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(@ram1863)
Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

Hello,  I am Rachel.  I have been dressing in panties and bras for year when the wife or live in girlfriends were not home.  It’s beens year.  I hope o am not being to silly.  My wife has bought me panties,  bralettes and thigh highs but does not want to see me in them.  We had some long talks but still trying to figure out where this journey will take me.

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(@Anonymous 96443)
Joined: 9 months ago

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@ram1863 hopefully it will take you on a thrilling enjoyable journey as you learn your style and what you like. Express yourself freely and indulge yourself and what feels good to you.

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

Yes thanks 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5214

@ram1863 

Hi Rachel

Welcome to CDH 🙂

This is a very warm and supportive community - a wonderful place to make friends, seek advice or simply chat.

It sounds as though your wife is supportive to a degree, which can only be a positive. The important thing is to keep the dialogue going.

There's lots to explore here; have fun doing that, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Ellie x

 

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@ellyd22 thanks Ellie it’s so scary right now.

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@ram1863 Welcome to CDH.You will find lots of help and support here as you figure out the way ahead. In some ways your situation is a bit like my own was a few years ago until I found the right way to come out to my wife and (most of) the rest of the world. I recounted that in a CDH article a few months ago, just as many other girls here have also shared their experiences. I hope you will find their contributions a great help. Meanwhile build on the start you have made in sharing this with your wife.

Rebecca 

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@fembecky omg it’s so overwhelming,   So scary.

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Baroness Annual
(@fembecky)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Gloucestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 602

@ram1863 

Hi Rachel, Many of us have probably felt things are a bit scary and challenging, especially in the earlier stages of starting our crossdressing journeys. I don't think there is any magic solution to this, but I suggest taking things in small steps, bit-by-bit building your confidence.

Lots of us have been through this, so just remember we are all here to give you support and encouragement.

Rebecca

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@fembecky thanks Rebecca

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@ram1863 

Hi, Rachel, congratulations on choosing to join the friendliest, most supportive community of like-minded individuals.

If you need directions or anything else on your journey, just ask, we love to help.

Allie 

 

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@alexina thank you

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@ram1863 

Hi Rachel and welcome,

I can see that you’ve mentioned how scary this all is.

You’re right of course, it is scary at times.

You’ve taken the right step in joining us here. This is a safe place where you can be open about how you feel. You’ll also find that your journey will be easier among the friends you’ll make here.

We’re also a lot of fun, so have a look around and join in with anything you want to.

Hugs

Lucy

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@lucyb112 Thanks so much.

Rachel

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@lucyb112 thanks so much

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@ram1863 

Hi Rachel,  welcome to CDH.

You're not being silly at all. You are part of a worldwide sisterhood,  a community where crossdressing is a deep part of who we are. There's nothing to be ashamed of,  though it is a difficult path for many due to the attitudes and expectations of society. 

You are in a fortunate position,  in that you have a wife who is at least partly supportive of your desire to crossdress. That is worth a lot, believe me. It's good that you are able to talk with her about what you do. 

Make yourself at home here.  You are among friends who know how you feel and what you are experiencing. This is a supportive,  empathetic and safe place to express yourself. Just shout up if you have any questions. Have fun!

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@jacquelinelarkspur thank you so much.

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Lady
(@sroyer)
Joined: 11 months ago

Estimable Member     Ontario, Canada
Posts: 45

@ram1863 Hello Rachel,

Welcome...and no, it's not silly.  I read somewhere that the clothes we wear are a expression of who we are and it takes time to discover your own groove and navigate through it.

Summer

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@sroyer Thanks Summer

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😘

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachel,

Welcome to CDH.  Enjoy each step along your journey.

Alice

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Rachel Nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here please do some looking around and reading also of the forums and posts with a few profiles thrown in for fun.. Now as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. With a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from girl please don't be shy as really girl we don't bite well then a few girls do be careful (ha ha ) just kidding .. Nothing to worry about here we all love to chat so jump on in and have fun ..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@fishingr8 thank you so much this is very scary.

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Lady
(@ram1863)
Joined: 9 months ago

Eminent Member     Lindenhurst, Illinois, United States of America
Posts: 13

@fishingr8 thank you 

Rachel

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Lady
(@sandf)
Reputable Member     Centro Italia, Italia, Italy
Joined: 9 months ago

Hello

In my everyday social life I have been a married man for 30 years, when I can, I have been secretly dressing up for many many years, becoming "Sandra" and I hope one day to be able to realize my dream and that is, to live my life as a 100% woman and have a man who loves me and makes me his own
A Dear Kiss to all 😘

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3857

@sandf 

Hi Sandra,

Welcome to CDH!  This is an amazing place!  Lots of friendly girls are here to chat with and build friendships. 

One suggestion.  You'll get more visibility and responses if you post an intro of your own in the Introductions Forum. 

https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/introductions-new-members/

/EA

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Lady
(@sandf)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Centro Italia, Italia, Italy
Posts: 118

@emilyalt Tanks 😘

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Sandra!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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