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Lady
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(@dsco4391)
Active Member     Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Hello there, I'm Paula and I've been crossdressing in private for the past 20 years. Only recently, I discovered underdressing and now regularly go out with womens clothes under my usual male attire. I find it thrilling, I feel so good and I  have to say at times these past months, I felt closer to being Paula than ever before which made me join this amazing community. I feel quite at home despite this being my first post. 

I look forward to meeting others on here 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5211

@dsco4391 

Hi Paula

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl 🙂

You've just joined the best CD/TG support group on the internet. It's a wonderful place to make friends, seek advice, chat or just sit back and enjoy everything that's going on.

If you ever get the confidence to go out fully en femme, you're in the perfect location. Pink Punters nightclub is on your doorstep - that's where I had my very first proper outing as Ellie back in late September. Look out for an artlcle about it ('First night out ... Pretty in Pinks') in a few days time. I'd thought that the experience might be quite daunting, but it really wasn't!

Anyway, there's lots to explore on the site. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything don't be afraid to ask.

Ellie x

 

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2192

@dsco4391 

Hi, Paula, welcome to CDH, the warmest, friendliest and most supportive crossdresser community anywhere.

Good to hear that you feel at home, this place is definitely a home from home for many of us and I can't think of anywhere that I'd rather spend my time. I, like many others, have seen real, positive changes in my life since joining 10 months ago.

You will meet others very like yourself here, Paula, I've made good friends and even spent two days en femme with them in October. That was at Leeds First Friday, a cd/trans + event in er, Leeds on the first Friday of every month. It's also where we are having the first UK CDH outing on the 1st of August next year so pencil the date in your diary 😊.

Enjoy the freedom to be yourself!

Allie x

 

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1134

@dsco4391 

Welcome from across the pond to CDH Paula!

 Your among understanding, caring compassionate girls like us!

 We're about all things feminine. Come and relax in the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4015

@dsco4391 Welcome to CDH, Paula!

If you think just underdressing is exciting, imagine what it will feel like when wearing women's outerwear, too! You can do that in a simple way by wearing clothes that make it much more difficult to detect than when wearing something much more blatant, such as dresses, frilly blouses, or heels. 100% women's clothes, nearly undetectable.

Consider a different strategy, to gain experience, so that you can crossdress more and more often.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1205

@dsco4391 Hi Paula!  Welcome to CDH!  I'm happy that you have been able to find a way to be closer to being Paula.  You will find others in similar situations here and be able to draw from their feelings and experiences.  Please feel free to be open to sharing yourself with us.   All of our experiences are unique and I'm sure that there are things we can learn from you!

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(@katiep)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 142

@dsco4391 Hi Paula, a recent returnee myself, CDH is an amazing community. Katie

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Paula, 

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet, I'm a UK girl too I'm up in Shropshire, 

I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since  I was about 8 or 9 years old when i tried my older sisters lingerie on, 

Hugs Roz X 

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Lady
Topic starter
(@dsco4391)
Active Member     Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Thank you all for the kind messages. I'm sort of working up the confidence to go to Pink Punters to meet some amazing people. I've only just discovered underdressing in public which is quite the thrill.

 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Paula,

Welcome to CDH from across the pond.

Alice

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome aboard Paula! You will find a very supportive group of friendly ladies on CDH. Enjoy your time here.

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 Erin
Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome to CDH nice to meet you indeed you have just joined the most amazing community to share your adventures with TC 

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Paula nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here .. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Well girl there is a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from  so do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So when you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Paula as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Ok when you like and feel up to it please return to your profile page and fill in some more please as this is how we get to know you better thanks.. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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Lady
(@dsco4391)
Joined: 3 months ago

Active Member     Milton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 3

@fishingr8 Hey thanks Stephanie. I've updated my profile accordingly. Once again, thanks so much everyone for your amazing welcome!

 

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Lady
(@andreauk)
Honorable Member     CAMBRIDGE, Cambridgeshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Paula and welcome, you will find lots of support, information and friends here. As Ellie says you're in a good position with Pink Punters on your door step, I haven't been since before the pandemic, but I used to go quite a lot, it's a great place to start your journey out into the world, only when you are ready of course. Have fun.....

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(@ajthairms)
Reputable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Paula, welcome to CDH 🙂

Alicen

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(@coloradog1)
Honorable Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Paula is a lovely name (:

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Paula!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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