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(@susieonice)
Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Hiya, My name is Suzanne and I've been around a bit. Like a lot of us I really began dressing up in my teens. i think I'd better clarify that. By "really dressing up" I mean, stockings, corset, bra, dress and high heels, jewelry, perfume and makeup, anything that would contribute to the illusion, a ladies magazine to be read on the train was favorite. It was quite an experience sitting there and knowing you were different. I learned the first golden rule, if you don't look out of place and you don't set out to attract attention then no one will bother you. There you are walking down the high street in your favorite coat why should anyone stop you?
On into the 70s and 80s I continued dressing up, changing the way looked and then quite abruptly gave it all up. To be honest I don't know why.
A pity because I had a pretty powder blue coat with faux fur collar and a short blonde bob wig that looked so natural.I'm skipping a lot here, but there's space and time to begin talking about some of the stuff I've left out! In 2008 I got married, I never discussed my feelings, but we were in our fifties and there was plenty left to talk about, then in 2023 I lost her. The wounds are still too raw. Perhaps dressing up was a way of coping. I don't know, but I've had lots of adventures. And now I'm Looking forward to meeting my daughter maybe.

Love to All!

Suzanne xx

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1053

@susieonice 

 Welcome from across the pond to CDH, Suzanne!

 So sorry for the loss of your wife! The unfortunate reality of being human. 

 We're glad that you have joined us. Your among caring, understanding and compassionate girls like yourself. We're about all things feminine here. 

Browse this site to find friendships, chat, information and answers to your questions. 

 We will support and assist you in any way we can!

 Welcome to the Pink Fog!

 Fran 🥰

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Duchess
(@susieonice)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@gafran Hiya Fran, thank you so much. This being my first 24 hours I'm still exploring what all these button thingies do. Not helped by the Pink Frog! (I get my words crossed sometimes.)

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1053

@susieonice 

 Your welcome Suzanne.

 There's a lot to explore and experience on the CDH site.  🥰

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 1 month ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 180

@susieonice Hello Suzanne … welcome here , you’ve landed in a great place… hugs… jo

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Lady
(@wendye47)
Joined: 9 months ago

Estimable Member     Clwyd, United Kingdom
Posts: 71

@susieonice Hello Suzanne. Very sorry to hear about the loss of your wife, 
Welcome to CDH. Hope you find some new friends on here.
Love and hugs,

Wendy xx

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(@finallyfiona)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1432

@susieonice Hi Suzanne and welcome to CDH from another UK girl, I'm closer to London.  I'm sorry to hear about your loss, but if your feminine side is now rising up to look after you, you're in exactly the right place to nourish and support her with the warmth and friendship of so many girls around the world.  Looking forward to getting to know you 🙂

Hugs,
Fiona xxx

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(@jessicacynthia)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 167

@susieonice Welcome to CDH.

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1765

@susieonice Welcome to CDH,

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2135

@susieonice 

Hi, Suzanne, I'm glad you've found us. Nothing can take away the pain of loss but the understanding and support you'll have from all of us may help by offering you a place to share with like-minded others.

Sadly, there are quite a few of our members who have suffered the loss of their partners, some who knew and supported, others who never knew. Most, if not all, say that crossdressing and being able to share their feelings here have helped them to cope. I truly hope you also find that.

In any event, if you need help navigating the site, or in any other way we can help, don't hesitate to ask.

Welcome to the family.

Allie x

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Duchess
(@susieonice)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@alexina Hi Allie, I'm having difficulty navigating the site, there's so much to see.  Where, how should I start? I have some questions, mostly very simple ones, but I don't want to waist anyone's time by posting in the wrong place. Thanks for your help. Suzanne

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5097

@susieonice 

It doesn't matter if the questions are simple ones 🙂

Just send Allie, me or any of the other staff members a private message and we'll help you out. You honestly will not be wasting anyone's time!

Ellie x

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Ambassador
(@alexina)
Joined: 1 year ago

Illustrious Member     Fife, United Kingdom
Posts: 2135

@susieonice 

Hi, Suzanne, don't worry too much about posting in the wrong place, all new posts are seen at the top of the thread until a new one pops up. It'll have time to get some replies.

Secondly, we can move topics to the correct forum.

Ellie's given good advice, for anything (or things) specific, just send me or any one of the team a private message (you can do that by clicking on my name at top of my reply, that'll take you to my home page and you'll see the options on the banner where my profile pic is).

Generally, most of us go to either the forums or chat first. 

