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(@Anonymous 100507)
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Hello CDH

Giving me a blank space is hard, as my brain is fried from a day of work (WFH so get to dress up often) and getting ready for 'Real Life' to cash back in (Married, she knows, and she's chill).

 

Been dressing since Covid, as came to realise that another plaid cotton shirt was not as fun as something bright and satin. Love the tailored look, and so have a lot of office wear and vintage style dresses. 

 

Although I use a variation of Katherine I don't really have a female persona, it's just easier to use a name that I can play around with:

 

💬 Kate | 👑 Katherine (for those classy moments) | 💃 Katy (when I'm feeling a bit more carefree) | 💋 Kat (for the brassy times)

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Lady
(@orcharddwee)
Joined: 4 months ago

Estimable Member     Staten Island, New York, United States of America
Posts: 81

@geekxdress being a computer programmer, I was tickled by your print statement. So from one geek to another, let me say welcome Kat[ehy]?\S* and I hope you enjoy your time here.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@orcharddwee My one weakness REGEX! I'm a data person for the day job and have to basically relearn Regex every time I need it.

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(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1121

@geekxdress 

 Welcome from across the pond to CDH, Kati! 

 Your in the right place for all things feminine. With caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We will support and assist you in any way we can. 

 Lots to explore on this site. Chat, information, friendships and answers host of other things.

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@gafran Thank you so much for the welcome from across the sea xxx

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(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1121

@geekxdress 

Your very welcome my dear! 🥰

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(@jessicacynthia)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 188

@geekxdress Welcome to CDH.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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Posts: 30

@jessicacynthia Thank you so much xxx

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5200

@geekxdress 

Hi Kati / Kate / Katherine / Katy / Kat (delete as appropriate according to current circumstances)

Welcome to CDH from another UK girl. I'm in Norfolk 🙂

I think you'll love it here. It's a very warm and supportive environment, and a great place to make friends.

I had a look at your bio ... and saw that it currently reads 'Test for bio'.

Laugh Loud

There's lots to explore. Have fun looking around, and if you need help with anything just shout.

Hugs

💬 Ellie | 👑 Ellie | 💃 Ellie | 💋 Ellie

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@ellyd22 I had a real difficulty signing up so had rewritten the bio so many times I got lazy and was just typing anything! Seems when I updated it with Emoji the Computer said no!

 

Thank you for the welcome! xxx

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@geekxdress

PRINT "Hello, world!"
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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@leslienix Hello, World 
Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1451

@geekxdress Hi Kate, and welcome to CDH from another UK girl 🙂  I'm a bit south of you in the corners of Beds/Bucks/Herts. 

I'm also a WFH programmer, so I know exactly what you mean about getting to dress up often!  Before I came out, and then decided I was going to stay as Fiona, I did do a lot of experimentation while (nominally) at work 😳  Video calls with a skirt on under my desk were great fun 😉 (They still are, they're just not illicit any more).

You've just joined such a warm, supportive sisterhood, there are girls here of all ages and stages, from all around the world.  You can speak absolutely freely, express even your innermost feminine thoughts, with no judgement.  I should perhaps warn you, I largely credit CDH for the changes in my life 😊   That said, do jump right in and chat with us on the forum threads and in the live chatroom!  I look forward to getting to know you 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

PS: In the nomenclature section ... my friends call me Fluff.  Be my guest 🙂

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@finallyfiona Well thank you Fluff 😉

 

Thank you for the welcome, and yes I also do a lot of calls with the bottom half dressed up. Although on occasion I have braved a little eye makeup (had a great chat with my manager about Dior makeup!)

 

I'm looking for a good community that isn't horny about dressers. Some other locations are kind of depressing as you can't chat about clothes without someone asking you to take them off

 

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1451

@geekxdress Oh well done you!  I never got as far as makeup in video calls until my first one with HR and my line manager, after I came out by email.  With their agreement, I then surprised another long-time female colleague.  A wonderful day, that was 😊 

You've most definitely found the place you were looking for.  Management here works very hard to keep the more erotically-focused elements of Internet society at bay.  Here, it's all about the clothes and even more so, the people wearing them.

Hugs,
Fluff xxx

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3850

@geekxdress 

Write-Output "Hello, Kati!"

Infrastructure and cyber here.  CDH is a welcome diversion from the front lines.

