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(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi folks,

I am a 43 year old crossdresser from Newfoundland Canada, here is a bit about me.

After almost 40 years of rejecting this aspect of myself I decided that I had to accept it and stop feeling bad about wanting to dress in feminine clothing. The big step was telling my wife, eek! Fortunately she is very supportive and accepting, Phew!!  Although she is not ready to see my small collection of clothes, or to see me dressed she has been amazing and I love her!!

Since coming out I no longer experience the shame that used to accompany every crossdressing experience - such freedom!  I am only out to my wife, so dressing is still in private, but traveling for work gives me a lot of private time 🙂

Because I am only out to one person I still feel isolated, I have joined this community in the hope of connecting with like-minded folks to discuss challenges and experiences.

 

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Hostess
(@pattygurlcd)
Noble Member     Louisville, Kentucky, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Delora,

Welcome Its so nice to meet you.

You will love it here.

The girls are so kind and understanding, not to mention the wealth of knowledge

One bit of advice,Your wife sounds understanding but just don't do what I did and go overboard dressing all the time.

And especially in front of her.

My wife went from supportive to barely tolerant.

A lot of it was when I started acting feminine.

 

Have fun, we're glad your here

Patty

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Lady
Topic starter
(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

To clarify, this feels weird because I am still only just getting to grips with this aspect of me, it still feels weird to talk about it.

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(@rose)
Illustrious Member     Peterborough , Ontario, Canada
Joined: 7 years ago

Delora, happy to welcome you and here never feel isolated no more. Here you can begin this  journey right. From someone just starting to the well experience everyone here enjoys the support and acceptance that is truly unique. Be free to express yourself with many like yourself and with no judgements. Love to chat and share stories and make new friendships. So get comfortable and enjoy being part of a special place that really cares about everyone that passes through our doors. It's so nice having another Canadian here , hi from Ontario. Very nice meeting you.

Stephanie 🌹

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(@Anonymous)
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Patty,
Thanks for posting that advice; it's something I will try to avoid.

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(@dlgeb275)
Noble Member     niagara falls, ny., New York, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

Delora, welcome to C.D.H  here is the best  place to chat and learn more about y we x dress.  us girls are very under standing.  read my profile it will tell my side of how i started.

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Lady
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(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Patty, thanks for the advice. I am trying to keep communications as open as possible with my wife, so we have discussed this and she is not ready to meet deLora and I respect that. Maybe one day.

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(@mnewman111)
Famed Member     Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Welcome DeLora!

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(@elbereth)
Noble Member     Northampton, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

DeLora,  I was in a similar situation, took me a long time to actually come out to myself and then telling my wife was frightening but in the end I am glad I did.  She has been very supportive and has found her being a member here very helpful for her as well.  So welcome!

Hugs,

Michelle

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Lady
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(@delora)
Reputable Member     Torbay, Newfoundland and Labrador, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi Michelle,

On my to do list for next time I am home is telling my wife about CDH. It has been very helpful to me and I think I'd like her to at least see it and I'd love for her to member.

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Baroness
(@amylove2dress)
Famed Member     South Western Ontario, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Nice to see another Canadian girl here, though I'm a long way from you in Southwestern Ontario.

Amy

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Duchess
(@augustvaliant)
Noble Member     Long Island, New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Hi DeLora !

Welcome to CDH! You've come to the right place for like mindedness. Jump in and participate. Don't be shy, the ladies here are very friendly

Hugs

Autumn

 

 

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