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I went by Andrialynn but I had to take a small hiatus. Me and my SO had a disagreement. I wanted to do my toenails and boy did she go off, she said what next. I told her nothing else, no piercings, no fingernails and no changing my gender. She asked why I was on this site and blamed the site for me feeling this way.
I have always been upfront and honest with my SO from the start even before we got married 32 years ago. I just recently accepted my true self with the help of you lovely ladies on this site. Like I said I have kept no secrets from my SO. I love this site it has helped me so much in discovering who I am.
I love who I am now I have embraced my true self and I'm not going to apologize for it. This is the happiest I have ever been and I hope me and my SO can put this behind us. For now we have found common ground, hopefully we can move forward from this.
Alexis Grace
Seems unfair to blame the site since since the site can't actively recruit, but she's probably looking for a scapegoat on your behalf.
I hope things will continue in an amicable vein and welcome to CDH, again.
Becca
I wish you the best Alexis. You're among friends here.
Hi Alexis,
Welcome back to CDH.
Alice
Hi Alexis nice to meet you and so happy you found and joined us girls here so get settled in relax and enjoy yourself here.. As a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. Ok girl with so much to see and do here from reading the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Alexis as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon ..
Stephanie Bass
Alexis -
Welcome back to CDH.
Sorry to hear about what happened, however, it sounds like you've reached some type of agreement.
I've ridden a roller coaster with my wife regarding my dressing. She went from not understanding but tolerant to a point to being supportive in her own way. She will buy things for Suzanne, invite her to spend the day, took her to get her ears pierced (in drab mode), goes for mani-pedi's together (again in drab mode - but Suzanne can get color on her toes). Part of our agreement is that I don't go out of the house dressed, however, there are some exceptions. I have some ankle boots she is okay with me wearing out of the house - her logic is that they look like cowboy boots which is okay with me. I also carry a sling bag with all my stuff (wallet, chap stick, pen, notebook, extra pad, emery board, phone) and she seems to be okay with it.
As has been said by others communication is the key. We talk about things and as time goes on the conversations get easier.
XOXO
Suzanne