/LK

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@lizk I'm in the data analytics business and it is way more fun to dress up than run another SQL query!

 

Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3850

@geekxdress 

The last time I ran a SQL query, I decided it was time to delegate it 😎 

I agree!  Being authentic is way more fun than any IT task!

Liz xx

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2181

@geekxdress 

Hi,............[Insert appellation as appropriate]

Welcome to CDH, the warmest, friendliest and most supportive crossdresser community anywhere.

I see Fluff has given the statutory warning, Be aware, this community changes lives. So many of us have declared this and are the better for it.

As well as acceptance and understanding, you'll find encouragement and support in bucket loads. And it's a safe place to share with like-minded sisters.

If you need anything, just ask and we'll do our best.

Allie x

 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@alexina Thank you for the welcome xxx

I could really do with someone coming round to organise the closet and poss wash and style my wigs 😉

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(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2181

@geekxdress 

Ok, I've done my best and found this company in your area. "Skivvies R Us", Closets organised, wigs washed and styled (head stapling on demand for a nominal fee).

If I can be of any further "help", just leave your request, along with £50 in used notes, at your local branch of Cashsnafflers.

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 4 months ago

Prominent Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 348

@geekxdress hello Katy ( I'm being carefree ) hello and welcome to you , so happy you are here , we are a friendly and loving bunch , you'll get lots of great advice and lots of virtual 💕& 🤗 here! 
love how your wife is chill - always helps things 💕 I am the wife of a CD and like to think I'm also chill (but also like to get in on the action ) hence why I'm here getting in on the action ....

anyway look forward to getting to know you more .

big hugs to you and your wife 😍🤗

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@bellaz76 thank you xxx She's very accepting, although she cannot understand the need to dress in the "worst parts" of female wear like bras and stockings!

 

 

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Duchess
(@rebeccaoh)
Joined: 7 months ago

Estimable Member     Oxford, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 75

@geekxdress welcome! I’m a wfh CD as well, love the opportunity it gives for dressing and underdressing. Have fun here!

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@rebeccaoh Thank you xxx Love being able to underdress and also get ready with a sweater for any emergency calls!

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Duchess
(@rebeccaoh)
Joined: 7 months ago

Estimable Member     Oxford, Ohio, United States of America
Posts: 75

@geekxdress it’s got to be funny, having on stockings, heels, skirt or dress on down low but on top just a quarter zip sweater showing on camera haha 🤣

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4006

@geekxdress Welcome to CDH, Katherine!

I see that a few programmers have already welcomed you in an anticipated way, so I  won't REPEAT that here, too.

However, you say that fashion materials got you interested in crossdressing, but I am curious what made you choose women's  fashions and not men's. I have some men's satin shirts, too.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@harriette Thank you xxx 

I think it started with night wear. The choice for men is blue/grey t-shirt and shorts in cotton whereas I could have silks or satins in fun colours / cuts. Then it moved into being able to wear camis / nightdresses to be cooler in the summer.

 

Kind of grew from there. Being able to wear a flow dress in summer is so ... cooling!

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4006

@geekxdress Yes, wearing dresses outdoors is cool, in more ways that one.

Something that surprised me was wearing pants that were so thin that the wind could whistle through the material. I had never experienced that before.

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Lady
(@kyrabrooke)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Posts: 148

@geekxdress Bonjour Katy...tu es très jolie...(very pretty!) Nice to meet you...welcome to the space...So happy you have a SO that is chill with your full you, I know what that can make life so much more lovely; I do not know what I'd have done otherwise, as I've been like this since my teens, but gf's, have understood.

Lots of caring and acceptance here.... Although I've love Goth to Attoinette, I also love smart, tight office wear too! Best of everything... grand amour, sister, Kyra~Rivere" 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@kyrabrooke Love your goth looks, really like that aesthetic 

Having someone to chat to about dresses or makeup is fun, we went out at the weekend and my wife 'convinced' me to buy even more lipsticks that I have since discovered in her makeup bag!

