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Hi everyone, I'm Wendy. I'm in my mid 50's, and have been crossdressing on and off, with more purges and restarts than I can count, since my mid-teens.
I'm here because the social isolation from COVID has been horrible, and I need a safe place to connect with like-minded people. My spouse used to be supportive of my crossdressing, but that changed a few years back when she admitted she hated it, and all that support disappeared. So now I'm back in the closet, so to speak.
So that's the short story. Hoping to connect, learn, and spread love, not hate. Thanks.
Wendy
Hi Wendy and welcome to CDH I am sorry to hear that your S.O. cannot cope with your need to crossdress, sadly many other girls here have the same problem, hopefully you will make many new friends who will help you through this challenging time.
All my love Diana 💋
Forgot to say I love your profile pic you look so pretty!
Diana.
Thank you for the kind words. It means a lot to me.
Thank you! It is software-enhanced, mainly for hair and makeup. I didn't want to go too wild and make it look "not me." That's Wendy...just the best version of her. 🙂
Welcome , Wendy
This is the safe place you're looking for. Hang around, check out some posts, and get your feet under the table. You'll like it here.
Marti x
Thanks, Marti. 🙂
Hi Wendy: Sadly, the same thing happened to me. I had been thinking my wife was becoming increasingly supportive of my femme side, but a few months ago, that came to a screeching halt. Now I am pretty much back in the closet, although she knows I wear panties 24/7 and apparently doesn't have an issue with that.
Hi Wendy, Teralynn here. Welcome to our wonderful online community Luv. I would like to commend you for two things. First you had the courage to initially tell your wife about your crossdressing. Second, after finding out she really hated it, I assume because you are somewhat in the closet that you have elected to stay with her. You are in effect doing without something that makes you happy to stay in your relationship. There are some who would not do that, but if you love her enough then it does make sense. Just remember that - in the end love wins! By joining CDH you can find the acceptance and support your wife doesn’t give you. A member once compared CDH to a sorority. It is a comparison that I find very appropriate. Welcome to the sisterhood! If I can ever be of service please feel free to contact me through this site and let me know how I can help. A post on my home profile page wall or a private message will get the fastest response. - Blessings
Hi Wendy welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, we are all like minded people on here and if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you x
Hugs Rozalyne x
Hi Wendy,
Welcome to CDH so happy to have you here. This is a great place to be. Hugs Katey
Thank you so much for the very kind words. 🙂
Thanks, Teralynn. I really appreciate the thoughtful response.
Wendy
Thank you, Rozalyne! 🙂
Thank you, Katey. I appreciate the support.
