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(@lujan2099)
Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Joined: 5 months ago

Hi everyone

I am new in town and I 'd like to meet more people like me, and share experiences and become friends.

Thank you 

Odeth

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 10 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1642

@lujan2099 Welcome to CDH!

Anna 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@annaredhead Thank you Anna, I feel so great with all of your words , I hope to communicate in the best way possible to all of you ,even when English it is not my native language, I'll do my best Sisters!!!

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 4942

@lujan2099 

Hi Odeth

Welcome to CDH 🙂

You've just joined a very warm and supportive community. You say that you're looking to share experiences and make friends; this really is the perfect place.

There's lots to explore here. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1993

@lujan2099 

Hi, Odeth, as Angela says, this is a safe place to share with like-minded others. This was the first, and remains, the only, place  I had ever shared my crossdressing with anyone except my wife. What a relief after hiding away for years.

So, look through the forums and profiles and you'll soon feel at home here too.

Anything you need or questions you have, just shout.

Allie x

 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@alexina hi

Sorry maybe this sound weird but , the public pictures can be seen by anybody?

The private pictures gallery, other member cannot see it ?

What can I do if I want to share pics to all member or some of them ? Upload to public or in a group. Thank you for your time my dear!!

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1993

@lujan2099 

Hi, Odeth.

The public gallery can be seen by anyone, including non-members. The private gallery can only be seen by members. As you have a Duchess account, you can post pics to your private gallery.

If you tap on your name at the top of the page, you can select private gallery from there, then create a gallery. Once your gallery has been created, you can upload pics. All members can view them.

Let me know if you have any issues 😱

Allie x

 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@alexina I did a private gallery!

I would love if you have a chance and see my pics and give me your opinion, as you may know I live in Latin America country, so crossdressing it is harder than other places in the world. I don't have wigs, mu pics are basis in this part, and my house it is a very small house and there is no much places to take a good photo.

Even with than disadvantages, I do what I can and enjoy a lot.

Any advice is very welcomed, my dear sisters.

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1993

@lujan2099 

Well done, Odeth, you made a better job than I did on my first attempts.

One piece of advice I'd offer is that, I assume you had fun taking your pics, let it show in a smile 😊!

Allie x

 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@alexina hi dear sister

Believe me when I tell you ,it is funny but that is my happy face!!!

Some others always telling me the same,"are you upset,?, please change that face", and then I realized, ohh, I looks like very serious.

I will effort in the next pictures!!!!.showing the happiness that filling me now talking to all of you about something trapped inside me for many,many years

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 12 months ago

Famed Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 1993

Ha ha! Yes, Odeth, I have also had that, "cheer up" when I'm feeling perfectly happy.

Not so much now though, because I'm happier balancing the two sides of myself, I find that I do smile more. Sometimes even laughing uncontrollably. This tends not to go down so well at funerals, though 🙄.

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1488

@lujan2099 

Hi Odeth, welcome to CDH. This really is the best and safest place on the internet to talk about crossdressing. Join in and have fun!

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@lujan2099 Odeth thats a different and beautiful name. Welcome to the family.  Salud RC

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@river Hi

Thanks!!!, I always wanted use this name for my alter ego after being read some many stories about girls like us across the world.

Also I decided to use it because it is easy to remember and no often you can seee Odeths over there.....and a third reason, well it is similar to my real name.

By the way, your name reminds me France for some reason...I like it also!!!!

 

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@lujan2099 Chanteur  Is french for male singer.  So spot on 😉 Have a great day. RC

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@river I knew it!!!! Well well, I am learning french but I am in level A1 yet, some words are completely unknown for me , but the grammar and french construction are quite similar in some words, that's why I was assuming the french origin.

I hope to become best friends my dear.

Thank you for share your time with me,which is for me one of the most precious values we have, besides the life.

Have a good day my dear!!

Odeth

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Baroness
(@river)
Joined: 1 year ago

Noble Member     New Hampshire, United States of America
Posts: 827

@lujan2099 Time is a precious commodity.  my favorite saying comes from embarrassingly kung fu panda.. the past is gone. the future is unknown but today is a gift and thats why its called the present.  Heart  RC

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

Welcome Odeth nice to see you here.

This is a very safe and friendly community of girls just like you. Please look around the site and familiarize yourself with the many articles and features on offer. If you have any questions don't be afraid to ask as there is a wealth of experience and knowledge here. 

