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I’ve been a member here for a few months but have been quiet recently. I've not really been away but like all of us here sometimes the urge to dress and to communicate about our dressing is stronger and sometimes we just observe what’s going on on the site. It’s always encouraging when girls write that until they discovered CDH they always felt they were alone in the world but now they’ve found like-minded people.
There are different reasons for doing what we all do, slipping into women’s clothing. Many girls here see themselves as transgendered and find friends who are making the same journey. There are some of us who simply get a tremendous erotic thrill by wearing feminine clothing and relish living our feminine side. Perhaps for us lingerie is the most important thing. Perhaps “passing“ is less important than for others because we will generally enjoy our dressing in the privacy of our own home, enjoying ourselves en femme until senzuri winds up a dressing session. Are there other girls out there who feel the same way? Let’s hear from you.
Hi Juliette, I understand you perfectly. And I think you are right feeling as you do. Be comfortable as you are. It is my experienca that we girls can flow from one situation to another. Both ways. Some start dressing up and evolve towards a more profound feminine feeling.
Personally, it us not lingerie that arouses me; an elegant dress is my thing. What you?
Love,
Cararina
Hi Catarina,
Definitely lingerie but having said that, a leather miniskirt is also a treat!
Juliette
Yummie! Although I prefer A-line midi skirts and elegant heels. Must be my age.
Love,
Catarina
Very much the same. Understanding how one feels and to figure out where their own paths may lie . Quiet in their desires and always looking to where things may lead. For me at least earlier much was based on the clothes but over time with learning more and expressing different levels in my experiences I feel uncertainties to where my thoughts may lead . . So yes it's certainly the clothes ,dresses, skirts , the more feminine it the better.🌹
Oh Catarina, I don't think a girl is ever too old for a leather mini!
OK Juliette, I'll give it a try somtime. Thank you for encouraging me 😊
Hug, C.
Right on, Juliette,
I don't know that I'm interested in "passing". I'm me, and as my journey continues I may become more embolden to do and wear other things.
I love the look and feel of the clothes. Sometimes is sexual, sometimes not. It's a part of me and I think it's rather simple, but "societal norms" are what makes things difficult for people who are "different".
If there is one thing sites like CDH tell us is, there are many more like us who are out there, all over the world and in parts of the US considered to be conservative. But as we all know, that only goes as far as the first layer. Pull that layer back and you'll find the truth.
X's & O's.
R
Hi Juliette,
What a nice introduction, and challenge.
Once more you can enjoy what CDH has to offer. We have had a trmendous surge in membership recently.
I myself joined long, long ago. lost my login and life got in the way.
Came back all fresh and new ready, maybe like you to explore our femm side again.
-Terri Anne