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I'm an 18 year old crossdresser from the UK. I've been interested in crossdressing since a young age however I have recently started wearing makeup and trying to pass for a woman. I do however find it quite frustrating that I can never seem to get my makeup right as I always see a hint of masculinity in the way I look.
You might well be seeing what others can't, or don't see.
There are many makeup tutorials on line. Watch some of those, get some ideas and then practice. Many of us have definite 'masculine' facial structure but care with makeup can help hide it to a degree.
In the long run though, whether you do or do not 'pass' is entirely of your choosing. I don't expect people to believe I was born female, but I do hope they think I look nice presenting as female.
Yes, in the beginning I had that same problem too.
However, practice makes perfect. I have become more proficient with my makeup.
I have also become more feminine since I have been dressing.
At present I make a very attractive and passable woman. When out I have men give me some nice stares.
In public I pass very well as a woman.
Keep trying. you will get there.
Hi Jessica and welcome to CDH.
Rachel
Thanks for the reply, I'll just keep on persevering. It may also have something to do with lack of confidence on my behalf which can only be solved by going out.
Jessica,
It takes time. Use the tutorials. See what are your most masculine features and minimize them. Whether it is eyebrows being slightly shaped or using different shades to create the illusion of cheekbones. It all helps.
Take care
Hannah
Hi Jessica;
Oh to be 18 in this more liberated time. But that's another topic.
I can't recall which of the girls said it, but as Jane S mentions, "passing " is first and foremost an internal attitude or perception. I long had the concerns you voice. But then I realized I was still measuring my worth and acceptance by standards of someone other than myself. Just like I had been for so many years. Arghh!
I'm still in my own early stages of honoring and celebrating the Erica who is me. But when I get made up, and go out, or whatever I do, I'm going to do it for her, not anybody else. She's been too frustrated all these years being hid in the closet. It's her turn now.
Stay with us, Jessica. These wonderful girls here will love you in a way you never thought possible. Let your inner beauty shine brightly. The outer part will surely follow.
All in love,
Erica
