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(@bibri)
Active Member     Shelton, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Wow is this a new experience for me.  I am 60 years old and I have never been involve in a chat room or a blog. Here we go..... I have been a cross dresser pretty much all of my life. It caused a divorce in my first marriage of 24 years because my ex could not and would not even begin to understand cross dressing. She would not accept it and basically left me because of it. But it gets better. I dated and married a wonderful woman who understands and accepts my cross dressing. What a blessing! I told her from the beginning that I was a cross dresser and she totally accepted it. She has supported me all the way.  We have been married for 17+ years and neither of us can imagine life without each other. This is the first time I have ever posted anything online about my cross dressing or any other fact of my life for that matter. I feel OK with it because I have reached a point in my life that I am willing to get out there and be who I am. I cannot live in the guilt or shame I have heaped upon myself for over 50 years any more. I truly believe that I am free of that self imposed bondage because of the support I receive from my wife.

I am not sure that I have done this properly. I am not very computer literate and don't understand many of the nuances of chat rooms or forums. The topic says I am creating a "new topic" If that is the case and I am in error, please forgive. I could not find a simple form to write my introduction. Ok, enough said. I am happy to be here and I look forward to meeting new friends and exploring new friends and adventures.

Michelle

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Glad you are here. I think I know how you feel. I just signed up a few days ago and am trying to put on a brave face and offer encouragement, but inside I'm shaking to death.  That all alone feeling and hoping to reach out and that people won't think I'm weird.  Maybe this time it is okay and we have found a place to be us.

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 10 years ago

to the both of you welcome.   its nice that your 2nd wife is supportive on your x dressing. wish mine was.  she knows but will not see or help me with make up. but she does sneak to see what i ma wearing. now i don;t hide it from her i just dress up when 2 kids are not home and walk the house for her to see me and smell my perfume.   try the forums good place to read up on things and join other groups and chat.   i go to all of them to see whats new and how to learn on make up and read others that post.     i love dressing up as a female i feel that i am a female more then male, so why not dress like one. it helps me with depression, stress, and panic attacks.   i have more female cloths then wife does and seem to wear female cloths more then she does. .   to Michelle Bryant and Johnnie Anderson welcome

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thanks Lucinda; was wondering that if want to make I make a reply you in this format, will it post only to michelles post or to an open showing somewhere else, ie. to say thanks to someone do I need to go to their username.  otherwise if someone responded to you but ou left hat chat how would you ow

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(@julie-slowinski)
Trusted Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Michelle and Johnie,

Welcome to CDH!!! You to have definitely found the right place.

Say goodbye to your isolation ... Elimination of guilt and shame is our specialty. Take some time to look around and read read read. You're gonna find so many similarity between you and just about everyone here. The good news is that we're just regular people, like you, but with a somewhat mis-understood interest.

Feel free to start inviting friends and sending pm's (private messages). The girls here are so friendly and welcoming. I know you're just going to love it here.

💋💋💋 Julie

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Lady
(@bootedgirl46)
Estimable Member     Toms River,New jersey, New Jersey, United States of America
Joined: 10 years ago

Welcome Michelle , to CD you'll will find many friends here and acceptance
Stacey s

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Lady
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(@bibri)
Active Member     Shelton, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Thank you Lucinda and Johnnie for you reply's and comments. It is so comforting to see and hear that there are those who have similar circumstances and concerns. So far I am very impressed by the welcoming that I have received here. I am very happy that I have found a place to divulge my innermost feelings and thoughts and yet be understood and considered. Johnnie, I especially thank you for your kind and quick response to my post. I was nervous and reluctant to post anything but you have demonstrated that there are people out there who care and are concerned about the well being of others yet not pass any judgement as is so common. In esponss e I am VERY GLAD YOU ARE HERE. Thank you so much.

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Lady
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(@bibri)
Active Member     Shelton, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Thank you. I look forward to meeting those that have similar feelings and concerns. I feel very welcome here.

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just wiping the tears from my eyes

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(@cyberian2)
Noble Member     Elliot Lake, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Michelle......welcome to CDH!!!!!!!  I admire you for writing about you courage and the way life is turning out for you. Give your super wife a big hug from me and thank her for being so understanding. I wish you both smooth sailing and a happy life together.  Look forward to hearing from you with general news or questions if any.

Regards......... Lady Veronica

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi and welcome   Michelle . Glad you have found this wonderful site ,  much to see and do and friends here to chat. My coming to 60 and just recently can aware with my feminine feelings opening to my wife and her acceptance as helped my journey and so many ways. I was aware of my urges back in my twenties but not until now but I realized what was really really happening. I  too really never been or ever got involved in chat or blog sites either but here the acceptance and warm responses one can't help getting involved, soon I'll think you'll discover this and enjoy the moments . Nice meeting you and see you on our journeys   🌹

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(@marianne65)
Honorable Member     Uppsala, Uppland, Sweden
Joined: 8 years ago

Hi Michelle and welcome to CDH. You're never to old to find news friends and experiences. So far it looks like you made the right moves and taken the right decision by joining this marvelous sisterhood. Here you will find an awesome bunch of like minded girls sharing the passion for expressing our inner femininity.

I've been crossdressing since my early teens some 40 years ago and have been going out fully dressed on a regular basis for the last five years. Browse around, make yourself at home and feel free to contact me anytime for questions or just some friendly talk with someone understanding your situation.

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Lady
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(@bibri)
Active Member     Shelton, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Thank you all for your responses to my post. So many of you have offered very sincere welcomes and words of encouragement which make me feel as if I am one of the girls. I truly feel that I have found all that I have been seeking for so many years. I know I am going to be a stronger, self assured, and a more confident lady moving forward.

Thank yous; Stephanie, Evelyne, Julie C., Marianne, Gina, Stacy, Julie S. and Lucinda.

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Hi girls. My name is Sandra. I am 53 and from Spring Tx. I have been Crossdressing since age 10-12. I love being a girl more than my birth gender. I feel what is on my birth certificate is a typo under where it says sex. I am new to CDH and look forward to making new girlfriends that are like me.

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(@Anonymous)
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Hi. That is exactly what I feel. Guilt and shame. I have always felt that I never was a real man. No sports growing up. When I got married unable to have children. But the other side of me loved and still loves being a total woman. Dressing, shopping getting manicure and pedicure. I don't even want my male clothes any more but I have to keep them and hide Sandra's clothes in a storage unit. I found CDH and found out that there are girls just like me and I want to make friends with them and talk about our journey to becoming women

I love you girls. Let's go shopping. Remember never pay full price. Always buy on sale so we can buy shoes

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