I am sure that you will feel at home here and that you will become a lively part of this site.

Welcome again.

 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@ab123 thank you , I am happy to share this side of me with someone, I crossdress in private but nobody knows this about me , except my wife, but she disapproval totally and expect I don't do anymore, so this makes me feel sad in some point. This is something I enjoy but only in very private time and no resources,(I use my wife's cloth she don't use anymore)

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34
Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@lujan2099 I am so much in the same situation.

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@corine hi

I think it is one of the most struggle situations for us , not have the approval of you partner in life(wife).

I don't ask much......at least weekend in some hours at home, share my femme side with her and talk about fashion, life and many other things that only we can talk as a girl.

But she doesn't like the idea at all, she wants a male husband, she feel afraid of I became gay ,leave her and looks for men.

So sad...

I

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@lujan2099 I can relate so much. So here I am trying to share with complete strangers. No insult intended. But I really hope I can share my feelings and desires on this quorum. Ty

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@lujan2099 I do have a skirt that I have only wore a few times in private. It does feel good with a slip bra and top. Does this make sense. Still trying to understand myself. I do love nail polish. So far I do my toes with dark colours. Really want to try more vibrant. Don’t think it would work well my wife. 🥲

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@corine my day start early in the morning, once my wife  and my daughter leave the house, I have a free time to try some of the dresses of my wife, and try to makeup in the best way I can , I don't have any , so I have to use some of my wife and daughter has it . But always I have the nerves of what if someone came early and caught me dressed and with makeup, it feels extreme, but at the same time I feel exciting.
After 1 hour or 2 , I rollback to male mode and move to my job.

Today was an strange day, my wife and daughter didn't work , because it Labor day in USA and call Centers close today, so I couldn't do anything. Maybe tomorrow, I hope so.

 

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@corine hi my dear

Your wife doesn't know that you crossdress?? or she knows but she doesn't want to hear or talk about this topic.

In my case I talked to her when I got married, and she doesn't got upset or anything ,  but she state his position very clear, she is hoping I won't do crossdressing again or at least she doesn't want to see me crossdressing anymore.

That complicate the things, and my crossdressing time is when she is not at home, I mean, when she is working, she leave the house at 6am and come back at 8pm.

My daughter leave the house at 7:30am and come back at 7pm.

So I have to use that time if I want to crossdress in the house with no problem, until 9-10am , and I go to my work and come back at 5-9pm depends if I have a lot of work or not.

 

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@lujan2099 she does not like the fact that I enjoy women’s clothes and lingerie. She definitely does not approve. Therefore I definitely do it in private

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@lujan2099 I also crossdress in private. My most loving is the lingerie clothes. Nightgown, slips and bras. I have been looking for a quorum to share. I hope this is it. We will see.

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Baroness Annual
(@secretpassions)
Noble Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Hello Odeth,

Welcome to this friendly accepting community! I found it to be quite a relief to learn that there are so many girls like us when I joined. Since then I've learned so much, and made some wonderful friends here.

Take some time to explore the site, there is a lot of information here!

Hugs,

Heart Lara

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@secretpassions thanks Lara

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Odeth,

Welcome to CDH.  You’ll meet many new friends here.

Alice

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Lady
(@corine)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 34

@aliceunderwire hello Alice. I am new  here also. If u want to share. Please let me know

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Odeth nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from so do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Odeth as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice meeting you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@fishingr8 I hope to get a time to talk about ,as sisters we are, thank you !!! I love so much this detail

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Duchess
(@lujan2099)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     San pedro, cortes, Honduras
Posts: 168

@fishingr8 hi

As you may know I am pretty new in this site, If I want to share my story or events in this new endeavour as Odeth, How and where can I share it?

Do I have to enter I a group or ??...I need your wise advice dear sister.

Thank you once again to attend me in this question.

 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Posts: 5972

@lujan2099 Hey girlfriend across the top right find Forums tab then click when it opens select personal stories then  type away he he have fun girl cant wait to read some .. Hugs Stephanie

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Odeth 

Welcome to CDH. A very friendly, understanding and supportive community.I live in Panama, so I know how hard is crossdressing in this part of the world. So I post my photos only in my private gallery and the post of private photos so just members can see them. Except that I had posted one of them in an article, where everybody can see me, and I haven't had any issue yet. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable sharing your pictures. 

Gisela

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