Powerlifter Who Dresses

You'll be fine muscles and all give it your all and don't worry what other say you said you had confidence that's all it takes

Hi Diana nice to meet you and happy you found us girls here .. You have found the best CD site here on the internet As a new sister and family member here you can expect a lot of support and acceptence in this community.. So lots to see and do here as reading forums and posts of stories of our lifes and questions of same.. Also ask many questions from clothing to makeup to everything you ever wanted to know about the girl that lives in your heart and sole. As for making friends there are so many girls here from all over the world to build lasting friendships with .. So sit back and relax and go back to your profile page and fill in some more please  this is how we get to know you better there is nothing to be afraid of here as we dont bite  well some girls do be careful ( Ha Ha ) just kidding girlfriend hope you have a good time here and again nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon ..

Stephanie Bass

I lift regularly, not power lifter, but I'm a 46"band(plus small B pecs), 36 in waist and 41 inch hips.

I used to worry about that incessantly. I think that you need to find the fashion that YOU like, adapt it to work with you body. Sure, maybe you'll have to get some things altered... Start with stuff from second hand or thrift shops, see what you like. Maybe you spend $12 on a used dress and $20 more getting the waist taken in so that it isn't a tent based on chest size, you still aren't out much. Also, if you find a small Mom&Pop alteration shop, they will usually be happy for business, and not care so much about it being a CD. I came to accept this at a local sister owned wig shop. They were glad SOMEONE bought a wig, period.

Makeup is makeup no matter who you are, practice practice practice... learn to shave close and cover the beard shadow. Also, less is more with makeup... focus on you eye shadow.

2 more things:

Given my dress size issues, I have found that going with little to NO stuffing in my bra, seems to work. I look more like a "chick that lifts" instead of strapping on DD filling in a giant bra. Food for thought.

Lastly, you've seen female body builders, There's clothes for them. They figure it out... Put on a slinky little spandex mini dress, do your makeup and hair, get out there and have some fun girl!!!

All the best,

Rayna xoxo

Hi Diana,

Warm welcomes! Have you ever hear of Janae Kroc? Google her. And there is a movie about her on Amazon called Transformer. She was a professional power lifter who transitioned. Her journey is interesting.

Chloe

Thank you so much for the reply and suggestions, Rayna! I think ill have to poke at my local network and see if there is someone who will do alterations. The tent dress life is a struggle.

And, that's what i hear. I think my makeup game needs some more work. We are lucky here in Austin to have a few CD/TS makeover salons. I might have to give them a shot and get some pro advice on what would look/work best.

Oh gosh, no i have not!! thank you so much. I will check that out 🙂

Hi Stephanie,

Love your comment! Looking forward to chatting here and getting to know folks. I appreciate you taking time to reply and welcome me, girlfriend.

Now to do some deep dives on the forum!

D

I went to a place in the Bay Area here in CA that caters to CD girls. But I have also talked to the folks at the Sephora and Ulta shops, they will do a makeover and tutorial on any guy or girl that wants one. They don't care. The trick to that, you have to sit there and let the world walk by seeing you get a makeover, big choice.

I found early on, the one on one tutorials at CD/TG friendly places are best when you're still finding yourself.

Watch lots of videos, especially the ones that are done for TG transition learning. They are less geared to looking like a drag queen and more like girl next door for beginners.

You'll do it all wrong for a while, we all do... just keep at it and don't let it get you down. I nearly cried the first time I did makeup at home. Then I took lessons, and practiced, and I don't cry lol. I'm not "happy" but I'm not despondent after a practice session now. It's like building any muscle, lots of reps sister...

Hugs,

Rayna

Hi Diana,

Welcome to CDH.  As others have stated there are women power lifters too.  They have their clothing custom made so you may need to follow that route.  Find stretch fabrics to start and see how they work for you.  No doubt dance or theater companies make custom designed costumes.  Check out what may be available near you.

Finding bras in big band and small cup sizes can be tricky.  Try Hanes Brands/Just My Size.  Before the pandemic they provided bra fittings and can order sizes for you if not available in the store

Alice

Diana  this is certainly the place you’ll find many of the answers you are seeking. Look into our forums written by others who talk about their experiences, their questions they may ask with many offering help and advice so everyone can understand better on so many confusing topic . Many face their own troubling ordeals but be asured  you have that support and help from everyone here .  Relax, get comfortable and enjoy being part of this wonderful community that really does care for all that passes through our doors. Very happy meeting you and welcome.

Stephanie 🌹

Hi Diana

Welcome to CDH! I am 6-4" 225, former national champion college athlete. My advice...be you and wear things that make you smile.

- Robyn

Hi diane. Hey....I've been dealing with an almost verbatim experience you've been having.  But I was like this since age 6 and long before I knew what sex was. This is a very supportive environment that helps girls like us feel not alone.

Welcome Diana!