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(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

my very long post from last night has been locked which is a little troubling, but I want to express gratitude for what response I have gotten and say I am very happy to be here. I get giddy seeing myself as a “Lady.” Sorry I need a lot of help, if it seems to be too much just remember we all need to start somewhere.

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 TAMI
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(@tami)
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Joined: 8 years ago

Good for you no apologies needed! You are not alone my lady!

Tami

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Lady
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(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you Tami. It’s no one’s job to be my therapist here, but I am in a scary spot in which my life went from pretty normal to having one of the more insatiable thirst for dressing I’ve ever experienced. Every tine I see a woman it’s “why can’t I be cute and cosy like that instead of so hard and stiff. Where’s a dress!?”

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(@elbereth)
Noble Member     Northampton, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Aoife,  and welcome to CDH!  And thank you for your introduction.  I have been here since the end of May and the site has helped along my journey and I feel confident it will for you as well.  Please reach out anytime. I am still learning a lot and happy to share what I have learned so far. - hugs, Michelle

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Lady
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(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you Michelle, I would love to hear about the way your wife as supported you as well as some of the ways maybe she's had trouble. I really want to get every angle on how I can present and frame my needs to the love of my life and still have everything I love about the way it is now.

Hearts and rainbows,

Aoife

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(@cksasj)
Reputable Member     United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome to CDH 😀

it was great to see you u in chat last night

kayla

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Lady
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(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Thank you Kayla. I was happy to be there. It can make me pretty envious at times, but I really value the connections I am making and all the steps closer it gets me.

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(@terria67)
Noble Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Hi Aiofe, It was great to meet you in chat. Hope to see you again.

So glad to read your long intro and this one too.

Sounds like you are in a similar situation as others here in CDH. They will help with most any questions you have.

Enjoy your new friends here and all this site has to offer. Best Wishes for everything.

-Terri Anne

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Lady
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(@vanillaballoon)
Honorable Member     Nashville, Tennessee, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Terri Anne, thanks for the care.

I know I may have been a bit excessive but it’s a first step reconciling a lot. My position my not be as overwhelming as having to say “this is who I am and this is what I do,” but at the same time it’s hard not having the release that most of you girls do even if in secret. So much has been staring most of my life and I need it out, it’s become harder to relax and I know what might relax me most. I can’t have any secrets, but the masculinity is killing me and I need out!

hearts and rainbows,

Aoife

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(@elbereth)
Noble Member     Northampton, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Thank you Michelle, I would love to hear about the way your wife as supported you as well as some of the ways maybe she’s had trouble. I really want to get every angle on how I can present and frame my needs to the love of my life and still have everything I love about the way it is now.

Hearts and rainbows,

Aoife

Hi Aoife,

More than happy to share with you.  - hugs, Michelle

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