At the top of any page, you'll see the Crossdresser Heaven sign and your pic or avatar. Next to that there are three bars, clicking on them will open a menu with options, most of them have a plus sign and clicking on that gives you more options.

See how you get on with this and I'll await your message.

Allie x

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@bellaz76)
Joined: 4 months ago

Honorable Member     London, Middlesex, United Kingdom
Posts: 308

@susieonice welcome lovely susie - so pleased you have found this wonderful place , I'm sure you will love it as much as we all do! 🙏🥰😍

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3964

@susieonice Welcome to CDH, Suzanne! 

CDH is a great base to use as a starting point for crossdressing again. I look forward to hearing more about your upcoming CD adventures. 

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Lady
(@prettytoes)
Honorable Member     alfred, Maine, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

maybe someday we will meet in a nursing home and be able to tell the stories of our cd adventures. not like the other cds that never took the steps outside their comfort zone. i'm about to write a bit im probably going to call fear or something like that. (COMING SOON)

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Duchess
(@susieonice)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

Who is going to be 'nursey' ? xx

 

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(@aliceunderwire)
Illustrious Member     Near Burlington, Vermont, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Suzanne,

Welcome to CDH.  It’s nice to meet you.

Alice

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Welcome Suzanne to CDH nice to meet ya touching opening you gave and so sorry for your lost arms open hope you find this community a place of comfort and happiness indeed 

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Duchess
(@susieonice)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@erinb Appreciate the hugs.

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Lady
(@jml)
Reputable Member     Near Boston, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

Hi Suzanne,

Welcome to CDH.

Joan

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Suzanne welcome to CDH it's nice to meet you, 

I'm so sorry to hear about your wife, 

I'm a mature crossdresser too I've been dressing most of my life since I was about 8 or 9 years old when I tried my older sisters lingerie on back in the 60's, 

I'm a UK girl too I'm down in Shropshire, I'm sure there are lots of girls near to where you live who will be happy to meet up with you for a coffee and a, chat, 

Love Roz ❤️ 

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Suzanne -

Welcome to CDH. Sorry to hear of the loss of your wife. 

XOXO
Suzanne

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

Welcome Suzanne to this wonderful place and already you have received warm welcomes.

Thank you for your introduction and so sad to hear of your loss.

Your tale is quite typical of many where that gap in dressing is where marriage or commitments put dressing into the background but the desire never goes away and later in life it comes back with a vengeance.

You are most welcome here and am sure that you will get a lot of encouragement and support from the wonderful ladies here. Enjoy your time here and wish you a very happy time here.

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Duchess Annual
(@firefly)
Noble Member     Panama, Panama, Panama
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Suzanne.

Welcome to CDH. A friendly, understanding and supportive community. 

Sorry for the loss of your wife. Everyone finds their own way to deal with the pain. One gets used to absences, but loved ones are always missed. She will beat inside your heart encouraging you to continue on your path. It's the way I see it and experience it.

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

🍒🍒🍒 Hi Suzanne

  Welcome  Back To CDH      Suzanne.

  Good luck Gurl

Huggs 

Stephanie 👠

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Hostess
(@fishingr8)
Illustrious Member     Montana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hiya Suzanne so nice to meet you and happy you found and joined us girls here so with a wealth of knowledge and experience here to learn from do some looking around and reading of the forums and posts from so many ladies here telling there stories about there journeys down the femme road they are on in life.. So girl as a new sister and family member you are welcomed with open arms into our home as well as yours now also.. When you get comfortable with us please join in with a story or two about the life and times of Suzanne as she travels down her own girly path in life.. Now as for making friends here girl there are so many ladies from all over the world to build long lasting friendships with and best of all we are just a simple click away from you .. Once again girlfriend so nice to meet you and hope to see you around for  chat sometime soon..

Stephanie Bass

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Suzanne and welcome to here! I'm another UK girl, just up the road from you. 🙂

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Duchess
(@catherine0918)
Prominent Member     Henderson, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

Hi Susanne,

Welcome to CDH!

I think you will find the community helpful, encouraging and supportive.

Again, welcome to CDH!

Catherine

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Duchess
(@susieonice)
Joined: 4 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Bishop Auckland, South Yorkshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 6

@catherine0918 Thanks for the welcome! xx

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Lady
(@stephanieann)
Honorable Member     Northern California, California, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

Suzanne,  

   Very nice Bio ,  I'm very impressed by your statement " Really Dressing Up". Very Impressive,   Beautiful,  very lady like, wonderful to see that . 💓

Huggs 

Stephanie👠

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