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I’ve have the desire to CD all of my life. I was caught in my mother panties at 6 years old don’t remember much from that long ago. As get in my teens I had clothing hidden in my room. And at night would dress up. I got to high school and I did like girls so I didn’t Cd much. I found my soul mate and married her. After a time I told her about my CD she was not totally in to it but she allowed me to be myself. This went on for a few years. One day she requested I stop or she would leave I was devestated but I stopped threw away everything. That was about 10 years ago. It eat at me I was moody wouldnt communicate on many levels. 10 days ago one day before I found CDH I sat her down and told her I was not happy and that I needed to released from the request. We talked for hours there are limits she wants and I fine with them. Bottom line I’m happier and we are now on the same page and talking daily I couldn’t be more ecstatic I read a lot of story’s on CDH and they help as to to see I’m not alone in this journey god bless 💕wanda
Wanda happy your with us and I hope you enjoy being part if this community. I'm happy to hear over time that the two of you got a chance to sit down and talk things out. Her acceptance even if suddle is a new beginning and if followed with mutual respect and guidance things will get better. For me as like you we had our discussions, her feelings towards my desires. She did ask for guidelines to be followed and most of all taking things slow. Not to venture ahead without talking things out and allowing agreements to be made so each other is comfortable to continue forward . To me it's important to respect her feelings and concerns ,not putting her in upsetting situations. In time our relationship has become stronger as she sees her new husband as not a threat but understanding, thoughtful and someone who is there when she needs him as himself. She now allows Stephanie to mix in our life's and in some little ways enjoys the company of a girlfriend to chat and interact with . Planning to go out but again much needs to be agree with. She has said when we're both ready then we will go and start something ever new. Having the support here definitely help me with my dressing and dealing with concerns in my relationship . I never feel alone here and meeting with many of our ladies here has help in so many ways. I've made friends that I do cherish and enjoy being part of a community that is so thoughtful and caring. Happy to meet you and hope to see you here . Hugs
Stephanie 🌹
Stephanie thank you for the encouraging words I appreciate the time you spent writing to me. I will be patient with my SO she’s my whole world .💕wanda
As long as your satisfied that you can live the rest of your life that way that's all that counts.
