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(@jessy0406)
Active Member     Clwyd, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi everyone

I’ve been crossdressing in one way or another my whole life but I’m really trying to embrace it and enjoy it now I’m an adult. I do struggle sometimes to accept that I enjoy and that it’s a part of me so I thought joining this community and talking to like minded people would help. I look forward to speaking to you all and hearing your stories 🙂

Jessy

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(@rozalyne)
Noble Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jessy welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you we are like one big happy family on here so don't be shy come on in and join the family, I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since i was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sister's lingerie on, I think we have all been where you are felt the shame of dressing up but how can it be shameful if it makes you happy, I'm a UK girl too I'm in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here so if you have any questions just ask and the girls will get back to you, there are lots of girls on here from beginner's to full time girls who dress 👗 24/7 we don't judge anyone on here it's a safe place for everyone X 🎀

Hugs Rozalyn X 💋

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Lady
(@helenrh)
Estimable Member     Canterbury, Kent, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Jessy from another UK girl, I'm down in Kent. It's really nice to meet you. I'm another of the older CD cohort on here as I'm in my mid 60s but have been dressing off and on my whole life.

This is a great site to join, so many lovely people who are kind and supportive.

Happy to chat anytime.

Love

Helen xx

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jessy,

 

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Lady
(@tiiijaaa)
Estimable Member     Utica, New York, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

I feel for you. I've been the same as you and I'm 62 now. I was a single dad for many years...no dressing..remarried when my daughter was a teen..no dressing except on business trips... Wife left me after 25 years of marriage. I dressed on the sly when we were married, but now that I'm alone, I dress daily. Semi retired. Mornings are my favorite time. You'll find your flow, just don't be ashamed. It's okay. It's a natural way of letting your feminine side ease your mind. Whatever you do, be at peace with letting your other side out once in awhile. It's good for the soul. I find I'm a more balanced and "at peace with the world" type person now that I can be Jenny when I want.

You'll be good

Jenny

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Jessy nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here ..  Now as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girlfriend there is a wealth of knowledge here to access and learn from so look around and ask many questions of these wonderful ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on .. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Jessy as she travels down her own girly path in life.. As for making friends here there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all girlfriend we are just a simple click away from you .. Please do us a small favor and return to your profile page and fill in more please as this is how we get to know you better.. Once again Jessy nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@reallylauren)
Noble Member     Victoria, British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Jessy, let me be one of the first full time girls to welcome you into the fold! I knew I was supposed to be a girl when I was only 4 years old - and that was over half a century ago! There are some other full time sisters here on CDH who will welcome you as well, so you have found an amazing wealth of information to help you along your new journey.

Hugs,

Ms. Lauren M

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Lady
(@wandaovahear)
Prominent Member     Washington, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Lots of variety here, Jessy. You’ll find a lot that resonates, I’ll bet. You can get the deets on my dressing from my profile.

Good to have you here!

Hugs & kisses,
W.

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Lady
(@tiiijaaa)
Estimable Member     Utica, New York, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Keep in mind that life is short. I have been dealing with my "other side" for all my life. Due to circumstances of my own choosing, I have had to suppress Jenny all my life. Now I'm 62 and living alone and sure do miss all the years when I was younger and more youthful and how much more beautiful I could have been if I just chose a different path. I've some regrets in life, but I chose my path and still have had a pretty good life. The winter of 2022/2023 was particularly difficult. Wife of 25 yrs. left right before Christmas and 2 months later my little buddy dog passed away. This is the first time in my life I've ever lived alone. It's a time for Jenny to shine! For every door that closes, a new one opens.

You'll be fine as long as you just say "screw it", I'm who I am and I love me!

Jen

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Lady
(@patrycja)
Active Member     Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi im a mature girl from midlands just do what you feel like doing

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Duchess Annual
(@michellewayne)
Trusted Member     Seymour, Indiana, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

This was sooo wonderful for me to read. (Not your losses or regrets. I am sorry you’ve had to have these experiences.) I am 61, recently divorced after 20 years. Have struggled with identity since 5’th grade and just needed to know I am not the only person with feelings of femininity. Thanks for sharing of yourself. Michelle

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Lady
(@tiiijaaa)
Estimable Member     Utica, New York, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

You would be surprised how many of us there are who share similar experiences. Please do keep in touch. A bit like soul sisters!☺️👍

Jen

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Lady
(@tiiijaaa)
Estimable Member     Utica, New York, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Here if you wanna chat. Uploaded some new pics tonight. I think the blonde works. Your thoughts?

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Ambassador
(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Jessy welcome ,happy to have you join with us.Certainly a place to discover cross dressing and learn if there really is more to this.Our ladies here are fabulous in helping out, from advice to tips on improving ones self to the emotional feelings we are experiencing .Make friendships and feel free to contact us if there’s anything that you may need. Happy to meet you and enjoy being part of a community that cares.

 

Stephanie 🌹

 

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(@marleneroberts)
Honorable Member     Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Blonde definitely works for you. Hope you have
"more fun". Best, Marlene.

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