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Im a happily married man working in NYC looking for someone to dress up with. I want to keep this discreet... I only have dressing experience with my wifes underwear and it makes me feel so sexy. I would love to go a bit furtger and would love assistance from another lady.
Thank you for the reply!
Of course, I can always give you some advice. If you're willing to divulge some derails about your figure... I have quite a bit of experience in fashionable combinations that might give you ideas.
Always welcome, honey
Caty
OK. You tell me what kind of attire you prefer: dress, or skirt and top, or pant and T... Heels? And what height? Or pumps? Etc, also: flashy or elegant or both? Or are you totally at a loss?
Let your fantasy work and tell me. I'll give it some thought and answer you tomorrow.
Kiss,
Caty
Black and tight from head to toe. Cute heals. And something sexy underneath in case I get lucky 😉 (you said fantasy...)
Two more questions,sweetie: colour of your eyes, and the shape of your calves?
Kiss,
Czty
I also have to be discreet about dressing up. I normally try to find a quiet spot in the country and get changed in the car before driving to the next village and going for a walk. On a weekday, this part of the UK is normally quiet. So far I have found that people rarely see behind the disguise (dark glasses help). I have had some wonderful days out. Discount stores have been a good source of clothes so far. I hope this helps to give you confidence.
It definitely helps. Im glad you can find time to walk around feeling beautiful. I hope to fimd that confidence soon 🙂
Hi Jack, I've been thinking about your dressing question. Since you didn't tell me the color of your eyes or the shape of your calves, I will have to improvise a bit.
Since you want black and tight, well, that's a simple one: a slimfitting dress will do the job, of course, but there are so many styles even there: lace, jersey, silk, anything stretshy... So, that's up to you. The stockings then. If you legs are shapely and your calves are not muscular, you can do whatever you like. If you have somawhat "male" legs, go for a fantasy stocking: it is better in hiding anything you don't want to be noticed. High heels? Definitely laquered! But be careful about thick soles - personally, I don't like them. Will you be waring a wig? On its colour depends anything you might want to add: necklace, maybe a little shawl, earrings...
Well, have a go, hun, and let me know what came out !
Enjoy, Caty
Oh, and I forgot the underwear! If you want to dress up really tight, pick something equally tight: you dan't want to show your knickers through your dress, do you?
Love, C.