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(@terric)
New Member     Dublin, Leinster, Ireland
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi all - I'm very new to this scene/situation.

You'll notice that I don't have a photo posted - that's because I don't have any clothes yet - but I will post one soon.

I had the desire to crossdress since I was a boy - I'm now 64 and decided recently that I would start with some Lingerie. It was wonderful. I felt so comfortable and relaxed.

On Valentines Day I cooked my wife a special meal and afterward when we were chatting I started to complain over the fact that women could wear men's cloth but the only thing I could wear that even resembled women's clothes was the kilt I occasionally wear.

I nearly fell of the chair when she agreed with me. She said I/men should be allowed to wear whatever they liked.

So I grabbed the bull by the horns and told her I've always wanted to crossdress - I broke down crying when she told me she has no problem with me doing that,

Now I'm starting my journey and I don't have to hide my clothes when I get them.  I don't have to hide my browsing history. I can openly search the internet for clothes and stuff.  The only problem is - I have no idea where to start. But I'm very happy

 

Terri

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Lady
(@meeshelle)
Estimable Member     Levittown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

What a tremendous story. Good for you. Enjoy it.
Search Amazon. Delivery is fast. Returns are simple. Be special in searching.

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 Katy
Lady
(@katykelly)
Active Member
Joined: 9 years ago

Take it very slow, When your wife see's you dressed things will change.

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(@Anonymous)
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Joined: 1 second ago

Katy.
We hope not

 

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Lady
(@briellerose)
Honorable Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Aww Terri, what a happy story!! You have a gem of infinite worth there, GF. Make sure she knows how much you appreciate her acceptance, and go at a pace she is comfortable with. You will be BFF as well as spouses!

Hugs,

Brie

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Lady
(@briellerose)
Honorable Member     Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Also Shein. Better consistency in quality than many Amazon merchants and you can get a boatload of items for a great price. It is hard to beat Amazon for shipping and returns, though!

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Lady
(@tarajane)
Honorable Member     South Humberside, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Terri,

Welcome, it is lovely to meet you, what a wonderful story, I am really happy for you.

The girls here are really friendly and I am sure you will get lots of advice and support.

I too have a supportive wife and I know how wonderful this is. If you would like to chat any time, please feel free to message me.

Tara

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(@janeelizabethmansfield60)
Reputable Member     Hobart, Tasmania, Australia
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi Terri, welcome, we love acceptance from our SO, and possibly she could have told you this earlier. My eife feels the same
There are great ambassadors who can advise on sites forims rtc, online shopping through this site jecca black mskeup. But I suggest a weekend away, to release Terri.
Best wishes
Jane Stewart

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(@catherinedickson)
Reputable Member     Los Angeles suburb, California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Wow! You’re a lucky lady to have a wife like that. Sounds like your biggest problem will be closet space!

Enjoy the feminine journey
Catherine

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Terri,

Welcome to CDH.

Alice

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Duchess Annual
(@chrissypanama)
Reputable Member     Panama City, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome Terri:  Glad to see you here.   There is a lot of help here for you, just ask away.  Read the forums and makes some friends.
When I started dressing I used to shop clearance on Penny's, Venus and Macy's and also Shein. If you are a larger size Shein will not do so well for you. Venus has given me the greatest success with size and fit along with a very good return policy I only shop clearance there though since they are pricey.  Great quality.

On another note, thrift shops are a good start.

Enjoy yourself and I look forward to chatting.

Chrissy

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Terri Certainly a special  valentine's indeed and a new chapter is about to start. Joining here will help in everyway. Welcome and truly enjoy your time here with us.

Stephanie 🌷

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Terri nice meeting you and a great intro girl having a supportive wife is such a bonus in our world here .. The lines of conversations between you too are key to a wonderful life as a threesome he he a wife a girlfriend and the hubby .. Sometimes it helps to remind them since two of you there is two thirds of the house chores as long as Terri can dress the part in her chores .. Learning from her the girly wilds of the world as clothing heels wigs and especially the makeup she could teach you is so helpful take your time girl and let her lead you thru the process of being a lady as she has been one all her life good luck girl and let us know how your doing ..

Stephanie bass

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Lady
(@liara)
Noble Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

Welcome to CDH.

Hugs, Liara

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Lady
(@helenafield)
Reputable Member     Bath, Somerset, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

I have just joined Crossdresser heaven and I have been crossdressing since my teens, now mid 60's.
Not told my wife.
Secretly wearing panties and bra, just bought my own skirts and dresses this week.Off to buy more panties and bras today.
It's great to know I not on my own.
No photo no wig makeup or accessories.
But I feel happier

Love
Helena

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