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(@Anonymous 95936)
New Member
Joined: 10 months ago

Greetings! And thank you for letting me join.

I am new to this crossdressing stuff. In fact, I've not really considered myself a crossdresser. I am just a man that likes to wear women's clothing. I have been wearing pantyhose for 4 years and a bra for about a year and a half. I wear them pretty much every day with my regular guy clothes. In the summer I wear shorts with my pantyhose, so I'm pretty sure people have noticed. Although, if they have, they have never let on. The same goes for my bra, I wear it daily with t-shirts, usually dark colored ones, so it's not real noticeable, but I'm sure people have noticed.

My doctor knows I wear a bra, as in my old age I have developed pretty good sized boobs. It is a 38B and I fill it up. And that is why I started wearing it. Anyway, I've rambled enough about that.

I have never really been embarrassed to wear the pantyhose with shorts anywhere I go in public. My neighbors have seen me in them, my friends have seen me in them, total strangers have seen me in them. The bra is another story. I have this feeling that I am doing something I need to hide. It makes me feel dishonest. I just wish people would accept a man wearing a bra as "normal". My wife has been pretty supportive of my bra wearing, but I would really like to have other women to talk to about it.

Some other things I have "dabbled" in, are women's jeggings, denim skirts, a little makeup, and occasionally nail polish.

Anyway, I've not really had any interest in trying to dress to look like a woman, and my wife would not support that, but as time goes on, I may decide to expand my horizons!

Thank you

BJ

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3998

Welcome to CDH, Bobby Jo!

Posted by: @Anonymous 95936

I've not really considered myself a crossdresser. I am just a man that likes to wear women's clothing.

That's the definition of crossdressing, no? 😁

 

Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@bjb Welcome.  This is whatever your comfortable with calling it.  Some prefer labels some dont.  When clothing becomes Womens clothing.  vs just clothing, like when a shirt becomes a blouse. We are not all the same , but we respect and support each other's representation of themselves. that to me is what Haven means. Always do and be what makes you happy, and like others have said were all here for you on your journey.  Cheers RC..

Posts: 1114
Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Bobbie Jo. 

Welcome to CDH. A friendly, understandfing and supportive community. Here you can explore your feelings. It is always your choice. We are here to go along with you in your path. 

Gisela

Posts: 7810
(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Bobbie Jo,

 

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Bobbie Jo nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so look around and do some reading of the forums and posts with a few profiles thrown in for fun.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also..  We all love a girly chat so don't be shy jump on in and join in with a Bobbie Jo story or two .. So happy for you to have a supportive wife even if its only a small amount of time it keeps the girls heart heading down the right girly path in life..

Stephanie Bass

Posts: 4
Guest
(@Anonymous 95936)
New Member
Joined: 10 months ago

Hi Bobbie Jo! Welcome to CDH! I can’t say it any better than River did so re read that as if it was from me😊

everyone here is so nice and supportive you will feel at home. Have a chat or send a message! Everyone here loves to talk!

 

Sheryl

Posts: 675
Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Bobbie Jo!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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