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Owning Up

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(@stephaniewolf)
Active Member     British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Introduce myself.......... now there’s a request that is guaranteed to send the mind blank! Having read many of your stories I know that mine is not much different. The struggles with identity, the sense of shame that comes from a secret passion, the journey to acknowledging desires, the fear of what you are becoming, the terror of those in your normative life circle finding out and yet the deep understanding that despite all this you are who you are.  So here I am! Signing up to this site is part of my owning up to Stephanie. Her passions, her desires, the sophistication and taste that resonated with her nature.  I would like to thank Scarlett for her latest posting. She really captured a lot of how I feel and see the world, and when read her words, I realized it was time to embrace the next phase of my life journey.  Not sure what happens now, or even if what I have said makes sense, but I am looking forward to sharing this journey with you here.

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(@myfanwy)
Honorable Member     Mid Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome Steohanie.You have encapsulated how we have all felt on our crossdressing journey.Look forward to getting to know you.

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(@toofine4me)
Honorable Member     Cincinnati, Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Stephanie, You say what many of us feel or have felt.  When you say, "to embrace the next phase of my life journey." it occurs to me that there isn't just one phase. It's like watching an infant grow and develop with milestones happening each and every day. The same is for us.  There may be the expected backlash of shame or guilt that come with our forward leaps, but it's all part of the journey. It's not a race, and there's no finish line.

Enjoy.

 

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(@Anonymous)
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Welcome Stephanie.  As you said very similar stories to a lot of us.  You will enjoy be a part of CDH as you will make a lot of friends who will support you on this feminine journey.

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(@shannonbright)
Eminent Member     Barrie, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Wow Stephanie. you certainly did make sense and many of us are going through similar thoughts everyday. Thanks for sharing.

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(@sammatha)
Reputable Member     BELFAST, County Antrim, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi stephanie

A lovely story. So warm so loving and understanding enfemine. Its personnel and we are all on a very siminlar journey. I just the excitment of knowing i will be sammatha. Heart flutters and at the end of the night i do not want to take them off. So love my femmine side. Getting better walkung in my heels as i practice more. Message me at any time. Love sammathaxx

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(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Welcome Stephanie !

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(@jessica63)
Honorable Member     South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Stephanie

Welcome and what a wonderful introduction you have written, it puts into words what a lot of us feel.  I am sure you will find friendship here and I look forward to seeing you around the site.

Jessica x.

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Stephanie,  life at times just isn’t fair and to lose what’s is important to one self makes a journey difficult to handle. we must find the things that makes one feel happy and content. Embracing the best qualities to comfort with a peaceful balance . Dressing, those feminine feelings that touch our inner desires. I myself have found this to be and this wonderful place has help guide me through and put me in a better state of mind and enjoy expressing my femininity . The confinance to accept me to be who I am with many like myself. Fears we go through of uncertainty, isolations , and just afraid of what these changes have and their consequences. We can get  closer to our  goals feeling happiness on a journey of amazing challenges  here at Cdh. One I’ll know will make you feel better about yourself and life itself. Enjoy your stay and know you have many here to ask your questions ,were here to be the best friends one could ever find. Compassionate, understanding and supportive to make this chapter in your life easier to face. As they say “let your hair down and have fun” . Your most welcome and happy your here with us. It's wonderful to have another Canadian gal , hi from Ontario.     "Oh" by the way just love your name  lol...

Hugs!

Stephanie 🌹

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Lady
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(@stephaniewolf)
Active Member     British Columbia, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you to all who have welcomed me and left a message.  It’s good to know there are people who understand.

Ive has a chance to read some of your profiles and posts and it amazes me that one of the reoccurring themes is the love of the life without being able to understand why.  The sensations, the feelings the pleasure it evokes coupled with that sense of harmony and peace with yourself is truly karmic and yet truly inexplicable.  I reminds me of what Vikror Frankl wrote in his book “Mans search for meaning; (and I paraphrase) we spend our lives asking the universe why we are here, and yet in truth it is the universe that is asking us , why are you here. In truth, we are responsible for our meaning and the value we place on our lives.  Our feminine expression is part of the gift and value we bring to the universe.

Having just reread what I’ve written I realize that I may come across as a little pompous or just trying too hard. I’ve decided to leave it as I wrote it, but if it’s too much then could someone let me know. I don’t want to create controversy in my first few days.

Stephanie

 

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 8 years ago

Stephanie beautifully said , don't change a word. Why we are here is certainly a universal question. But with life's challenges if one can find peace and serenity to love ourselves . Our femininity is a wonderful gift one I do cherish . Thank you for sharing...

Stephanie 🌹

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(@Anonymous)
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Stephanie W. Language remains our single greatest gift. How we communicate, verbal & non-verbal, is that which defines us. Kindness becomes evident very quickly as also does inequity and condescension. Your words were lovely. This site will be many things to many people but why limit it. In time, we may form a ...book club or cooking club. Not to stereotype ( Did anyone see the England ban on some commercials as they were gender limiting? No comment, beyond asking?!). But in time there will be those with whom you connect and each connection could be foundationally different. I welcome your intellect as well as the passion it reveals.

Kate

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Lady
(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I love seeing this. Always happy to see new members who are thinking very deeply about this. Our need to feel feminine can cause or be caused a lot of hate, but when we think about it like you do, only love should come from it!

 

hearts and rainbows,

aoife

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Welcome Stephanie!

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(@bobbie1951)
Reputable Member     Homosassa, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Willkommen Stephanie.  i really wonder how many people in general understand why they are the way they are.  i know many people from similar backgrounds to mine who are it at all like me.  Some of my oldest friends would be shocked even dismayed to meet Bobbie.  Yet this is the way i am for better or worse.  To meet the expectations of other i have tried to suppress even murder Bobbie but here she is, and the attempt very nearly cost me my life.  NEVER AGAIN!  Bobbie is hereto stay and i am working towards her day in the sun too

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