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 610

@geekxdress 

"Hi Kati / Kate / Katherine / Katy / Kat (delete as appropriate according to current circumstances)" - sorry I just borrowed that from @ellyd22 for convenience 🙂

Welcome to CDH and congratulations on finding your way into the wonderful sensual world of femininity! 🙂

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@caroline2k Thank you so much for the welcome xxx

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Duchess
(@amydoll)
Joined: 12 months ago

Estimable Member     Leicestershire, United Kingdom
Posts: 90

@geekxdress Welcome Katherine!  Great to see another local gal on CDH! ❤️

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1807

@geekxdress Welcome to CDH and hello from Cornwall.

I work from home some of the time and will generally be in Anna mode if I do. 

When I was a teenager, I couldn't decide between Annabel and Anneka so Anna it is.

Hugs,

Anna xx

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Hostess
(@misssamantha)
Reputable Member     Bromley, London, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kati

A very warm welcome to CDH.

It is lovely to read you have name varitions, I love it! 

Hugs,

Samantha x x 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@misssamantha Thank you so much...love having the flexibility to decide who I want to dress as xxx

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(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Kati, 

Welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, I'm a mature crossdresser I've been dressing most of my life since I was about 8 or 9 years old when I tried my older sisters lingerie on, 

I'm a UK girl too I'm in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a chat, 

Love Roz ❤️ 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@rozalyne Used to go via Shrewsbury when I was at Aberystwyth Uni! 

Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@rozalyne)
Joined: 3 years ago

Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 2067

@geekxdress 

That's interesting i go to Aberystwyth a lot on days out, 

Your welcome Kati I'm sure you will find lots of friends on here, 

Love Roz ❤️ 

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(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Kati from another UK based girl from Lancashire. I like the variations on your femme name thinking I may use Elizabeth for classier situations perhaps and Lizzy for when I'm having a bit of fun.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

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@lizzy89 Elizabeth was an option at one point...until I remembered it was the name of my Ex! The variations give me an excuse to indulge in different clothes! xxx

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(@joannat)
Reputable Member     Gwynedd, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

Hi Kati and welcome to this community from another UK girl. I’m in N Wales, in rural Snowdonia.  Hope you’ll enjoy your time on CDH. Joanna💕

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@joannat Hope you are keeping nice an warm in the Mountains of Wales.. Thank you for the warm welcome xxx

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Never mind the computer stuff, get out the fountain pen:

 

Welcome to CDH

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Lady
(@leslienix)
Joined: 7 months ago

Reputable Member     Southport, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Posts: 170

@rebeccabaxter quillbot.com

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1304

@leslienix The day I need AI to help me write is the day if I've died before writing my epitaph; but I get the joke 😀

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@rebeccabaxter I can assure you that my penmanship is so bad it's rated as "Prescription written by a Doctor" incomprehensible!

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(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome to CDH Kati. I hope you enjoy your time here.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@ab123 Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Kati to CDH the finest community to be part of nice to meet you 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@erinb Thank you so much...looking forward to going the community! xxx

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(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Kati!

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@catherine0918 Looking forward to the support and encouragement! Some other communities are a little more 'direct' in what they are looking for! xxx

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kati,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@aliceunderwire Thank you xxx Was just near you over Christmas in Massachusetts

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(@aliceunderwire)
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Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Posts: 7816

@geekxdress Hi Kati,  You we’re a long way from home.  Hope you were on vacation and missed the big Sunday snowstorm.

Alice

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Kati -

Welcome to CDH

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@cdsue Thank you xxx

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒🍒 Hi Kati

   Welcome to CDH ,   I'm so glad to see your Here Now Kati 

    Enjoy your self 

    Huggs 

    Stephanie  👠

 

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@stephanieann Looking forward to having some fun! Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

Hi Kati.

Welcome to CHD from yet another UK girl.

I'm sure you'll enjoy it here.

Judy.

X.

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@judevderl Hello 'Down South' 😉 Thank you for the welcome xxx

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(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Kati so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge here to learn from do some reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you become comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Kati as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for a chat sometime soon.. As being across the pond from you well just a short row boat ride away from Montana USA here have fun girl as you lost me in the first few minutes of being a computer girl me not so much ha ha ..

Stephanie Bass

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@fishingr8 Thank you for such a warm and wonderful welcome. I've just been that side of the Atlantic visiting family in Massachusetts.

 

Looking forward to being a useful member of CD society!xxx

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(@ajthairms)
Reputable Member     Poole, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

Hello Kati, welcome to CDH 🙂

Alicen

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(@Anonymous 100507)
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@ajthairms Thank you so much xxx

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