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(@fie)
Active Member     Sacramento, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hello folks,

My journey into crossdressing has been an interesting one. My femme name is Lucy Winter. Been privately dressing for 2 1/2 years. At this stage I'm looking just for support and ways not feel guilty or shame about it. Only person in my personal life who knows about this is my ex and she was fully supportive. 🙂

Thanks for coming to my Ted talk. 😁

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family, I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on I'm still in the closet to my wife and the only people who know i crossdress are the girls on here, I'm sorry i can't meet up with you for a coffee ☕ I'm on the other side of the pond in the UK, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 👗 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone X 🎀

Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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Lady
(@kerrismith)
Prominent Member     Belvidere, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy,

Welcome to CDH.  I don’t think you should feel guilt or shame about CDing.  I don’t any more.  My wife left me for reasons other than crossdressing so now I’m alone. The way I see it is it’s not hurting anyone and if it makes us happy then there’s nothing wrong with it.  Have fun and I look forward to hearing more about you.

Kerri

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH. It's normal to have guilty feelings when engaging in something that goes against society's norms but that does NOT mean that you are doing something wrong. Different yes, wrong no.

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Ambassador
(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Lucy

welcome, express yourself with complete confinance. Here our ladies are so understanding and very supportive. Meet with some of them and enjoy their help and most of all  acceptance to  make your time here such a wonderful experience. Making friendships is so much fun and know there’s always someone here to talk to and to listen when needed.  Happy to meet you and hope to see you sometime here soon.   Hugs

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

 

 

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(@Anonymous 89174)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy and welcome to the CDH family. We are all here to support and help one another. I'm so glad you could join us.

Rose

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Lady
(@sugden)
Reputable Member     South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy , if you enjoy c/dressing do it , it hurts nobody and it,s nobody else business , I used to feel the same as you but now I enjoy it , it,s who you are , you are doing nothing wrong.Joining CDH you will find help and support .m

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lucy,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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(@Anonymous 89174)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy, welcome!

Chat me up anytime. Its ok to be you, there is no meed for guilt or shame although I understand it all too well.

Hope to see you around!

-Lilly

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Duchess
(@shadowqueen)
Reputable Member     Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy,

I can certainly understand that you are feeling guilty about crossdressing the whole world seems to disdain us. At least publicly but did you ever wonder what they might think about it when they are alone? Maybe some have considered trying it themselves but if they are in a room full of guys of course they are going to spew hate. I wonder if we could know honest numbers how many guys might be turned on by the idea. I for one have decided to accept this part of myself and live the best live I can.

hugs

AnnaBeth

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Lady
(@angrilyamused)
Estimable Member     Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

Lucy,

First of all, let me assure you you’re not “failing as a man”. Your feelings are valid, “normal”, and clearly natural, and if all people were the same what fun would that be?

But this is too short for a TED Talk. Where are the dirty deets? 😆

Peace, love, empathy,

-G.

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Lady
(@jennyjstoned)
Reputable Member     Ypsilanti, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Pleasure to have you here Lucy. I hope you enjoy your stay

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Lucy nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Girl there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Lucy as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you.. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

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(@leanne7611)
New Member     Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Lucy nice to meet you I’m Leanne very similar story been dressing in private for few years started to want to do it more often and have loved buying clothes make up ect I have recently told my girlfriend that I dress up . Hope you are well Lucy love to chat with soon ?

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Duchess
(@terria67)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hello Lucy,

Welcome to our CrossDresser Heaven (CDH) site. So glad you have joined us here. Feel free to explore all that our site has to offer.

The Warmth, Compassion and Hospitality of our community members can be found throughout the site.

Please do make use of the forums and articles or public chat room and friendships offered here on CrossDresser Heaven.

At any Membership level, You can contact any of us via Private Message (PM).  You can find that link on each member’s Wall under their Profile picture.

Also, you may find what you need from: The Help Center or our Ambassadors by using the links in the Top R/H Drop Down 3 bar Menu.

Here is a good link to review the membership levels and the privledges for each. Such as Private Chat (PC), Groups, Additional Photo Allowance, etc.

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