away an amazing relationship over all this.  It turned out to be the exact opposite and now I regret wasting so many years not coming clean with what I really felt and wanted to do.  I’m so happy to hear “success” stories.

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Duchess
(@sometimespaulette)
Prominent Member     Gilbert, Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Seana, and welcome from another Arizona girl.  I live in Gilbert and have made several friends in the Phoenix area through CDH.  We make fairly regular trips to Las Vegas where we have makeovers, then go 'out and about' and just have fun.  Please let me now if you would like to join us on one of our "excursions".  We call our little group "Confident U" and its purpose is to team with girls who have not been out before and support them in gaining the confidence to do so, and enjoy themselves in the process.  We are a social organization and our junkets are pretty much where everyone covers there own expenses.  However I have been known to spring for a few rounds at Happy Hour! (LOL).  We just got back from Fem Friday with the River City Gems in Sacramento and it was a BLAST!  Let's stay in touch.  Hugs, Paulette

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH!

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Lady
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(@seanaaz)
Active Member     Arizona, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Thanks for the welcome….and this sounds amazing! I’d love to learn more about this…but I don’t know if I’m ready for something like that.  I want to be able to do exactly what you’re talking about, but I’ve never stepped a foot into public.  I have so much to work on!  Please keep in touch, I’d really like to talk to you more about this.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Welcome to CDH, Seana!

Enjoy your ride.

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