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New one in search of advices

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Lady
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(@foxyman)
Active Member     Mistery, Mistery, France
Joined: 5 years ago

Hello everyone,

 

I'm a young crossdresser who finaly come at peace with my feelings and I'm know in need of advice to how to start smoothly and not too costly, so I'm thought getting to you might be a good idea.

Your friendly Nathan

 

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(@shannonbright)
Eminent Member     Barrie, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Nathan welcome to the sight,there are many here who will be able to help guide you along the way. I think the first thing you could do is give her a name,you know it does make a big difference when you decide on a name for that beautiful woman inside you just waiting to blossom. Then look deep inside yourself and try to picture the image of her you have seen many times in fantasies and decide what steps you can reasonably take towards becoming that image. As time goes on you will see more clearly and find some inspiration to help you along, then you will have a much better idea what you might like to wear, what colour her hair is and such. Before you know it you will be encouraged by the feminine person you are becoming and will take greater and greater steps forward in your journey. If I can help in any way please don't hesitate to ask me.

xo Shannon

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Nathan a big hello from Canada, welcome. There's  information on everything to help guide you with tips and advice through many of the challenges we face exploring our love of dressing. Happy to welcome you so  just relax and start enjoying all that we have to offer. Girls here are always willing to offer any help on questions you may want to know . The best to you on your journey forward.

Stephanie 🌹

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi..Nathan ,

Welcome to CDH ,

Even I'm young, I'm 23 what's your age?

Xoxo Shreya

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Nathan!

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(@Anonymous)
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Charity or thrift shops are a good place to start - you're helping them by buying stuff, and they're helping you!

I use eBay too much... But the number of bargains I've had far outweigh the odd disappointment - and you get a fee of those as you come to master (or mistress!) your own style.

In a few months you'll be wondering why you chose a particular garment, since it's so unsuited to your style... which you won't know until you begin experimenting and exploring.

The world of women's clothing is so richly varied and vibrant, I'm still discovering aspects of my style.

It's such a fun journey - enjoy every step!

Love Laura

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Lady
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(@foxyman)
Active Member     Mistery, Mistery, France
Joined: 5 years ago

Thanks for the warm welcomming.
<p style="text-align: left;">As for the name, I'm kinda puzzle , because I never saw that part of me as my inner woman, I always thought of myself of one unique entity, who do like to crossdress, but never as a man with an innerd woman.</p>
But what you've says had stay in a corner of my head for those days, so I was wondering how did you choose your name, without being indiscrete or indelicat.

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Lady
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(@foxyman)
Active Member     Mistery, Mistery, France
Joined: 5 years ago
  1. I'm younger, just above 19 ^^
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Lady
(@valsheril)
Honorable Member     Pleasant Hill, California, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome Nathan!

First of all, let me say you're ahead of the curve.  Many of us (self included) don't find peace with such feelings until much later in life.

Our sisters have given a lot of good advice here.  If you're like me and a bit paranoid about shopping and privacy Amazon locker delivery is your friend.  Or anyone who ships FedEx/UPS you can arrange for an in-store pickup for no additional charge.  I personally vastly prefer online shopping to in-person, as it gives me time to browse in a comfortable relaxed environment and often has options that are hard to find in brick-and-mortar stores.

Hope this helps!

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